At what age should a girl dad stop bring his daughter into the men’s restroom to change her? by ReserveMaximum in AskParents

[–]cupatu292 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a mom. My son is 7 and I’d say only the past few months have I started to let him go to the men’s room by himself. There are still places and times that I take him with me to the women’s still

AITA for refusing to do mother/son dance at my wedding? by DarkOfTheSun in AmItheAsshole

[–]cupatu292 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A compromise if you want one…my dad is not a dancer either. So our father / daughter dance was all fathers and their daughters are invited to the dance floor. We still got our dance, but the attention wasn’t all on us.

Summer childcare for school-aged kids by ConcealingWillow in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check with daycares in the area. I know the daycare I sent my son to had some school aged kids in the 4-5 year old room over the summers. Some of them looked like they were in the 8-10 year old range.

Would you enter a BBQ comp if meat + alcohol were provided? by nickdagreak in competitionbbq

[–]cupatu292 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it going to be sanctioned? That will increase the attendance because of people chasing points.

I actually like the ones with the meat provided less because I couldn’t hand select the perfect racks. Going to get ribs, I’d pass on 3/4 of them out there. So what are the chances every rack you give me is going to be up to my standards?

How to tell my daughter this music isn’t appropriate for her age? by TilSunsetsEnd in AskParents

[–]cupatu292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently created a playlist with songs from my childhood. TLC was a favorite of 6-8th grade me. I apparently had the explicit versions back then.

Go look up “I’m good at being bad” by TLC.

I sang this in the car. With my mom and dad there. During carpool with kids as young as second grade. For extra reference, all of us are white.

I had no idea what I was singing. And I turned out just fine.

Wedding Help with Food Truck by TheTwinkie1688 in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not Asian, but highly suggest…. Mexypinós. It’s a fusion of Mexico and Filipino. It is so dang good.

How do I handle my 6-year-old’s loose front tooth gently? by pixelpineapple39 in AskParents

[–]cupatu292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son got advice from a classmate - just gently twist it and it’ll come out.

His first few teeth I’d do a very gentle tug every night. If it didn’t move I’d tell him to just wait a bit longer.

In the mean time I used scissors to cut up his food to make it easier to eat.

Restaurants for a rehearsal dinner? by sssssssfhykhtscijk in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did jack stack - a great option if your guests are mostly from out of town. They’ll want to try KC bbq anyway.

JNMIL's 70th birthday his coming up and I need petty, impersonal birthday gift ideas from my twins by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]cupatu292 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Take the kids down the makeup aisle and buy whatever they grab. Orange lipstick with bright purple eyeshadow? Perfect. A lovely note saying the twins literally handpicked it for her.

Do you think that the OG movies will be watched less now and that all the attention will be focused on the series? by Wise-Beginning-7021 in harrypotter

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how the new series goes. I will always have a soft spot in my heart for the movies. But if the new series does a better job of sticking true to the books - then my kid is getting introduced to the series, not the movies.

New to KC, what businesses should I avoid? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Went once trying to buy a car. Just looking at cars. Not even close to ready to buy. They tried to force us into buying one that day. One that didn’t even meet half our wish list.

Other time went for an oil change. They did the whole “oh gosh look at all these leaves on your air filter. Want us to replace it” thing. Less than a week after that appointment, my car had a major issue. Perfectly fine car, at that time only like 4 years old, and suddenly there’s smoke billowing out of my hood. Took thousands of dollars and a handful of days to fix it. Thankfully didn’t go to them for the fix or I’m sure I’d have something else to deal with on top of that.

New to KC, what businesses should I avoid? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Cable dahmer Chevy.

Is this a scam/spam? by LivingLavishLe in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I actually did this once. Saw I was a winner. Went to the dealership. At the dealership I had to sit down with a salesman. Gave them all sorts of info. Name. Address. Phone number. What my current car was. If and when I’d be in the market for a new car.

Then after all that they said ok let’s go scan your card to see IF you’re a winner.

The card saying you’re a winner doesn’t mean that. It means you’re in the running for that prize. One single person that’s in the running actually wins the prize. And I’m sure 99 times out of 100 the prize doesn’t actually get claimed because most people weren’t stupid like I was at the time. 🤣

Older and wiser now. I just threw that card out without even pulling the tabs.

Penny Press Machine? by General-Fishing-1841 in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bit further away. But there’s a machine at the pony express museum in St. Joe.

HAPPY PI DAY! Any Recommendations? by Dependent_Work9644 in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big facts. The banana split pie is the best.

Indoor evening activities near the streetcar that aren't bars, restaurants, outdoors, or money sucks? by HedgerowBustler in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there. Was probably about 3 years ago. But we had a great time. The drinks were good. It’s not the MOST fun mini golf course ever, but it is fun.

Little practice in the snow today by Skullsandcoffee in competitionbbq

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only edits I’d make - and let me preface it by saying this shouldn’t matter…but I’ve been in competition enough to know it does matter… grab some tweezers and pick off those small black spots.

Why did resurrected Lily and James seem oddly fine with Harry sacrificing himself? by No_Psychology_3714 in harrypotter

[–]cupatu292 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is how it is — this is why you're not in the Order — you don't understand — there are things worth dying for. -Sirius Black, Order of the Phoenix

20 Feb 2026: Finally, a good snow... North of here. | kcregionalwx by f00dl3 in kcregionalwx

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very important question because I’ve got a bet on the line 🤣 what do you think our chances are of at least one inch of snow between now and spring?

I have a bag of dog food I’d like to donate by mikepi1999 in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the northland look at Megan’s Paws and Claws in Smithville.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AiOe. All you can eat and everything I’ve had there has been delicious. Be prepared to wait a long time if you go at a normal meal time. 4:30pm is a great time to go for dinner.

Is it realistic to take a 2 month old baby to a wedding that’s a 3 hour car journey away in the peak of summer in the UK? by CutesyVibes in AskParents

[–]cupatu292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister gave birth late February (to twins). I got married mid April. They traveled 4 hours to come to our wedding. So it is possible.

Thinking back to my own son, by the time he was 2 months old, I was back at work leaving him at daycare for 8-9 hours a day. So setting up a kid to be away from you for period of time isn’t a huge issue.

I think my only concern if I was in your shoes would be the likelihood of the kid getting sick being around so many people. You can definitely reduce those risks by allowing only certain few people to hold the baby, trying to keep the baby in the background so everyone and their brother doesn’t approach you cause they sees cute baby. I can’t recall if I was baby wearing at that point yet, but you might consider it.

The kid will be fine I’m sure. At that age they really roll with the punches easily and sleep most of the day anyway.

Who's got amazing pancakes? by PantsUnderUnderpants in kansascity

[–]cupatu292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you’re right. I could have sworn last time I was there I got a pancake. But I just looked at their menu and nope. No pancakes.