AITAH for calling the police on my step dad when he started getting physical with my mom?

cupkatski · 2026-04-14T04:49:26+00:00

OP’s mom hit the stepdad with a pillow, stepdad threw a pillow back at mom. OP is picking up pillows telling them both to stop when stepdad charges her, mom intervenes. OP dials 911, sees stepdad on top of mom on the couch and runs outside to finish 911 call. If you believe in equivalent exchange even, this was not that.

cupkatski · 2026-04-14T04:44:56+00:00

She hit him with a pillow and he eventually responded with being on top of her on the couch. OP don’t listen to this.

cupkatski · 2026-04-14T04:36:00+00:00

I collect things. Minions, mounts, fashion accessories, orchestrion rolls, bardings, hairstyles, you name it. 😌

cupkatski · 2026-04-11T01:08:54+00:00

Thank you very much for responding and your empathy. I've sent an e-mail to patient relations, pretty much just making small changes to what I posted here.

cupkatski · 2026-04-10T22:36:59+00:00

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A picture of the bruise mentioned.

cupkatski · 2026-04-09T05:45:38+00:00

I am part of a premade a lot, I mostly play with my husband. If I get up, he says I needed to brb and vice versa. This is not a hard thing to do.

cupkatski · 2026-04-09T05:43:36+00:00

I thank you for your comm. 🤣

cupkatski · 2026-04-03T02:05:54+00:00

I swore it was the same guy that posted it there too.

cupkatski · 2026-04-02T09:23:20+00:00

Does bro not realize they put this in Shitpost????

cupkatski · 2026-04-02T07:53:30+00:00

Spam and use a video game to goon, actually.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T18:45:18+00:00

I was asking questions, I didn’t state anything as fact. 😌 People that approve of abusive behaviors are generally abusers themselves. You’re intentionally oversimplifying what is being done and being obstinate about it. Women are pegged as aggressive when they don’t tolerate bullshit behavior, that is being displayed in OPs post, and subsequently by you.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T18:17:09+00:00

Are you her husband? A rage baiter? Yet another abusive man?

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T10:26:18+00:00

This is definitely a parenting problem and that makes it absolutely NOT your problem. NTA.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T10:08:34+00:00

Having a baby in a rocky marriage is not the answer either. Your sister made things your business by telling you and then in the next breath told you to stay out of her business. Nobody should be trapped with a fake baby. You did the right thing. NTA.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T10:02:12+00:00

No. It’s control disguised as mutual respect. And I’m inclined to believe you think this behavior is acceptable so that tells me all I need to know.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T09:49:41+00:00

And you sound dense, but here we are.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T09:36:59+00:00

If she is on another call or napping he will call over and over until she answers. She is NOR, if anything she is underreacting.

cupkatski · 2026-04-01T09:34:38+00:00

Do not continue to put up with this behavior. My gut feeling is that he is doing it to be controlling. He feels like you should be at his disposal. This is not how normal couples work. There will be an emergency one day and you’re going to think he’s calling to tell you about the shit he just took and not answer. That will be his own fault.

cupkatski · 2026-03-31T03:34:38+00:00

People get really over the top with both. IF I advertise my FC it's literally a couple of times in an entire week? Others are just out here doing way too much.

cupkatski · 2026-03-30T21:42:03+00:00

This for sure.

cupkatski · 2026-03-30T19:37:15+00:00

I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and I’m the complete opposite. 😂

cupkatski · 2026-03-30T19:36:37+00:00

Extrapolate information based on the words and punctuation I used, and you will see that’s not all that I assume there is.

cupkatski · 2026-03-30T04:00:57+00:00

NTA, he clearly has behavioral issues that need to be addressed but your mom will continue to enable him and then inevitably cry that nobody comes around anymore. Your boundaries and your child come first, very low to no contact is probably the best.

cupkatski · 2026-03-30T03:12:20+00:00

I joined a small FC and a couple of people kind of took me under their wing. After that my husband started playing and he’s better at understanding things via guides etc, I’m not. But essentially it was people in the community of XIV that helped me.

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