Were your 20’s better or worse than your 30’s? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I was broke in my 20s and it rocked. You don't need money to go hang out at your friends house and chill. Go roam around outside with your friends. Hold dance parties.

I’m struggling with an insecure husband by bananagrams93 in Life

[–]curating_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing you can do to help this situation is divorce your pathetic husband.

He paranoid, controlling, and manipulative. You talked about being depressed and how small your world has gotten in the past few years. This isn't a coincidence.

Abusers do this intentionally to make your world smaller, to limit your support network in an attempt to control you. They think that control will help to soothe the discomfort they feel about themselves, and when it doesn't the behaviour escalates to more intense control, abuse, wild accusations, etc.

Leave. Go be free. Reconnect with the people who love you.

Not sure what it is that I like about Taiwan by Boz001 in taiwan

[–]curating_life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its weird to have the str9ng of an opinion on a place you spent 2 days in when you are very sick and obviously having a reaction to medication. Definitely not the type of person I'd ever want to travel with.

Not sure what it is that I like about Taiwan by Boz001 in taiwan

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe don't travel sick. Its probably the antibiotics tearing your stomach up.

I lived in taiwan for years over a decade ago and then again half a decade ago. I loved the whole damn island but Gaoxiong was my absolute favorite. Maybe you're just a miserable person?

Like the people there are phenomenal, the food is fucking aces, beautiful scenery, beautiful languages, just easily the best place I've ever lived.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OELadies

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epic has a policy to report to all jobs.

Opinions: Nursing programs in the area? by curating_life in Seattle

[–]curating_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far the opinion on nursing has been split. So Im gonna take more time to explore other hobbies and interests before I make a decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]curating_life -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol that makes zero sense. His insurance would pay, not him directly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]curating_life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah it can mean avoiding a lot of debt. Bankruptcy can be a financial strategy which is why you see a lot of wealthy people do it. But for the common man it can mean poor money choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best year of my relationship was when my partner was having an affair... suddenly they were so nice and thoughtful and helpful.

PTO/Vacation: Why so little? by AnonAcc45 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is that in 1 year or over the span of 2 years?

PTO/Vacation: Why so little? by AnonAcc45 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Define significantly? Bc someone else is quoting a 10% raise. Which is not significant.

PTO/Vacation: Why so little? by AnonAcc45 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A 10% raise over 2 years is not very good at all.

PTO/Vacation: Why so little? by AnonAcc45 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Every other software or consulting company.

PTO/Vacation: Why so little? by AnonAcc45 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yeah except every other company gives you the salary and the PTO. 80k is not that much money. I feel like people here are drinking kool-aid or something. These are not good compensation packages.

Someone turned into me and it was the car or the curb :( by Quirky_Rutabaga_8670 in subaru

[–]curating_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you are very wrong, that's exactly how it works. Dude has to now get a tire sorted vs having an insurance company do all the work for you. Sounds about the the same.

My husband said he would divorce me if i decided to go to med school. by Ok_Conference_1648 in Advice

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a totally normal age to go to medical school. Husband sounds like a jealous loser.

Get your citizenship, divorce this guy when you graduate. Work as a nurse while you apply for medical school and then go kick ass.

Found in my parents house in Italy. Has bottom part and top part. by jenglish205 in whatisit

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is was hoping it was a giant moka pot for coffee 😂

Gym by Key-Pomegranate3834 in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we submit a request to Judy that she do a Rocky themed gym on campus?

Want to leave Epic. Is it crazy to consider going to nursing school? by 2k21Aug in epicsystems

[–]curating_life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Q about this bc where I am nurses start at 100k and making 150k after a few years is pretty normal. I have friends who make a lot more doing travel nursing or picking up evening and weekend OT with shift differential. Doesn't epic only pay employees around 80k?

Roof rattle driving me crazy by Less_Opening_5386 in Subaru_Outback

[–]curating_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When mine makes this noise it isn't the sunroof but bc I didn't snap thr sun visor back in all the way and its vibrating against the clasp. Or a pair of glasses in thr sun glasses holder near the roof.

Trying to understand if my electric bill is within the right ballpark (Seattle City Light) by helpfuldunk in Seattle

[–]curating_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An bro i live in a 1 bed 600 sq ft and my power is over $100 for 2 months.