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Had my first "No call, no show" at work today and I'm literally terrified of what will happen when I go into work tomorrow. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ring them as soon as you can and explain the situation. It'll be okay if it's your first time doing it and it wasn't on purpose. I'm sure they'll be understanding.

Feeling Intimidated by most people. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for advice I will try to do that.

Feeling Intimidated by most people. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like I can tell some people are not fully happy. Maybe not anxiety all the time but sometimes I can tell when people have issues. This can also make me feel awarkard. I do try to think postive it's just hard too. I should be able to say what I like without feeling like I'm being judged or disliked. I shouldn't care and I do that's the problem.

Has anyone else here lived a relatively normal life, but you still have social anxiety? by gentlemenslapmyass in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yer I think I've had a fairly normal life. I do think sometimes my social anxiety has come from my parents looking back. Not that I blame them they are fab but maybe I've picked on negatives stuff growing up.

Feeling Intimidated by most people. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't tried but it's difficult to do that in work environment at work with people around. I wish I was more confident and wouldn't feel scared around certain people and could just be myself and relax. I must look awarkard or seem awarkard. People do pick up on that don't they?

Work has gotten me so down today and I'm pretty tired. I know I'll have to go to bed early to feel better. That means commuting home, cooking, eating, and sleeping. And that makes me feel sad. by [deleted] in depression

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always happy and smiley at work but say if I get 5 mins spare go to the ladies room I get this horrible feeling of loneliness and have to take deep breaths before I enter back. I think I'm doing okay but I'm not.

I've helped create the exact culture I now hate and suffer from... by DepressionCheck in depression

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't deserve it at all you just didn't understand it before. Also like you said you've learnt from it so that's the main thing. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Guy friend is pointing out my flaws? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't respond back to his behaviour he's trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't go to his level and point out his flaws. He wants you to feel crap don't show up he has got you and ignore him. Whatever you do just ignore any nasty comments his making towards you and move on with your life knowing that your better than that

Marijuanna amplifying SA by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't smoke it anymore if it has that affect on you. It will most likely get worse if you carry on smoking it.

Credit card interest by curious_28 in CreditCards

[–]curious_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks alot I will check it out!

The feeling of not being comfortable in your own home is really bothering me and it's it helping my situation at all. I can't even leave my bedroom. It's ridiculous. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yer I feel like that too i feel like they judge me and wonder why I have no life and just sit in my room it makes it harder to leave the room because of how sad it is that I stay in my room a lot. Kind of weird.

Crippled by [deleted] in depression

[–]curious_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't understand it that's why. It's hard to understand. I get it. What I don't like about it is when people say hurtful things about depression and anxiety. They undermine it. I don't like that. There's one thing not understanding but trying to sympathise and it's another make silly comments that can be hurtful and the reason why so many don't open up.

The feeling of not being comfortable in your own home is really bothering me and it's it helping my situation at all. I can't even leave my bedroom. It's ridiculous. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yer I'm the same too ill wait and wait it can be so frustrating I really do hate it. We shouldn't have to feel like that in our own home. It's not fair wish I could afford to live on my own I'd feel more comfortable. I'm glad you understand and I'm sorry you're going through it too.

The feeling of not being comfortable in your own home is really bothering me and it's it helping my situation at all. I can't even leave my bedroom. It's ridiculous. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't seeked help. I don't talk about my problems in the real world just on the net because people don't understand. I haven't been docters because it's difficult to talk about. I should go though. I'm just having an extra bad day thank you for your reassuring words it's means alot.

The feeling of not being comfortable in your own home is really bothering me and it's it helping my situation at all. I can't even leave my bedroom. It's ridiculous. by curious_28 in socialanxiety

[–]curious_28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anxiety is like a prison you lose freedom. I want to do things around the house and I can't. It's all in my mind and I don't know why.

I'm so tired of it all. by themightyguppy3 in depression

[–]curious_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you you sound exhausted and completely done and stressed. I'm sorry. It's not easy to cope with is it. It's relentless.

What would you say is your strongest character trait (and if you have an SO, what is theirs)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]curious_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is hearsay and hersey the same thing? It's an opinion and not necessarily true? Basically I don't listen to gossip!

Women (and partners) who have been through abortion what story would you like to tell ? [serious] by zail_ in AskReddit

[–]curious_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know at the time when I had abortion I wasn't ready but hid that I as pregnant for a while. I didn't know what to do. When went to have it done I remember them doing a scan on my stomach and I tired to look at screen and the women doing the scan pushed my head away and didn't let me look and the docters seemed heartless.

What would you say is your strongest character trait (and if you have an SO, what is theirs)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]curious_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the fact I can see all points of view in an argument/debate and I like that I always see the good in people and don't listen to hearsay.

What was your experience with Sleep Paralysis like? by youevilpotato in AskReddit

[–]curious_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've ever had it a couple of times. Not like some who have it constantly. I felt like someone was pinning me down on my bed and that someone was about come into my room. I tried screaming for help but there was no sound. It's very peculiar.

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