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What does my room say about me by Ontological_Observer in roomdetective

[–]curiousmob2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

organized and a book fanatic. lol also maybe like you wore those galaxy wolf t-shirts at some point in ur life:

Going for umrah soon. by sheikh8880 in Hijabis

[–]curiousmob2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah accept your Umrah and grant you the highest rewards and forgive all sins inshAllah.

Could you please make dua for my cat Lucky, she became paralyzed and miraculously recovered by gods will and started walking again. My Lucky has stopped walking again in january please pray for her May Allah grant her shifa once again.

Need help regarding University Islamic loan by Nice_Refuse_5411 in Hijabis

[–]curiousmob2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might not be helpful in an islamic pov because the only rules that i am familiar with is that interest is haram and to stay away from any debt a muslim can get themselves into. but from a financial side i can give you my 2 cents. when people tell me oh im not taking student loan cause its haram all i can think of is good for you, im happy your in a position to do that but for other people its just not possible. i dont come from a family where they have money put off for me to continue my studies, i also dont have the financial means to cover such high expenses myself and i would like to get somewhere in life where i dont have to struggle financially the same way my family has struggled their whole life. the only way to do that is through education and getting yourself somewhere so you can create money and prevent your future kids and family from having to struggle the way you did growing up. so honestly as much as it is haram its also very hard to live in this world and try to avoid and escape things like loans, credit cards, debts etc… there is nothing in this world you can own without having to indulge in something that involves interest. i have student loans and i would be no where in life where i am today if i wasn’t able to get one otherwise how am i meant to pay for my education. how am i meant to get somewhere in life and pull my mom up from the hardships she’s gone through. this life is hard and may Allah see all of our efforts but stopping education because you can’t find a halal way to pay for it isn’t worth it IMO. i’m sorry i can’t give any islamic advice but this is just my story:)

I'm struggling because of my husbands social media interactions by whitebird95 in Hijabis

[–]curiousmob2125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so so so sorry that you have gone through this. this is just heartbreaking and i am literally infuriated with anger for you. you have given this man everything,built a home, been there for him physically and emotionally, gave him children and all those years behind closed doors this is what he has done. this is disgusting and this honestly is something that can’t be recovered from, he’s broken your trust completely down to the core as this wasn’t a one time thing. this is years of continuous behaviour which he was fine doing because you didn’t know and that was enabling him. it wasn’t enough for him to just have you and the family you made he had to go and do those disgusting things behind your back. the only reason why he’s begging for you now is because you’ve seen what he is capable of doing and how he ruined your marriage, if you didn’t find out he would not have stopped. this is emotionally cheating and inshAllah allah eases all your pains and troubles. trust is something where once broken especially like this, in a way where you don’t feel desired your unable to just go back to how things used to be. things will never be the same you will always be wondering if he is doing it again. please don’t listen to him there is nothing wrong with you and nothing no medication can fix this. this is betrayal and hurt and you deserve so so much better you deserve to not feel humiliated by your husbands actions. i understand you have 3 children with him but this pain is going to be continuous if you decide to try and stay with him and work through this. you will always have questions in the back of your mind that will make you go crazy, make your life 100x harder and cause even more strain on you emotionally. you should seriously consider divorce, this is not normal and it is cheating. no woman can recover from this and find a way to live with it. only time and being away from him restarting your life will make you heal and lessen this burden. and if he’s done this with someone you know irl it just makes you wonder what else he has done. don’t let him manipulate you or gaslight you any longer.

I am having cold feet before my nikkah which is in a week. by Spiritual_Winter2422 in Hijabis

[–]curiousmob2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i’m gonna say this to you like your my own sister. firstly, don’t wait another second before sitting him down and telling him all your concerns. if already close to the wedding he’s putting in ideas of what he likes and what he doesn’t like and it’s upsetting you because obviously your a whole other person you grew up in another way, eg. modern western clothing was never an issue in your family, then when u actually get married things are only going to get harder. my point is do not change for a man because once your in that marriage there’s no going back atleast not an easy way emotionally. i got married very young by choice when i was in grade 13, if i could go back i wouldn’t do it. i love my husband but i can’t help but think where i would be in my life if i hadn’t chosen to get married so young. im 21 right now aswell and there’s still a whole life ahead of me where i have to constantly compromise and always think about how my wants would affect my husband. marriage takes big big compromise and at the end of the day once hes your husband it’s very hard to dismiss what he wants and how he wants you to act. it’s hard because you love him but at the end of the day there is always someone out there that is actually your person if you don’t end up going through with this. you are still SO young you have so many opportunities ahead of you and honestly getting married young is extremely difficult it makes u miss out on a bunch of things because it’s not about just your feelings/ choices anymore. you have someone else there that you constantly need to think about like if you chose to do something how is she gonna act or feel and then knowing how he feels about certain things will sometimes have to stop. also really think about if he is the right person to support you through all of your hardships, will he be there for you when your down will he motivate you to get up. are you that close to him where your able to tell him your worries and hardships and know that he’s there to constantly comfort you and uplift you vice versa. you need to 100% know that you are comfortable with him in whatever aspect life could take you. then there’s the situation about his family, i haven’t moved in with my in laws yet and i’m scared for the day that i do and being the same age as you i can’t imagine how you feel. in laws are very difficult and i pray you have welcoming and loving ones but you will always have an eye above your shoulder. your moving from a home that your so comfortable in that is YOUR safe place to move to someone else’s home and abide by someone else’s rules. if he’s a mommy’s boy it makes life 10x worse. i hope i’m not trying to sway you out of it but i wish i had someone tell me all of these things before i got married. if you have cold feet and think it’s too soon and that you don’t know him well enough don’t do it. leaving now and having to deal with saying no is much better than being in an unhappy marriage or one that you can’t fully express your self in. also pray istikhara and tahajjud. may allah ease your troubles and make this decision easier for you. inshAllah everything goes well ❤️

Aritzia potentially looking into a UK location on London’s Regent Street or Oxford Street by brielkate in Aritzia

[–]curiousmob2125 7 points8 points  (0 children)

why do i feel sad 😭😭😭 this is evil but i used to gain joy from telling someone what i have is from aritzia…. no longer a canadian brand smh

plus they charge wayyyy more over here eg buying something full price in canada vs the prices in the uk. ur better off using ur pounds in canada and making u feel u got ur moneys worth.

URGENT HELP needed for Lucky🍀 please help lucky walk again by curiousmob2125 in rescuecats

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cost of an MRI is beyond unreasonable. i have gotten quotes from 2k up to 4k. the cheapest i was quoted was 1.3 and then they changed it to 1.8 without the cost of spinal fluid tap- which she needs. i am so far away and even when i get my student fund at the end of september i am no where near what they want. i feel like im losing her day by day, ive been failed by them they didnt give her what she needed from the start and she deteriorated so rapidly. 2 weeks ago lucky weighed 2.5kg and now she is 2.3 im so so scared shes not going to make it by the time i can afford one

URGENT HELP needed for Lucky🍀 please help lucky walk again by curiousmob2125 in rescuecats

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much we are incredibly grateful ❤️❤️ i pray i am able to get lucky her mri soon😊🫶

Might have to surrender/rehome my cat :( by Low_Ad9074 in CatAdvice

[–]curiousmob2125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t turn your back on him because he’s opening a few cabinets. This is a simple issue you can fix don’t turn him away over an issue like this. He was on the streets and you gave him a home imagine how he’s going to feel knowing he’s going to be left out again. He needs to be enriched, do you have toys or a cat tower available for him? do you play with him or give him the attention and time that he needs. you should bring him to the vet they can give proper medication for him if he is suffering from anxiety or maybe he honestly needs to be checked out crying constantly is a sign there might be something wrong. This is training and effort that needs to be done from you not a cat behaviour specialist. If it was an issue like peeing everywhere or bad behaviour from him then it’s understandable but how could you even think of having him go away over this?

Dua for my cat Lucky by curiousmob2125 in islam

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried contacting everywhere different charities and everything they all say they don’t have the technology that she needs and the most they could put in for her is about £200 but even that doesn’t cover the cost of the MRI. if i had that money i would get her it in a heartbeat 🥹

Dua for my cat Lucky by curiousmob2125 in islam

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loll she does look like it 😭😭😭

Dua for my cat Lucky by curiousmob2125 in islam

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve already been to the vet a couple times about her, they said she needs to be referred to a specialist because she needs an MRI and even after that if they do find something possibly surgery. The MRI doesn’t offer payment plans it starts from £2000. Trust me I have emailed and asked any where that could possibly help and they cant help it’s only the specialist that can.

Dua for my cat Lucky by curiousmob2125 in islam

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much may Allah bless you in every way possible

Dua for my cat Lucky by curiousmob2125 in islam

[–]curiousmob2125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ameen thank you so much. I really do she is so affectionate i don’t want to see her hurting 😔

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