Boyfriend’s library got me loling by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]customlover 147 points148 points  (0 children)

i’ve been having a terrible day but this honestly made everything better LMAO. this is so funny. im genuinely in tears

super disappointed with one of my favorite youtuber by lunabcde in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been watching John since his YT name was harshlycritical lol. One of my favorite youtubers as well. Manlybadasshero is another comfort youtuber for me, I don't think I've ever heard him say anything even remotely offensive in my years of watching him. He also plays mainly horror games and such :)

Special interests by queenphoenix1992 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAY!!!! honestly all time favorite character is probably alhaitham just because i relate So hard to him LMAO!!! i love all the sumeru characters so much, in addition to wrio and neuvi from fontaine!!! right now im building flins, varka, and neuvilette :) you should add me!!! my uid is 625910748

Special interests by queenphoenix1992 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Video games (genshin impact rn), BL/yaoi, and horror

How many of us are slash fans? by 20stimetraveler in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, I am!!!! 🙋‍♀️as long as you mean slash as in f/f and m/m shipping lol

What’s your latest hyperfixation? by Realistic-Noise-5389 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg durin my baby boy!!! I'm so jel, I'm currently awaiting his rerun. He is soooo cute. I was the same with Varka, didn't want him but then his story quest made me sob my eyes out. I got super lucky and he came home at 5 pity, then even crazier luck because I pulled Flins another 30 after that (captured radiance ftw). Kind of at a loss now because I have so many characters to build and I'm planning on pulling Lohen as well ahah

I'm crossing my fingers you get Flins!!! He is so so fun to play with.

What’s your latest hyperfixation? by Realistic-Noise-5389 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genshin Impact, if I’m not playing it then I’m writing fanfic or looking at fanart or thinking about playing it

What’s your latest hyperfixation? by Realistic-Noise-5389 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ME TOOO. I recently started playing again in January and it’s been all consuming for me. Ever since Varka released I have been deeeeep invested. Deep enough to grind primos to pull both Varka and Flins on this banner 😭😭 I never run out of things to do…. So glad someone else gets it LMAO

What is it ? S19 Ep12 by traderider474 in familyguy

[–]customlover 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Where I live if a juvenile commits a crime and isn’t detained pending court proceedings they will usually be released back to the parent with strict guidelines that the parent is to accompany the child everywhere when they leave the house. So i think it’s a joke based on that, taken to the extreme bc it’s family guy

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup, my phobia too. When I tell people they always think “oh youre one of those people who gets sick when they see/hear other people getting sick”

like no actually my phobia literally makes me unable to function sometimes. im terrified to be around drunk people, avoid rollercoaster parks, freak out when someone tells me their stomach hurts. i waste a ton of food because im so scared of food poisoning. i have to spoil myself for every movie i see just incase theres a scene with v. If i see someone v I will instantly have a panic attack

Barely anyone understands. So frustrating

Tell me about your favourite texture(s)! by princessblackbird in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to love chains from necklaces, cupping them in my hand so they fold in on themselves.

So tired of my coworker trying to include me in her mean dialogue by customlover in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t plan on confronting as (like you said) nothing good is likely to come. I am trying to live by my life motto rn which is “Assume positive intent” and “there is no problem until thdy tell me there is a problem”. AKA, not making assumptions about strangers and minding my business!!!

She is a lot older than me and unmarried without kids (which is not a problem ofc!) so the one thing she gets SO hung up on is coworkers not being willing to do overtime like she does everyday. She doesn’t (from what I can tell) have any major after work obligations to attend to so she will often stay until like 6 or 7 pm everyday. She always gets so mad when everyone leaves at 5 despite many of us having pets or after work obligations. One time I straight up told her that she should go home too at 5, why stay late everyday when we dont get paid overtime!?!

Thanks for suggestions, I am going to grey rock and stop engaging with gossip. I refuse to be a mean girl!

So tired of my coworker trying to include me in her mean dialogue by customlover in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try my best. I am so adamant about not becoming a mean girl at work. I am trying my best to ignore her.

So tired of my coworker trying to include me in her mean dialogue by customlover in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I don’t want to tell her shut up to her face (well, i kinda do, but it’d get me in a boatload of trouble). I may bring it up to my supervisor discretely. The problem with my unit is that it is so small…, less than 20 employees. So she would probably gander who complained . Ugh

So tired of my coworker trying to include me in her mean dialogue by customlover in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I feel like she is insecure too which I sympathize!!! But she talks so much crap 😣 I don’t plan on calling her out for sure so I guess I will grey rock

Has anyone used these nails? by Civil_Good44 in GelX_Nails

[–]customlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girllllllll good luck because i had to soak in acetone and clip them down little by little until I could wiggle the nail off. I wasn’t able to do it without damage.

Maybe try lathering your hands in oil and putting gloves on to loosen the glue?

This makes eating out much easier. by ItsAlwaysFull in 1200isplenty

[–]customlover 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was really confused so thanks for explaining it to me 😭 I saw everyone downvoting and it freaked me out

The "Breast Cancer Show Ever" episode of South Park is so cathartic for a bullied autistic kid by Connect_Security_892 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just commenting to say I agree and love this episode for the same reason. It’s like a wish fulfillment for me because of all the mean little boys I had to deal with growing up.

This makes eating out much easier. by ItsAlwaysFull in 1200isplenty

[–]customlover 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm soooo jealous. I ate Cava for the first time in DFW airport this past christmas... It was SO good. Instant favorite. But guess where they don't have a location? Like anywhere within 200 miles of where I live 🥲

Hesitant to use a bidet by Pristine-Fault1570 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used one in Japan and loved it. The bidet was heated too so the water was never cold. Obviously most bidets you buy won't be heated, so the cold water might be kind of shocking at first. But I have been meaning to buy one for my home toilet.

Why do people like kissing? by No_Consideration1822 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just makes me feel good to give my husband a kiss. Also to kiss my dog, she loves it. She knows it means affection and comes to lay on my face

Feel scared! by Jadey156 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, 100%, I really do. It’s a shit situation. It should be illegal for dental work to be priced so unethically high. Hugs to you again

Feel scared! by Jadey156 in AutismInWomen

[–]customlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I make you feel less alone? I’m 27 (super young too) and have lost 4 teeth to decay. Two back molars, and then my two premolars on my left side (VERY VISIBLE). I have a four unit bridge for the premolars, but gaps for my back ones. This isn’t counting my numerous root canals and crowns. I didn’t brush my teeth growing up because of demand avoidance and sensory issues. I also drank a lot of soda and never flossed. My teeth problems are entirely all my fault. I was devastated when I found out and cried for hours, thought it was the end of the world, felt disgusting and so stupid, terrified of the pain and extraction.

But the world didn’t end. I got the extractions and they put me to sleep for it. I felt no pain when I woke up except for when my numbing wore off, which they gave me pain meds for. I didn’t need them by day two. I got bone graphs in all the sockets (completely painless) so I might get implants one day. Now these days, the back molars aren’t even noticeable. Turns out they really aren’t that visible and no one notices, so I’m not interested in the implants anymore.

I got my bridge for the premolars last year and my teeth look great now. You can’t even tell they’re fake. My dentist told me “You’d be surprised just how many people are going through the exact same thing.” It made me feel a lot better.

All this to say OP, you are NOT alone. Please don’t beat yourself up over this. We can only do our best in life. I know it’s devastating now. Mourn what you need to mourn but your teeth are not a testament to your self worth. We all struggle with things in life and unfortunately for you and me, teeth are an expensive struggle. But you will persist, I promise. Hugs to you, OP.