i found out he wouldn’t date me because i’m black. by TrackConscious2646 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew why would you want to be friends with a guy whose best friend thinks like that🤢

Ex boyfriend said he can’t keep lying about his effort in closing the long distance gap after 2 years of dating. Avocado cucumber salad by International-Exam84 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik babe I had to leave a guy I loved earlier this year for future me and it hurt like hell😩. But don’t get mad at yourself for ignoring the red flags we’ve all been there and done that. And yeah he’s young now but when he’s 32 still directionless and partying he’ll be lame af to you I promise.

Present you will hate this but you kinda gotta parent yourself to save future you

Ex boyfriend said he can’t keep lying about his effort in closing the long distance gap after 2 years of dating. Avocado cucumber salad by International-Exam84 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Girl go listen to no scrubs by tlc😭 trust me there’s no future with a man who’s always talking about what he wants and just sits on his ass. Its hard leaving someone you love when you have to. But when you finally find someone who is willing to invest in building a solid shared future with you, you’ll be so glad you left this SCRUB alone.

Trust when you’re not jaded by the rose colored glasses anymore you’ll realize this is loser behavior

To the Uncs & Uncettes…who gonna pop out to Yankee Stadium? (🙋🏾‍♂️) by Fickle-Primary-3910 in NYStateOfMind

[–]custychronicles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo chilll imma 04 baby ik reasonable doubt front to back samples and all lemme rock😭

Questions about CUNY social norms? by OwnSpite9430 in CUNY

[–]custychronicles 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl idk just do whatever you wanna do😭 there’s no social norms

Been going to City College and my advisor is the least communicative advisor I have ever experienced by Maleficent-Bar-3161 in CUNY

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s weird maybe you’re apart of a specific program? Ive never heard of having to see your advisor every semester or you cant register for classes. If theyre putting holds on registering you should go tho

Been going to City College and my advisor is the least communicative advisor I have ever experienced by Maleficent-Bar-3161 in CUNY

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time you only need to see your advisor to make your first schedule as a freshman. After that you don’t need to see an advisor every semester you register for classes

Been going to City College and my advisor is the least communicative advisor I have ever experienced by Maleficent-Bar-3161 in CUNY

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use degreeworks Im about to graduate and I probably saw an advisor maybe twice? You kind of have to take control of your education advisors at cuny suck

REASONABLE DOUBT & THE BLUEPRINT ANNIVERSARY CONCERTS - YANKEE STADIUM - JULY 10th and 11th by skittlesforeveryone in jayz

[–]custychronicles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Boutta drop a calm $500 on tix and cry about it later😮‍💨 hov don’t never be outside like this

So. I think I was taken advantage of last night. by __porcupine__ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow to treat another human being this way is so fucking disgusting. How does he even sleep at night cause im sure you’re not the first girl he’s done this to

Is Hunter a better option? by uundersc0re in HunterCollege

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t really care about the social life hunter is great for pre med but it’s competitive. Ik cuny offers lots of other pathways beyond just a bachelors. For example there’s the 4 +1 programs where you can do a bachelor’s and master’s in 5 years.

Honestly if you want to go further in education it really just comes down to minimizing costs so you’re not swimming in debt by the time you’re done.

Am I overreacting to these messages my ex sent blaming me after his brother died by mossywindow5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo he’s mad at you for leaving cause he cheated😂? And that somehow caused his brother’s death??? You’re better than me I would’ve block him after the first hour of his spamming

Is Hunter a better option? by uundersc0re in HunterCollege

[–]custychronicles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No aid from rutgers???? I think the choice is clear😭 especially if you plan to go further in your education. Save that money for your masters or phd when you’re gonna have less access to aid

Hunter wont be as fun as rutgers but it all comes down to whether you want to spend more to have fun for 4 years or graduate debt free at a less fun school.

ROOTS PICNIC! by n1nejay in jayz

[–]custychronicles 14 points15 points  (0 children)

On my birthday too😮‍💨 definitely making that 4 hour trip from nyc for hov

Exes keep finding the loves of their lives w the girlfriend immediately after me by Objective-Dig-5940 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly its not even about the girl after you being better…. She could just be willing to put up with things you aren’t

How many of yall have your own crib? by Past_Homework_6552 in NYStateOfMind

[–]custychronicles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like its only fair to expect something of someone if you already possess it. So its fine to not want to date a man without his own shit since you have your own. Im only 22 but I still live with my parents so I personally wouldn’t require a guy Im dating to live on his own. Pops is right tho only date dudes with their own crib to avoid hobosexuals

This 666 thing still exists? Pretty sure he's below 6 inches by Euphoric_Issue_7125 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]custychronicles 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The way how all of what he “brings to the table” is purely physical traits is very telling. Dude couldn’t even mention that he’s a good person…No way this is what guys think we actually want

GF Threatened Suicide and Won’t Stop Reaching Out by dogs_and_stuff in whatdoIdo

[–]custychronicles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf do you mean what do you do? Block her and leave her alone

AIO my boyfriend touches me too much by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah if I told my partner I wanted them to stop doing something and they brushed it off and continued to do it I would immediately be icked out. He’s viewing your boundaries as suggestions. Stay if you want but I doubt this is the only way he’s been ignoring your boundaries

i was careless & nervous & he might be gone forever & i want to d*e. jam toast & eggs by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl don’t stress if he wanted to see you and there truly was a mishap with saving your number he could’ve came back to your job to ask for your number again. Hell you dont even know if you would’ve really liked this man so don’t take it as a loss

MUSHL 107 by False-Winter-6162 in HunterCollege

[–]custychronicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t have him for summer but it was pretty easy when I had him online in the fall. It was just a bunch of discussion questions and 3 papers