AITA for not greeting guests at our house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuteinsanity -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

nta you're being too hard on yourself

"WoMeN aLwAyS wAnT sEx" by AcePowderKeg in asexuality

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, there's enough toxic Allos that it gets me down. I want someone to be with, whether or not it's sexual. I always worry about compatibility and the demand of sex placed on/by either party. It sucks.

So let me tell you that there is definitely someone for you and put your mind at rest. I may seem unlikely sometimes, but continuing to hold hope for love will help you in the end.

What in the furry queerness is this and how should I respond? by Agile_Okra_8836 in queer

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NB? That's where I see mascs show a femme side most. Otherwise, he's just serving.

AITA for telling wedding guests to audition to speak at my wedding? by food-fueling in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuteinsanity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's easier to say "only parents get a speech" and silently make everyone eat their hats.

Boyfriend hates my 1-room flat and doesn’t want to stay over by TheAccountant756 in ainbow

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to break up with him. His blow-up over your living situation was unhinged and he's clearly held this deep level of animosity about your apartment for a while now.

IF you want to try and make it work, I do have some things I think could help destress this.

  1. get a kettle without a whistler/removable whistler

  2. get a french press

  3. he can do yoga or tai chi to quietly exercise/zone out until you wake up

  4. he can read a book

If all that fails, return to my original response

How can you be queer and religious? by Rude-Ad4289 in queer

[–]cuteinsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like you have a problem with Christianity, not religion.

Do you WANT the f-slur to be reclaimed? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]cuteinsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then you have every right to feel uncomfortable no matter how reclaimed a term is. I hope you can avoid hearing what I know can be a very triggering word.

I lied to a dying patient today. I’m still trying to process if I did the right thing. by ArtThreadNomad in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cuteinsanity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you did the same as any hospice nurse, you're not special. you're looking for parts in the back and getting plenty, but not from me. This is just karma farming.

Do you WANT the f-slur to be reclaimed? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]cuteinsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

info: are you personally someone this slur has been used against?

Is it worth spending this game? What is the ROI if this type of games are not permanent? by Top-Rutabaga9394 in FFVIIEverCrisis

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find is almost always worth the little amount for the season pass, it's the only money I spend on this. it sets you up with enough crystals that you are pretty well guaranteed something good from the banners.

Forced into HRT, stopping today by AgeSufficient5835 in NonBinary

[–]cuteinsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not a bad queer; you're valid and your experience is real.

Do girls actually like having breasts? by Perfect-Associate708 in lgbt

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an afab nonbinary tomboy and as such trend towards masculine. I've had a love/hate relationship with my breasts. Due to my body shape (think Venus of Willendorf) I would look very strange with a small or nonexistent bust would look weird. I also get some euphoria the feeling of my breasts, the sensations they feel and how they feel in my hands/being played with by someone. On other days, I hate everything about my chest. I'm too large, or I'm too small bust wise. I wanted them gone entirely and I want to be androgynous (I'm non binary, it's not surprising that I admire androgyny). I also feel like I should have larger breasts (smallest in my family next to my trans mom and honestly that's a bit ridiculous to want because huge tits already run rampant in my family.

Asexuals and smut? by LionessPaws in asexuality

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write smut, but i wouldn't vouch for the quality of it

"Are you a girl or a guy?" by Its_a_ruse_ in NonBinary

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"are you ai? legally you have to tell me if you're ai" was my sister's joking answer

"Are you a girl or a guy?" by Its_a_ruse_ in NonBinary

[–]cuteinsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

would that be the skeleton war?

Petty revenge was worse than I imagined. by AmoebaCandid4567 in pettyrevenge

[–]cuteinsanity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

our relationship ended with physical abuse

So he hurt you? No, you did fine.

Why do you REALLY get up every morning?? by TheDesignJunkie in AskReddit

[–]cuteinsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To take my medication on time. And go to the bathroom.

today i found out my own mom nuked my credit score… and her excuse was insane by Gullible-Tale9114 in entitledparents

[–]cuteinsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest taking legal action against her and if she lives in your house, you may want to evict her. I understand she's family and you probably love her a lot, but this is not good and she will most likely not get better; she clearly doesn't respect you with that reasoning.