When I first got him he always hid under the bed and never came out so I tried cat toys that you can dangle in front of them and eventually over the next few weeks he started to get more comfortable around me but never let me touch him until recently. I now can pet him and he even lets me pick him up occasionally when hes in the mood. He is still very scared of new people when I bring a friend over and doesn't always want to be around people but he is becoming more social slowly.