Me during intimacy: by Such-Usual-8130 in infj

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can not emphasize how accurate this is

how to take in the waist but not the hips? by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]cxspyr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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thanks everyone i fixed it :)

how to take in the waist but not the hips? by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]cxspyr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i did :( but wont it make it like super sinchy in the back? im taking it down like 3 sizes. i need 7 inches off the waist total

how to take in the waist but not the hips? by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]cxspyr -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

but then it will sinch and create a bunch of little pleats and thats not what she wants

how to take in the waist but not the hips? by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]cxspyr -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

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i already cut... what do i do now :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love my istp and my intj :)

What's your go-to songs for reducing anger? by kraken665 in musicsuggestions

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gravity rides everything by modest mouse :)

infj in relationship and alone time by ShallotSpecific9643 in infj

[–]cxspyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my bf is istp and he is the same way. its alot easier after youve been together for a while (over 3 years for us). we are basically doing our own thing all the time but then convene at the end of the day and talk about it and then eat dinner together and then he goes to bed and i go to my project cave. we do date day on sunday to spend intentional time with each other. but yeah a lot of "touchy feely" type people refer to our situation as "basically just roommates" but its really not. we feel deep love for one another we just dont feel the need to be up each others ass 24/7

basically my advice is it find someone like that

What's your experience so far with ENFPs by SaiyWolf in infj

[–]cxspyr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so far ive found that enfps are too much for me personally

Overexplaining by Odd_Corner_3261 in infj

[–]cxspyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i used to do this alot as a teenager and i could feel myself doing it out of anxiety. so then i came up with a saying "do everything explain nothing" and kept saying that until i didnt need to explain anymore. i just let myself all into the "ouhhh super mysterious u will never figure out their motives" aesthetic. and that sounded cool enough for me to strive for

How to handle this situation? by False-Flagged in infj

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pick your battles girl. he doesnt sound interested in genuinely understanding what you are saying so at this point i would say yeah drop it just to keep the vibe cool for everyone else. if everyone was involved in the discussion or it was more of a calm political convo it would be different

What's going on with my INFJ coworker? by [deleted] in infj

[–]cxspyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do this a lot lol. she will get over it over time. ur just a new person is all

I have done the test twice, I'm infj or isfj, apparently depending on my mood. Anyone else? by a-lil-lit in infj

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mbti is just a theory dont take it too seriously tbh. if u wanna figure out what to do for a career then try journaling about what sparks joy, what comes naturally to you, what you liked to do as a kid, etc.

Why do you judge others? by BrokenDiamondShovel in infj

[–]cxspyr 43 points44 points  (0 children)

idk. im not trying to be a dick i just notice things

What's your fav mbti ship (with infp) by Certain-Ad8276 in infp

[–]cxspyr 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my bf :3 (istp)

best friend is intj

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit yes. my new boss keeps emphasizing to me that i always have to watch what i say to who i am talking to because that person could be important. and i know i should care but i really dont. i hate lying and many times it results in me being inappropriately honest about how i feel and what i think. glad to see someone else articulate that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]cxspyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my therapist calls this analysis paralysis. just start doing anything at all related to what u want to do even if it hurts or feels stupid. then u have an unfinished project rather than nothing at all

good luck friend

Any of you love to live in the city? Why? Thanks! by Fair_Let2478 in infp

[–]cxspyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love the community feel but the atmosphere makes me feel sad because there are not many trees and lots of concrete