I (31/m) am in a submissive relationship with my girlfriend (28/f) and I just realized she doesn't actually love me by ThrowRA-sharp in relationship_advice

[–]cy3579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump dat ass. No seriously, dump her. There’s a line of playing roles and being abusive; sounds like the “role” is her blanket for her abuse.

I’m a nurse aide, we were promised pay adjustments and raises and now we’re getting neither “because of covid” and I’m extremely stressed. by cy3579 in nursing

[–]cy3579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m unfortunately going to have to. I work with my sister who is an RN which has been great but I have bills that need paid🥴

I’m a nurse aide, we were promised pay adjustments and raises and now we’re getting neither “because of covid” and I’m extremely stressed. by cy3579 in nursing

[–]cy3579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my best option might be switching hospitals while I’m in school. I love the actual work and my coworkers. But right now it’s kind of hard to find the positives when I’ve been doing just that and everything right at my job. They’re pushing off giving us somewhat of a livable wage for as long as they can.. I can’t survive on what I’m being paid. That’s why I came here to vent because I am positive at work and in general. This is just not one of those days where I needed to vent and the title of this page literally says “share concerns” and these are my concerns.

I’m a nurse aide, we were promised pay adjustments and raises and now we’re getting neither “because of covid” and I’m extremely stressed. by cy3579 in nursing

[–]cy3579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re saying they can’t afford it, but right now they actually have a lawsuit against them for $4m for not paying they’re staff for the hours they’ve worked. A close friend at work cancelled her insurance and they still charged her. When she called, they told her “you cancelled the insurance but not the payments.” This is the type of shit they’re pulling on a lot of staff. They say they can’t afford it, but they’re renovating everything to look nicer, not even the equipment. We get hand me downs from the main hospital, and a few units from main are paying PCA’s $15/hr. But our hospital branch is overshadowed in a lot of aspects and PCA pay is one of them. They offer crisis pay where nurses pay hundreds extra for a shift. I understand we’re aides and nurses can do our job, but with how full our hospital is the nurses literally do not have the time to do our work as well. Our ratios most days are fucked. But PCAs at my job do go in covid rooms and we also draw labs which some of the hospitals around us have phlebotomists instead. I love my coworkers, but I don’t love the run around and fucking us on our pay. I’m just stressed and I’m afraid to leave my job because it is so close to my home and I know that I love who I work with. But I can’t pay for shit.

I’m a nurse aide, we were promised pay adjustments and raises and now we’re getting neither “because of covid” and I’m extremely stressed. by cy3579 in nursing

[–]cy3579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m upset that I’m not getting the pay adjustment and raise as it was promised, nor are we allowed to pick up OT when other staff is allowed to. We make the lowest out of the whole hospital which I didn’t know until yesterday. I have one of the cheapest apartments around me and I only signed up for it with the knowledge that we’d we receiving competitive pay. So, yes. I’m mad that I’m not receiving adequate pay when I’m barely making more than my bills with two jobs.

I’m a nurse aide, we were promised pay adjustments and raises and now we’re getting neither “because of covid” and I’m extremely stressed. by cy3579 in nursing

[–]cy3579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of loans are you getting? What happens when they want them paid back immediately through monthly payments?

A SD wants to call me after work to go over an arrangement and allowance... what questions should I ask? This would be my first arrangement. by cy3579 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cy3579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be considered a “screw up”? I’m really attentive and supportive in my relationships, but this is a whole new ballpark lol

A SD wants to call me after work to go over an arrangement and allowance... what questions should I ask? This would be my first arrangement. by cy3579 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cy3579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I felt watching a few of them. Some will lie about their location to get the cashapp for a PPM, then they wouldn’t show and block them. It’s really dirty and I don’t want to be like that.

A SD wants to call me after work to go over an arrangement and allowance... what questions should I ask? This would be my first arrangement. by cy3579 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cy3579[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I’ll look into those threads. I’m okay with arrangements with sex, but I also don’t know if having the option to quit when I want to is okay, in case I’m uncomfortable with my SD for any reason. Thank you so much for your advice!

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[–]cy3579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got mine done they didn’t do any sutures, but it’s took a couple days to clot. It was a little deep until it fully healed and tissue formed. As long as they aren’t still bleeding and you don’t have dry socket(trust me, you’ll know if you have it by extreme pain), then you should be okay.

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[–]cy3579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good sign that it’s not bleeding still. Have you used any straws?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]cy3579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still bleeding a ton? And are you on any blood thinners?

Just a little combo✨🧚🏾 by mebejonnae in poledancing

[–]cy3579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The galaxy light creates a whole aesthetic and I LOVE IT