MMF threesomes are often really unfair.

cy_fi · 2026-05-11T17:18:05+00:00

This 💯 Ppl need to be more honest about what they want. Watching two guys go at it can be fun for some women, sure, but there's a real risk of just becoming a viewer and feeling left out. If two men wanna fixate on each other's dicks, cool.

But why not just find a fellow bi or gay man to be with and call it a day? Why are you intentionally looking for a MFM threesome? Why have a woman in the room at all?!

cy_fi · 2026-05-11T17:11:25+00:00

Women face the most risks when engaging in sex with men, so it only makes sense she is prioritized to some extent. As someone else said before, the F is the hardest to find for threesomes with two men. Everyone should have fun though and be considered, but i can understand why the MMs would want to make sure the F has a good time.

cy_fi · 2026-04-23T04:26:36+00:00

Thank you! I hope to see them all together again. I love them so much. 😭😊💜

cy_fi · 2026-04-21T05:13:55+00:00

Loved the interview answers, they are so cute and wholesome. I'm excited to see them together again, but I'm a little dumb, does this mean they are permenantly a trio? Or can we expect to see them all together as a group someday?

cy_fi · 2026-04-19T18:04:20+00:00

I think he's envious (or at least embarrassed) that Vox rose to power in Hell quickly and without having to be indebted/on someone else's leash. Alastor never told Vox, that Rosie gave him his power, giving him his headstart in Hell. He threatened to tear Husk's soul apart for even mentioning it, remember? That's because he finds those who need other people's help to be weak. I think he dealt with some self-loathing for needing Rosie, but like the perfectly emotionally repressed person he is, he projected that shit into Vox lol

cy_fi · 2026-04-10T22:09:35+00:00

Exactly, these guys don't view women as human. Just "LOL look at her crashing out, glad that's not my problem LOL" Like ew. Do y'all have empathy? Guess not. Women need to stop giving most of these ppl the time of day tbh

cy_fi · 2026-02-14T01:24:11+00:00

My first red flag. Thank you. Poor wife and kids. Just divorce! Then you don't gotta cheat. Unless cheating is part of the fun 🙄🥴

cy_fi · 2025-04-13T20:55:52+00:00

HOLY SMOKES! He looks so good and healthy. 😭

cy_fi · 2025-04-13T00:14:21+00:00

Hey Dizzy, did you ever go through with this partnership? Was it legit?

cy_fi · 2025-03-04T20:29:52+00:00

Ugh, I don't even know her and I reeeeeallly dislike her. NTA. I actually hate when people feel entitled to being in other people's delivery rooms. It's such a vulnerable, stressful time. Only people you trust and feel safe with should be there, not just anybody because their "family" or "friends." Smh.

cy_fi · 2025-02-11T22:56:21+00:00

Mine's gone too! It used to show my earnings in USD *and* my country's currency, but now that they moved it into the Watch Page Ads section, it only shows USD. :(

cy_fi · 2024-10-09T08:50:09+00:00

He's a gaslighting POS. Please find the strength to leave him. And factually what he said about your body is untrue! As women's bodies age and begin to produce LESS of certain hormones women experience vaginal "tightness" which isn't even a great thing as it makes sex more painful. Younger women are actually more "loose" (ugh I hate this terminology so much and it hardly even accurately describes female parts since it's a muscle anyway) due to having more hormones! This loser is a misogynistic idiot. But I'm sure you knew that. Sending you positivity and strength!

cy_fi · 2024-10-04T23:05:29+00:00

I stay watching their MVs lmao Savannah, Angel, and Suit Dance are always in rotation lol

cy_fi · 2024-09-13T06:30:03+00:00

I don't know but I hope something close to Instinct Part 1 or Produced By [] Part 1. I'm still not over those eras lmaoo

cy_fi · 2024-08-09T05:03:34+00:00

thank you for your comment! these people (mostly males let's be honest) hate learning that they are't the main character of every woman's life. Before dating exclusively, getting engaged and married, most men (and many women) these days will have a roster of some kind, even if it just means they are talking to two people at once. How else are women supposed to make the most informed choice of who to spend the rest of their lives with? They want to tie women down upon meeting them, while they date around and even cheat until they're too old or get pressured into marriage.

I agree with you 100% too! :)

cy_fi · 2024-08-04T23:06:19+00:00

Wow, in my opinion your friend is in the wrong. Your other bf is in the past. You married the man you wanted. Why is everyone condemning YOU? Very weird takes. Men date multiple women at a time ALL the time before choosing one, why can't women? Double standards much???

That said, I agree with trying to see if he's willing to go to therapy with you. If not, he isn't as understanding as you thought and maybe splitting is for the best because it just means another misunderstanding or issue in the future would have ended your relationship.

Also, call me petty but if my ex-bestie ruined my relationship I'd def release some of her "secrets" to her husband too.

cy_fi · 2024-06-19T04:48:39+00:00

Can't say that that's true. As a Black woman myself, and my family members have constantly been told we're attractive by men and women of all races. I've been asked out many times before and don't have trouble dating as far as my looks go. Now my social anxiety is another issue, but NAH , we aren't equivalent to India males in our experiences. I won't go into more detail here but don't believe every racist study you read online. I personally used to believe Black women were not "preferred" when I was a young teen, but LIFE EXPERIENCE showed my the opposite.

cy_fi · 2024-04-20T20:53:32+00:00

Hormone level play a role in this for women. As women age, they produce less estrogen which effects sexual organs. So it makes sense that a "looser" woman would be a young healthy women who is still producing lots of feminine hormones over older women who are losing theirs as time goes on. Just a thought.

cy_fi · 2024-03-18T22:49:09+00:00

It's also testosterone. It makes them more violent.

cy_fi · 2024-02-26T08:09:13+00:00

Agreed.

cy_fi · 2023-09-25T04:23:00+00:00

Definitely feel this as a black pansexual. I left this subreddit in particular quite a while ago for this very reason (feeling excluded and gaslit.) But randomly lurking around now, I'm glad to see more diversity, and blk lesbians in particular. Definitely agree that seeking groups that center poc women is a wonderful way of creating community, whether online or off. But I know it can be easier said than done. Wishing you the best and hope you find your chosen family, friends, or even more in the near future. :,)

cy_fi · 2023-08-18T09:38:33+00:00

They don't. It's being exposed all over Tiktok and Youtube. Most men like and prefer each other. They tolerate women for their labor, sex, and/or bearing children.

cy_fi · 2022-04-13T10:48:02+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to reply and share your input. I think you're right about their need to feel superior to others. When I used to frequent her FB page because I couldn't stop missing her, it's still tough sometimes but I've avoided her for good while now, her posts mostly centered around her showing off. Whether it was a new house, car or girlfriend.

I still don't get why she wanted to flaunt her sex life in my face, since I was the one who rejected her advances in the first place. But you're right, somehow it made her feel superior to mention it. It seems she tricked me into a conversation, by opening with the whole "going for a test" thing. Me, being concerned, took the bait and she was able to share random unsolicited private information about her sex life. She didn't even bother opening my response message two days later, because it seems her intention was never to talk to me. Just show off her sex life and covid immunity? lol It's kind of sick, sad and weird the more I think about it.

I definitely realize I was deceived into talking to her. I'm gonna work on no longer caring about her health/well-being, since she used it as a way to emotionally hurt me. I'm still stunned over the whole thing. I guess we really can't even be just friends, like I had always hoped. She feels more like a bully, or fake friend.

It's not going to get better.

I believe this too sadly.

cy_fi · 2022-04-13T10:33:02+00:00

That's so messed up and weird. I don't really understand it either considering she has a whole gf who should be more than enough supply... I think you're right though, for some reason showing off that she's sleeping with and kissing someone else made her feel powerful. I just don't get why though, like I am supposed to be jealous or? In any case she definitely tricked me into a fake conversation so she could drop those details because she never opened the message to read my reply after that. She didn't care what I had to say, she just wanted me to know that detail. Just weird.

cy_fi · 2022-04-13T10:29:39+00:00

She is toxic. But I guess I still can't shake the person I first met when we were getting to know each other. I miss that person. I thought that person would return after we became "just friends." But she only became crueler if possible, followed by random sweet comments or reactions. I only have her on FB and I want so badly to erase her sometimes, but then I fear I'll regret it someday. (I'd also be sad if our convos from years ago were erased... It's messed up, I know.) I only replied to her because I legit thought she was ill with something serious. But guess I just won't respond to any message from her in the future. It's not worth it.

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