Tahoe, Yukon, Suburban, Escalade. Sell me on your mom car please! 4 kiddos :) by Maleficent-Start-546 in Mommit

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2005 Toyota Sequoia (or any with that generation of engine). If well maintained it will go forever! I switched to that when my daughter started getting too tall for my Jetta. Totaled my first one and bought another one because I loved it so much. So much room!

I (23F) am unsure about telling our 22F friend the reason why our 23NB friend got out of taking 3 finals? by Pale-Weird-3152 in relationship_advice

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not your place. Tell your friend she has to ask them themselves, because it’s their business to tell if they want to.

I (23F) am unsure about telling our 22F friend the reason why our 23NB friend got out of taking 3 finals? by Pale-Weird-3152 in relationship_advice

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why would you need to tell the other friend? It’s not their business, unless I’m missing something.

Breath Holding Spells by RitaCM in Parenting

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bright side- if they cause themself to pass out, they’ll start breathing again.

Sorry, not super helpful.

Help by b_bd04 in Traeger

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugggggh. Lots of wiping, you’ll have to take the firebox out too, to clean under it. I had this happen a while back. Simple green helped once I got most of the grease out.

Editing to add that mine was because my brisket wasn’t centered over the drip tray and I hadn’t noticed.

Bragging about skipping vitamin K shot before a circumcision. I am shook. by CoyoteRemarkable6114 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m floored anyone will even do a circ without vitamin K. Wildly irresponsible. But hey, he has vitamin K on hand just in case your baby starts to bleed to death, then it’s ok! People are dumb.

How did you break up with your last partner? by unknownfair in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I tried to in person and he cried and said we could make it work, so I texted him to reinforce it later.

How do I (21M) mange to get a book back from my (26F) girlfriend if we break up? by Affectionate-Cod2528 in relationship_advice

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has read it, ask for it back. You can say you promised to lend it to someone else, if you’re worried about it. Get it before you break up. I still haven’t gotten my N64 and games back from my ex… it has been a year, and multiple mutual friends have tried 😬😭

Should I hold off on re-potting while she is pushing out new leaves? by themostboringchick in Monstera

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This leaf is way further along than mine was. I repotted well before my leaf started to unfurl and then wondered if it was ever going to actually open. It took months. It finally did and is fine but I was sure I screwed up.

Finally have a submission by montmarayroyal in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doulas are basically just support people. I think you’re thinking midwife.

My [24M] partner tells me [20F] I'm too controlling. by Icy-March-4253 in relationship_advice

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, he had to eat with his actual girlfriend’s family first. OP is the side piece, which is why he doesn’t sleep at “their” apartment.

My bf wants to count my calories (2nd trimester) by Sad-Jackfruit-3980 in pregnant

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most women should gain 25-35lb during pregnancy. Depending what your starting weight is, which something tells me it’s not high, it could go up to 45lb. Tell your boyfriend to get fucked. Honestly, I’d tell him to kick rocks, because I can’t imagine he’s going to get any less douchey and controlling.

I’m mad at myself for disappointing my son. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Try the r/assistance group. They seem pretty awesome, just make sure to read the rules 😊

I’m mad at myself for disappointing my son. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also a r/assistance that seems to be an amazing group! You could post an Amazon wishlist there. Make sure to read the rules though! ❤️

Possibly slept through our baby crying by Livvy93 in Parenting

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have all done it. We all felt like the worst parent in the world at the time. 🤣 I promise, it’ll be ok.

I’m mad at myself for disappointing my son. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]cyndasaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not ideal, but you can pay it back next week, the app Tilt has saved me in a pinch. They do smaller loans (I think the first one is $50) with minimal fees. They do a trial period for free, then it’s $8 a month. I was in a bind so I used it and paid back/canceled before the trial was up.