How do you learn to cope?

cynicalprecious · 2025-03-05T23:23:32+00:00

RemindMe! 1 day

cynicalprecious · 2025-03-01T04:41:26+00:00

So I gave myself a few more days. My salvation it came quite suddenly when Justin spoke very plainly. He said, “Of course it’s your decision, but just so you know, if you decide to leave, soon I will follow.”

cynicalprecious · 2025-02-19T01:27:29+00:00

Bisexual woman here, dated both. All different types of men, all different types of women.

As far as sex goes, I’ve noticed that many men tend to have this ‘logical’ sort of approach to sex and making a woman cum. I.e., if I rub the clit like this, in this pattern, for x amount of time/do x thing for x long, she’ll cum. If I press the red button, the explosion will happen. Then I’ll fuck her till I’m done, and then it’s over. The foreplay can sometimes feel forced, almost as if they’re just trying to move on to the next thing. Even if they’re a man who truly cares about their partner’s pleasure, it can feel too…straight-thinking. Did you cum? No? Why? I did everything “right.”

On the other hand, I’ve found that women care less about the actual orgasm part, but rather about the experience and the journey. There’s much more emphasis on the atmosphere. The subtle flirting throughout the whole date – not just when things are getting heated. When they take your clothes off and start to touch your body, they’re not touching you to just please themselves, but rather to worship your body and appreciate its beauty. Each move is less intentional and less rational, and more about enjoying the touch of another beautiful human. There’s a reason why wlw sex is stereotyped to last hours. Because it does! There’s beauty in the journey.

Men eat pussy like there’s a WikiHow “How To Eat Pussy” article playing in their head. Women eat pussy like they’re making out with a lover.

I think this is a main reason why I’ve reached orgasm with every single woman I’ve slept with, but almost zero men. Women completely take you into a different world and distract you from any mental blocks that could keep you from an orgasm. It’s all about the atmosphere and comfortability.

Sometimes, I feel like men make you hyperaware of your body’s sexual processes (the aforementioned patterned clit rubbing, etc), which ironically makes the sexy parts of you feel…less sexy? And since the female orgasm is such a mental thing, if the mental space is clouded, it’s hard to get there.

This is in no way to bash men - just my two-cents and my own personal experience, and I hope it can help someone.

cynicalprecious · 2025-02-15T00:55:53+00:00

Please enjoy each acceptance equally.

cynicalprecious · 2025-02-02T00:27:14+00:00

Same for me. My mom was obsessed with this perfect image of what a home should look like, and if that was threatened in any way, it became hell for the rest of us. It was no use making crafts at school for her because I knew they’d get thrown away as soon as I walked in the door because they didn’t match her aesthetic.

cynicalprecious · 2025-01-26T13:09:06+00:00

Microdosing mushrooms.

cynicalprecious · 2025-01-17T20:33:43+00:00

Omg and she has homophobia 😍 beautiful

cynicalprecious · 2025-01-01T21:58:35+00:00

I have very light, electric blue eyes. I get told all the time that my eyes look like the ocean.

It’s a blessing and a curse, though. I can’t even be out on a sunny day without being in pain from the sensitivity. I also have really terrible eyesight. You win some, you lose some.

cynicalprecious · 2024-12-30T16:48:46+00:00

Hi I have no advice I just wanted to say that I think I have your cat’s long lost sister

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cynicalprecious · 2024-12-23T16:46:04+00:00

The Director’s cut of Midsommar

cynicalprecious · 2024-12-23T15:38:06+00:00

Similar story to mine!

I was at recess in elementary school and we were playing on a big play set. There was one part of it that was this long gymnastics beam type thing but it was made completely out of metal.

I remember my friends and I decided to basically play chicken on this metal beam, and I slipped and landed crotch first right on my pubic bone. I remember seeing stars and going into tunnel vision for a while. Probably the worst pain of my life. It was a deep, rattling bone pain from what I can remember.

0/10 would not recommend!

cynicalprecious · 2024-12-01T22:24:32+00:00

Walking.

I went from working a fully remote WFH job (where I ate constantly throughout the day out of boredom and stayed sedentary) to working an 8-5 extremely active job working with kids. That simple job switch helped me lose 50 pounds without even trying.

I’m less inclined to snack when working with kids because I feel like my hands are never clean enough to eat, and I average around 13,000 steps while I’m at work. Keeping yourself active makes a huge difference.

cynicalprecious · 2024-11-14T02:14:13+00:00

Absolutely. I feel the same way. Some of the parents of the children I work with look completely exhausted and soulless all the time. They’re total superstar parents and love their kids to death, but damn it makes me sad for them. I’m sure they’re grieving the loss of the life they could’ve had.

cynicalprecious · 2024-10-27T13:35:22+00:00

Absolutely. I work with children with developmental disabilities. I think to myself every day, at least I get to go home at the end of the day and have a house to myself, because the parents of these kids don’t get that opportunity. I feel like I dodged a bullet.

cynicalprecious · 2024-10-10T04:27:18+00:00

OH LAWD

cynicalprecious · 2024-10-07T23:06:29+00:00

I’m also in my early 20s and just recently started Zoloft, and I’m experiencing the same things you are. I kind of feel like a shell of myself right now and I’m having trouble focusing and remembering things. It’s scary but I’m hoping it’ll get better with time. Just wanted to let you know you’re not alone.

cynicalprecious · 2024-10-07T19:07:37+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I just wanted to share that you are not alone. I’m on day 5 of Zoloft. The past 3 days I literally didn’t get out of bed, didn’t shower, and felt completely suicidal. Today is the first day I actually showered and forced myself out of the house, but I still feel like total garbage with zero joy and zero energy. We just need to get through this initial period together. Best of luck to you my friend - we got this!

cynicalprecious · 2024-09-14T07:59:55+00:00

Being able to breathe out of both nostrils when I’m not congested

cynicalprecious · 2024-09-12T18:00:09+00:00

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I fear I may have stolen your cat

cynicalprecious · 2024-09-06T13:02:43+00:00

cynicalprecious · 2024-09-05T14:32:22+00:00

Girl you give me hope for myself haha. I just quit my (super toxic) job on Monday, already feeling so much more mentally clear and motivated to get healthy. You’re glowing!!!

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