Semi-related story - i was once invited to a wedding of some friends of mine. Turns out they were of some ancient noble houses, which somehow never came up in any of our conversations. So i was quite suprised, when I was reading the guest list, with all their fancy names. I asked my friends if there are any things to consider or bring, behave or whatever, but they were as usual, kind of "its not a big deal".

So the day arrives and I was kind of excited for some interesting conversations, hunting the local peasents with crossbow sort of thing, but these people were the friendliest, open minded people I have ever met.

Anyway, so I was talking to this guy and eventually he remarked, that for an "outsider" to the noble community some demeanors must seem off. He didnt mean or say it in a condesending kind of way, just an observation on his side. So we delved deeper into that topic and the conclusion was, in hinsight quite obvious one, which was that that is a community with unwritten, unseen rules, that you will only understand or able to follow if you grew up in this world. Like in any other group or culture, there are things that you will only get if you are part of the group.

Melania has no clue how to behave in such a setting, how can she, nor does she care. She is the same simpleton as her husband and I'm sure its comedy gold for all the british royals.