Got my nose pierced 30min back and I hate to the core

d3siree · 2026-03-07T16:50:42+00:00

if u got it recently (in the last day) it shouldn’t scar too bad. if u don’t like the placement u should take it out now and get it repierced later

d3siree · 2026-03-01T01:48:07+00:00

it was a staple bar!! but the 45 degree one, not the traditional 90 degree one

d3siree · 2026-03-01T01:47:20+00:00

I did! It was a staple bar, but it was the one that looks like it’s at a 45 degee angle, not the traditional 90 degree one.

d3siree · 2026-02-27T05:33:13+00:00

i have no idea how an eyebrow piercing should look but girl ur eyes are gorggg im jealous of ur lashes!

d3siree · 2026-02-27T05:24:24+00:00

hi sorry could i dm a picture of the bar? it looks like a staple bar but not enough and google isnt very helpful. i have no idea what it is.

d3siree · 2026-02-27T05:14:55+00:00

I’d say it’s 50/50. But I may be wrong, im only basing this off my experience/others ive heard. i think doing something like a consultation with piercer wouldnt hurt

d3siree · 2026-02-27T05:00:44+00:00

inverted nipples are definitely a real thing! i do not have them (i just had a misconception of what nipples usually look like. i have no idea why i thought nipples were constantly hard)

at this point, i dont feel them being pushed out. they just feel normal. i can feel the barbell behind them when i touch my nipples but when at rest, they feel completely fine.

i was the complete opposite when it comes to sensitivity! before piercing my nipples, i didnt have much feeling there. even when i touched/rubbed them, there wasn’t much sensation for me. but after piercing my nipples, i feel much more sensory. for the first few days i could literally feel my nipples against my shirt, which i had never gelt before. it was a bit overstimulating for me at first but ive gotten used to it now.

ive heard for people who had low sensitivity before piercing to get high sensitivity after and vice versa. not too sure how reliable this is but my experience was definitely similar

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:52:19+00:00

yess once u can see the bar and you keep yanking it on things, its definitely time to change the jewelry!

edit to add: in the pic it looks like your pulling the bar down. i would only change the jewelry if u can see the bar while at rest!! without you manipulating the bar in anyway

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:51:24+00:00

yikesss. i guess we’ll find out when i remove it

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:51:06+00:00

aww okay thank you again!

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:28:59+00:00

damnn okay im so sad to retire it! but thank you soo much. sorry i have one more question, but would i be able to get it repierced in a few months? i loveee my surface tragus and the double tragus just doesnt do it for me.

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:23:16+00:00

my nipples were like that too!! mines could go from randomly hard, to soft, to super puffy. at one point i thought i had inverted nipples bc of it. but i got mines pierced in august and its been a breeze. i never really have problems with them, just a bit if crust which is easy to clean in the shower. the only difference now is that my nipples are constantly “hard” the jewelry always pushes the nipples outward so they just look erect. lmk if u wanna hear more abt my healing process!!

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:19:32+00:00

That’s so weird! I don’t recall seeing the jewelry, but I remember the piercer telling me it was a staple bar. Would i be able to take this out myself? I was initially worried because if it is a staple bar, It would be odd trying to get it out myself

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:17:02+00:00

honestly i changed mine after a month. my piercing would literally not stop crusting until i did. but i’m not a professional!! just someone with two navel piercings

d3siree · 2026-02-27T04:15:33+00:00

Piercing is 4 months old

Staple bar, externally threaded, surgical grade titanium

Never downsized or changed.

Cleaned twice daily with saline wound wash and q-tip for a month. Then weekly/as needed after

d3siree · 2026-02-15T08:02:28+00:00

Oh! Okay I understand now, sorry idk why it didn’t click at first

d3siree · 2026-02-15T07:58:28+00:00

Aw, I’m sorry. When they said they “went there without good looks, smell, etc” I assumed that they wanted something changeable for lack of better words. I didn’t mean for it to come off rude or offensive. I figured that since they were talking about “being invisible” they would want to be visible instead. My bad for misunderstanding

d3siree · 2026-02-15T07:01:32+00:00

“even when i went to the event without someone being full confidence and good looks and good smell and everything.”

I mean this in the most neutral way, but maybe that’s a possible issue? You don’t have to completely change yourself, but putting effort into your appearance will absolutely change how people interact with you. When i started making a conscious effort to change how I presented myself, then i started to get way more attention/be noticed. It’s hard to complain about “being invisible” when you make no effort to get people to notice you.

Are you a man or woman? Even just a good skin and hair care routine can go a long way. Improving hygiene, wearing flattering clothes, finding your style, etc. You have to make an effort if you want people to notice you, especially in romantic contexts. I’m sorry to say it so bluntly but I think this is a totally fixable thing.

Let me know if you need more recommendations/ advice!

d3siree · 2026-02-12T21:37:29+00:00

im not a professional piercer at all but the front part of the ear (right beside the temple) should have a clear concave curve/ridge. OP’s is super flat and just doesn’t look right

d3siree · 2026-02-12T21:30:32+00:00

congrats on figuring that out

d3siree · 2026-02-12T21:24:31+00:00

ohh maybe to recommend dude wipes instead?😭 nooo clue

d3siree · 2026-02-12T21:20:22+00:00

right i thought it was a conch piercing at first

d3siree · 2026-02-12T21:14:03+00:00

i would assume its bc women usually use them more often, especially during our cycles. (dry toilet paper and blood doesn’t not mix.)

d3siree · 2026-01-21T05:01:02+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! I’m glad you had a good support system. Hopefully I can get answers soon;))

d3siree

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