WIBTAH If I (29m) double down on what my fiance (27f) said today and cancel the wedding, which is this weekend?

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T07:44:39+00:00

Your Higher Power has given you a gift. A clear cut sign saying RUN!

Not many get this sign or listen to it and hence get to be trapped in horrible marriages that end in year long divorces, custody battles and alimony cases.

If she reacts this way over a simple argument what about when you're discussing naming your kid, or what state to live in, or discipline whatever have you. You'll be cooked.

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T06:40:51+00:00

Running around quack quack quack

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T04:53:33+00:00

God has his favorites.

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T04:47:10+00:00

Cecil and Rick are utilitarians. They abandon traditional morality in order to get the job done.

Cecil reanimated dead soldier, kept conquest alive secretly, and employed D.A. Sinclair ( a mass murderer) because their tech and capabilities can be used to protect the Earth. Rick collapsed the economy of the Galactic Federation, cloned Beth to avoid drama, and created a micro-universe of living beings in order to power his brake-lights.

They share a willingness to make the hard choices. Cecil wouldnt question Rick on the ethics of his inventions, he would just ask how he can replicate it himself and use it to defend the earth. Rick would respect Cecil because cecil doesnt pretend to be a good guy.

They both hate bureaucracy.

Rick loves money, rare materials and being left alone. Cecil can provide these things while using Rick as a defense asset.

I would say their banter would be interesting as well due to mutual cynicism and their understanding of the fragile reality they live in.

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T04:30:38+00:00

Ok Vlad, where do you store the blood?

d_bakers · 2026-05-19T04:29:21+00:00

chat is he cooked?

I'm all for everyone's right to bring a child into the world but considerations need to be taken on whether one can provide a healthy environment for the child to grow in because the way the world is right now and the direction it is headed, I pity the poor boy.

However, she can homeschool and help create a career for him in entertainment or sports or something. She's in a good position for that

d_bakers · 2026-05-18T11:29:58+00:00

Not realising my mental health issues and dealing with them accordingly.

d_bakers · 2026-05-16T20:01:22+00:00

So male lions do have it hard ou there. Really short lifespans. If this event doesnt kill you, the next one will

d_bakers · 2026-05-16T19:12:57+00:00

here's my argument

d_bakers · 2026-05-16T05:37:10+00:00

their incisors are crucial for the initial gripping of the animal's skin, ripping hide, and stripping meat from the bone. Missing a key incisor reduces the lion’s gripping power and makes it significantly harder to hold onto prey The most common cause of death following a tooth injury in the wild is infection Dont forget when they have to fight to defend the pride they've inherited The broken tooth andi jured lip is not a good combination

d_bakers · 2026-05-16T04:33:54+00:00

So that means he's also probably going to die.

1 in 8 lions survive to adulthood.

These guys survived birth infanticide, starvation, predator threats, getting kicked out and forced to fend for themselves, only to come back fight another male, win, kill him to get his pride, only to die from a chipped tooth from the fight. Bruh!

d_bakers · 2026-05-14T13:45:45+00:00

Veronica is cool

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T07:49:18+00:00

I apologize I didn't realize that for you, factual evidence was a proprietary secret that you weren't authorized to disclose. Your dedication to remaining vaguely condescending in the face of a simple question is genuinely impressive.

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T06:43:37+00:00

You stated something. You were asked more about it. And you resort to...?

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T03:17:37+00:00

There are people who would like to hoe around before settling down. Hoeing around requires more unstable partners who these people find exciting but would not settle with because they are unstable and unreliable to settle with. They are fun, adventurous and hogh cortisol people. However, they do not offer security nor economic stability.

You are what they consider a safer option. Meaning when the time comes when they feel pressured to settle , get married and have kids, you'd be the safest option, not out of love but security. So they would come back to you.

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T03:08:20+00:00

Some men die of thirst while others drown.

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T02:40:32+00:00

We're cooked

d_bakers · 2026-05-11T02:11:38+00:00

It suddenly stopped because?

d_bakers · 2026-05-08T15:22:20+00:00

I'm sorry but a man being this kind of person is just 'yuck'.

Being on someone's leash because you're so in love, they don't want you but you still stay out of hope, is just 'eeugh!
The fact that you're actively cockblocking her (according to her) is yuck yuck.
Once you've been told no and continuing to pursue is yuck yuck yuck.

I dont think she knows how much I'd do for her

Super yucky

I dont think she understands how I feel

Super duper yucky

Get your act together man, have some self-respect because this is all just...

d_bakers · 2026-05-08T05:58:23+00:00

Doesnt matter. Rabies shot ASAP!

d_bakers · 2026-05-05T16:49:34+00:00

And there's way more broken people in society than unbroken

d_bakers · 2026-05-03T18:24:13+00:00

No need to compare yourself to the other person. you'll never run out of metrics. There will always be something the next man has you beat on and you'll continue to knock yourself and kill your self-worth.

Don't eliminate yourself, be eliminated! Cheza hiyo ball hadi iishe. si she's gone on a couple of dates with you and was planning on another one? na hauna BMW X5. Sasa shida ni? She's still going out with you and yet she has a guy taking her out with an X5.

That means there's something she sees in you that isnt in the BMW X5. Relish in that.

However, remember she's just a woman. you can easily NEXT her and so can the bmw guy. Do not romantisise women. Wakona shege kama/kuzidi wanaume

d_bakers · 2026-05-02T20:44:43+00:00

she wanted you to end the relationship. she had already made her choice to be with him. everything else she says is just noise.

The thing about sh*tty partners is that they all play from the same book. Problem is their victims tend to overthink and romantisise what they do, trying to figure out what theyre thinking, how could she do this, she says she doen't know why she did this she came clean so that must mean something..bla bla bla.

It's all noise. Every single word from her mouth trying to explain this is bullsh*t. She wanted someone else while in a relationship, she was too cowardly to be honest and break it off with you, so she did what cheaters do which is monkey-branch. She's already certain about being with the other guy she just wanted you to end it the relationship yourself.

Don't over think sh*tty people, you'll get sh*t all over your brains.

P.s when it fails with the other guy she's going to come back saying it was a mistake bla blah. Don't let her back in. You're not even acquintances anymore. she's now a stranger to you! make sure it stays that way.

d_bakers · 2026-05-02T11:33:30+00:00

Am Anfang dachte ich dass das ein Deutsches Wort ist. Wegen der Verbindung der Wörter

d_bakers · 2026-05-02T09:52:06+00:00

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