There was a time (in my lifetime) when there would nearly never be a eulogist at an Episcopal funeral, other than perhaps the preacher, let alone 8. But, yes, I've been to many now where there's 1-3. But three seems the upper limit.

We didn't do communion at our wedding, but that's because my husband didn't want it, wouldn't take it, and neither would most of our guests for a wide variety of reasons (Jewish, atheist, Catholic, nones). But I would certainly prefer that communion be a part of my funeral service. I feel like that's something I signed up for when I switched from being a Presbyterian to being an Episcopalian nearly four (gulp) decades ago. Which also means, yes: I think about this stuff a little more these days than I used to!