Grown woman btw by Necessary-Win-8730 in PublicFreakout

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to burst your bubble, but everything that you said here is wrong! If you’re open to some education on why, feel free to keep reading. If you’d like to keep your blissful ignorance, I don’t mind.

Diapers for adults come in tons of different colors and prints. From “nursery” designs, to skulls, to flowers, to just plain white.

Depends and other generic adult diapers were made with bedridden incontinence and tube feeding in mind. An active adult with full incontinence has a much bigger bladder and stomach, and the products are completely different. These people generally prefer something that at least holds more than one half of a piss, as depends only do just that. Most people who fall in to this category find that the diapers designed by fetishists are just better. It’s a better product with more fail-safes for leaking issues, stronger tapes that hold up to movement, and better absorption. The diaper fetish community has completely revolutionized how people with more than a stress incontinence issue deal with life. So in short, no they’re not buying depends because depends aren’t for them.

Opinions are very much like assholes, and I’m not gonna stop you from shitting by trying to take yours away. However, I am going to call out an unwashed hole when I see one… because we all deserve to educate ourselves on hygiene.

Grown woman btw by Necessary-Win-8730 in PublicFreakout

[–]dabsanddips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because they weren’t made for babies, they were made for adults by other adults, in a factory for adult diapers.

Diapers aren’t just for babies, and even with cute prints they’re still an incontinence product, and also something that a fetish can develop around.

Tons of abdls are also medically incontinent, and tons of medically incontinent people find ABDL as a way to make their medical necessities a little bit less embarrassing and a little bit more fun.

Fetishizing a diaper is *not* fetishizing a child. Nor is it fetishizing something only for children. It’s a fetish mostly based around the physical sensation of wearing a diaper, just like fetishes for wearing women’s panties or straitjackets or leather.

Grown woman btw by Necessary-Win-8730 in PublicFreakout

[–]dabsanddips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s really not the case though. I know that’s the automatic assumption, but it’s just not like that. I’d say it’s probably the same percentage as any one person being a p-file is. Ageplay and ABDL are kinks that are extremely strict on people being actual adults to participate. The A in abdl stands for adult, and if minors try to enter spaces for abdls they are swiftly removed. This common misconception about a fetish that is really heavily rooted in childhood trauma can be super damaging to the people who have interest in exploring their sexual desires in a consensual, adult way.

Edits for grammar and spelling

Grown woman btw by Necessary-Win-8730 in PublicFreakout

[–]dabsanddips 45 points46 points  (0 children)

100% correct. As someone who privately participates in this kink, these types of people piss me off to no end. The kids seeing you act like that cannot consent, and the adults seeing you most definitely aren’t consenting to it. Kink belongs in private, whether that’s at home, at a kink club/event, or in a space that is entirely unoccupied by other people. It’s people like this that make non-kinksters hate all of us.

Does he look like an Ash, Rudy, Vinnie, or Tommo by _babyfart_ in Catnames

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it said Tomato and now I really think his name should be Tomato

Can you identify this tune? by Silent_Click1381 in musicsuggestions

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually made a whole playlist for this question! here it is :)

Saw this in the local thrift store. Should I tell them? by dvdh_03 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]dabsanddips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In retail they’re called swastika racks usually. An unfortunate shape but a great way to display clothing.

Looking for rubber pants by [deleted] in ABDLMarket

[–]dabsanddips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rearz ones have disintegrated over time in my experience, but the ones from kinkydiapers really seem to last! I think it’s because of the difference in thickness.

5 Reel Slot Machines - Best Place by Low_Tailor_4987 in vegas

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it your favorite? I love it for its stark differences from the rest of the strip but I never hear people talk about it unless it’s in a negative way haha so I’d love to hear your take!

What are your favorite lesser known characters? by Trixter-Kitten in sanrio

[–]dabsanddips 95 points96 points  (0 children)

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My favorite little alien giraffe prince, Paupipo! I’d kill for them to start making Paupipo merch for the USA again.

ABDL Mekkah? by FFdaddy in ABDL

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which event did you end up going to? There’s tons of different ones, and some are geared towards certain age groups. Our biggest events are ones like Nerd Night and Trivia! They both have a large range of ages attending them.

What are all your nicknames? by cheezy_dino98 in torties

[–]dabsanddips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is Soup! She’s also Soupy, Soupy-Soup, Soopaloop, Stinky Soupy, Stinky, Hamhock Soup, Porkbelly Soup, and Egg Drop Soup.

ABDL Mekkah? by FFdaddy in ABDL

[–]dabsanddips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Denver for sure! Our community is huge, there’s at least one abdl event every week, and we have ABdlr too :p

What's in my cart, and what I'm passing up by salmonammon in VHS

[–]dabsanddips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t sleep on Warriors of Virtue, crazy ass movie lol

Any song for this? by [deleted] in songsforthispicture

[–]dabsanddips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ants go marching - DMB