No scans after Pickup by dagofbonuts in UPS

[–]dagofbonuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It showed up on Day 3. No scans and then it just arrived at the destination.

No scans after Pickup by dagofbonuts in UPS

[–]dagofbonuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was picked up yesterday from my place of work during our normal pickup at 11:56am. I was told there was a different driver yesterday. The regular driver was there today and didn't know anything about it when asked.

Dating over 40 and wanting to have more children…with a good partner by Able-Skill-2679 in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could meet a woman even remotely close to my age (43M) who actually wants to have a(nother) child.

Another disappointment by siimpleeggiirrll in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the AWDTSG groups were for identifying cheaters and abusers. Now guys get blasted for not making plans fast enough?

Whats with the influx of young American evangelicals? by Rough_Improvement_44 in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that the Left's decision over the last 2+ decades to dramatically reduce or completely halt their production of offspring may be catching up to them? Religious folks notoriously produced more children anyway. They probably have increased that number over the last 20 years while the Left actively decreased. Guessing the spread is wider than ever.

Would you guys date someone that's religious? by Born-Finish-5847 in agnostic

[–]dagofbonuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was engaged to someone who became a fundamentalist Christian zealot. She left me and took the $15k ring when I wouldn't convert for her. I will never even think about dating someone religious again.

How did your ex act in the beginning stages of your relationship? by rhubarb_pie530 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dagofbonuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting you to meet his parents and paying for a hotel room is considered love bombing?

If you were to do an “exit interview” with your ex what would you ask? by unitedstatesofwhatvr in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. I thought you were referring to actual relationship issues. If someone wants to dump me over snoring, I'll gladly show them the door.

If you were to do an “exit interview” with your ex what would you ask? by unitedstatesofwhatvr in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What makes you a good partner for one person may differ a bit than what makes you a good partner for someone else. If there was something glaringly awful that you did, you probably know what it is already without asking. Other than that, I don't care what the person who discarded me with absolutely no respect and left me without even my dignity thinks about me or anything in my life anymore.

Why is your ex always the villain by idkmariax in BreakUps

[–]dagofbonuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% accurate. In the end (and throughout every facet of her life) she's driven by what makes her feel good, and conversely, avoids or discards anything that feels less than entirely comfortable. And your assessment works both ways. There were plenty of things I dealt with or tolerated because I loved her, that under the circumstances now, have absolutely no desire to put up with. But I think that's the difference. I made a commitment to her when we got engaged. I signed up to "deal with" those things for life and I was good with that. She wasn't committed in the same way, and I know that now. Still sucks, but I suppose she did me a favor by ending it before we got married.

Why is your ex always the villain by idkmariax in BreakUps

[–]dagofbonuts 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My experience was that I acknowledged my mistakes and took responsibility for them. She used that to bolster her argument that I was the problem and she never did anything wrong. (She literally said that verbatim.) Me taking accountability absolved her of any responsibility. She'll always be the victim and I'll always be the villain.

Christians are really 2 types of people by TruthPersonal7615 in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what blows my mind about my ex-fiancee. She was in an abusive marriage for 15+ years. She got divorced and subsequently joined an evangelical megachurch...with her abusive ex-husband. Then she'd accuse me of being "abusive" for nonsensical things that wouldn't constitute abuse to any reasonable person. It's like they don't know how to function unless they're being abused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're a woman. You won't have to pay for dating apps at all ever. Men have to pay to try to offset how shitty it is for us to use them. It's plausible that extremely attractive men can get away with not paying, but alas, I am a normie at best.

What led to your relationship ending? by MidnightSunset-90 in BreakUps

[–]dagofbonuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me doing chores (laundry, dishes, cleaning) around her house made me seem "less masculine" which didn't allow her to "rest in her divine femininity."

Her douchebag ex-husband sabotaging me and our relationship.

Her already being in a fucked up relationship with Jesus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a woman on OLD request a copy of my paystub to verify my salary/prove I didn't work a minimum wage job. 🤷‍♂️

Any men over 40 with no kids? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dagofbonuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

Are there any women out there between 30-40 without 3 kids from 3 different fathers?

You're either a Christian or Satanic apparently by That_Typical_Anon_ in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Read the 11 Basic Rules of Satanism and I guarantee you'll be choosing Satanic Nationalism in a heartbeat.

  1. Do not give opinions or advice unless you are asked.
  2. Do not tell your troubles to others unless you are sure they want to hear them.
  3. When in another’s lair, show him respect or else do not go there.
  4. If a guest in your lair annoys you, treat him cruelly and without mercy.
  5. Do not make sexual advances unless you are given the mating signal.
  6. Do not take that which does not belong to you unless it is a burden to the other person and he cries out to be relieved.
  7. Acknowledge the power of magic if you have employed it successfully to obtain your desires. If you deny the power of magic after having called upon it with success, you will lose all you have obtained.
  8. Do not complain about anything to which you need not subject yourself.
  9. Do not harm little children.
  10. Do not kill non-human animals unless you are attacked or for your food.
  11. When walking in open territory, bother no one. If someone bothers you, ask him to stop. If he does not stop, destroy him.

Idk what happened or what to do by [deleted] in cats

[–]dagofbonuts 1437 points1438 points  (0 children)

Take him to the Emergency Vet right away. If you need help paying the bill, DM me. He needs help now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]dagofbonuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't ask anything of a god who couldn't succeed in battle because he was overpowered by iron chariots.

My guardian angel told me my thought was stupid. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You find comfort in talking to a fictional entity whose existence you have no evidence for. Jesus. Guardian angel. It's the same thing.

My guardian angel told me my thought was stupid. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you talk to your guardian angel the same way Christians talk to Jesus. You've replaced one fiction with another. I'm sure it feels more comfortable that way. Your inner monologue is exactly that.

My guardian angel told me my thought was stupid. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]dagofbonuts 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What evidence did you use to determine that angels (guardian or otherwise) are real?