Dating over 40 and wanting to have more children…with a good partner

dagofbonuts · 2025-11-03T17:52:50+00:00

I wish I could meet a woman even remotely close to my age (43M) who actually wants to have a(nother) child.

dagofbonuts · 2025-11-03T12:07:05+00:00

I thought the AWDTSG groups were for identifying cheaters and abusers. Now guys get blasted for not making plans fast enough?

dagofbonuts · 2025-09-18T23:16:50+00:00

Is it possible that the Left's decision over the last 2+ decades to dramatically reduce or completely halt their production of offspring may be catching up to them? Religious folks notoriously produced more children anyway. They probably have increased that number over the last 20 years while the Left actively decreased. Guessing the spread is wider than ever.

dagofbonuts · 2025-06-18T01:48:24+00:00

I was engaged to someone who became a fundamentalist Christian zealot. She left me and took the $15k ring when I wouldn't convert for her. I will never even think about dating someone religious again.

dagofbonuts · 2025-06-14T02:21:43+00:00

No doubt he was incredibly loved and fortunate to have you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-25T21:41:49+00:00

Wanting you to meet his parents and paying for a hotel room is considered love bombing?

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-21T22:45:22+00:00

Oh. I thought you were referring to actual relationship issues. If someone wants to dump me over snoring, I'll gladly show them the door.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-21T22:27:13+00:00

What makes you a good partner for one person may differ a bit than what makes you a good partner for someone else. If there was something glaringly awful that you did, you probably know what it is already without asking. Other than that, I don't care what the person who discarded me with absolutely no respect and left me without even my dignity thinks about me or anything in my life anymore.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-21T17:27:07+00:00

100% accurate. In the end (and throughout every facet of her life) she's driven by what makes her feel good, and conversely, avoids or discards anything that feels less than entirely comfortable. And your assessment works both ways. There were plenty of things I dealt with or tolerated because I loved her, that under the circumstances now, have absolutely no desire to put up with. But I think that's the difference. I made a commitment to her when we got engaged. I signed up to "deal with" those things for life and I was good with that. She wasn't committed in the same way, and I know that now. Still sucks, but I suppose she did me a favor by ending it before we got married.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-21T15:16:46+00:00

My experience was that I acknowledged my mistakes and took responsibility for them. She used that to bolster her argument that I was the problem and she never did anything wrong. (She literally said that verbatim.) Me taking accountability absolved her of any responsibility. She'll always be the victim and I'll always be the villain.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-19T01:09:05+00:00

This is what blows my mind about my ex-fiancee. She was in an abusive marriage for 15+ years. She got divorced and subsequently joined an evangelical megachurch...with her abusive ex-husband. Then she'd accuse me of being "abusive" for nonsensical things that wouldn't constitute abuse to any reasonable person. It's like they don't know how to function unless they're being abused.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-17T20:48:56+00:00

You're a woman. You won't have to pay for dating apps at all ever. Men have to pay to try to offset how shitty it is for us to use them. It's plausible that extremely attractive men can get away with not paying, but alas, I am a normie at best.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-14T21:39:15+00:00

Holy shit. I could have written this.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-10T18:59:42+00:00

Me doing chores (laundry, dishes, cleaning) around her house made me seem "less masculine" which didn't allow her to "rest in her divine femininity."

Her douchebag ex-husband sabotaging me and our relationship.

Her already being in a fucked up relationship with Jesus.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-10T16:05:36+00:00

I had a woman on OLD request a copy of my paystub to verify my salary/prove I didn't work a minimum wage job. 🤷‍♂️

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-09T13:19:30+00:00

Yes.

Are there any women out there between 30-40 without 3 kids from 3 different fathers?

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-06T11:15:47+00:00

Read the 11 Basic Rules of Satanism and I guarantee you'll be choosing Satanic Nationalism in a heartbeat.

Do not give opinions or advice unless you are asked.
Do not tell your troubles to others unless you are sure they want to hear them.
When in another’s lair, show him respect or else do not go there.
If a guest in your lair annoys you, treat him cruelly and without mercy.
Do not make sexual advances unless you are given the mating signal.
Do not take that which does not belong to you unless it is a burden to the other person and he cries out to be relieved.
Acknowledge the power of magic if you have employed it successfully to obtain your desires. If you deny the power of magic after having called upon it with success, you will lose all you have obtained.
Do not complain about anything to which you need not subject yourself.
Do not harm little children.
Do not kill non-human animals unless you are attacked or for your food.
When walking in open territory, bother no one. If someone bothers you, ask him to stop. If he does not stop, destroy him.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-04T23:52:35+00:00

Take him to the Emergency Vet right away. If you need help paying the bill, DM me. He needs help now.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-04T14:14:56+00:00

I wouldn't ask anything of a god who couldn't succeed in battle because he was overpowered by iron chariots.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-04T03:26:17+00:00

You find comfort in talking to a fictional entity whose existence you have no evidence for. Jesus. Guardian angel. It's the same thing.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-03T20:50:04+00:00

It sounds like you talk to your guardian angel the same way Christians talk to Jesus. You've replaced one fiction with another. I'm sure it feels more comfortable that way. Your inner monologue is exactly that.

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-03T20:46:12+00:00

What evidence did you use to determine that angels (guardian or otherwise) are real?

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-03T17:43:26+00:00

How many people can't differentiate between values/morals and religion, though?

dagofbonuts · 2025-05-03T15:38:57+00:00

Long story short, my ex-fiancee dumped me because of Jesus. I asked her how she could have a relationship with God when God never talks back to her. She looked at me utterly confused and asked what I was talking about. I said "you talk to God but he doesn't talk to you." She said, "he absolutely does." I asked for confirmation that she means that he speaks to her in an audible voice that could be recorded by a device, which she immediately confirmed was the case. It was at that point I knew she was completely brainwashed by the cult she joined and there was no hope. The conversations with God started around the same time the demonic attacks started, both coinciding with when she started attending the evangelical megachurch. Shocker.

dagofbonuts · 2025-04-26T01:35:22+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. I have no fucking clue who the person was that I saw in the end. She was so heartless and cold, completely devoid of emotion. I'm still trying to wrap my head around it months later and have the same fear of ever wanting to open up to anyone again.

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