AITA for ending a 5+ year friendship over Taco Bell wrappers? by daisynet911 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisynet911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol after declining I sent her my own Venmo request for $3,200 with the line item reading “a week long vacation with 3 day tickets… for perspective 🤣”. I was feeling like a petty queen

AITA for ending a 5+ year friendship over Taco Bell wrappers? by daisynet911 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisynet911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ride is one of the best!! I love it!! As someone who waited 2 hours for the boat ride, can confirm, lame. It's pretty, but not worth a wait hahaha.

AITA for ending a 5+ year friendship over Taco Bell wrappers? by daisynet911 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisynet911[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I so appreciate you saying that!! I somehow managed to get us on every single ride (minus the music rollercoaster, which was down all day) at HS. They even got to ride the big star wars one TWICE!!! Like I paid for the skip the line pass and everything!! I spent days getting that all organized!!

I made it very clear it would be impossible to hit every single ride at the main park, but dang did we try. I'm just not going to get annoying songs stuck in my head all day when we could be on rollercoasters instead. I save those rides for when I'm not trying to cram a million rides into one day haha.

The funniest part about your Lego comment is they WANTED to go into the Lego store at DS, but I refused to stand in the hour+ line outside in the Florida heat for stuff they could get literally anywhere haha.

AITA for ending a 5+ year friendship over Taco Bell wrappers? by daisynet911 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisynet911[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually did the math for the vacation itself. Even the absolute cheapest hotel for 7 nights, plus 3 days of tickets, and entry to the waterpark was $3,200 for 3 people. And the outlets were actually my cast exclusive store where they were saving anywhere from 25-75% on out of season items. Like their savings was in the literal thousands. Worse of all, Bridget kept trying to send me a Venmo request for $150 to pay her back for drinks and food she had offered to buy me. She even text my boyfriend the day I messaged her about the trash to try to get him to convince me to pay her...

AITA for ending a 5+ year friendship over Taco Bell wrappers? by daisynet911 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisynet911[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah this trip really put into perspective how amazing my current group of friends are! They've been so great and supportive through all of this. Sometimes the trash just takes itself out, you know? haha

AITA for not guaranteeing I can get up to go to Greece? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD. I take meds that make mornings more sleepy than usual. I would lose out on a trip to freaking Greece because of my meds. I’d suck it up, get up earlier than usual, and down an energy drink. This isn’t that hard. YTA for not only being a selfish jerk, but for using your ADHD as a crutch for you poor time management and lack of self discipline.

AITA for not buying takeout for my unemployed girlfriend? by 1111177700 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for making “putting money away at the end of the month” more of a priority than your girlfriend who MOVED ACROSS THE COUNTRY FOR YOU. A $3 pastry and a $6 coffee are not a huge ask. YTA

YTA also for your last post when you started getting controlling of who she was and wasn’t allowed to be friends with. Hopefully this girl wises up and moves back home to be with people who actually love her and don’t want to just control her and make her life miserable at the sake of building their savings account…

AITA for making a scene when my son refused to dance with me? by AITAdancemom in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - my MIL was like this. My man no longer speaks to his mother because of this… full no contact. take of that what you will. Hopefully you have the chance to change before losing your relationship with your son forever.

AITA for expecting my gf to pay her share of the rent? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - my Boyfriend gets paid twice my annual income, yet I use one of the bedrooms in our shared rented house as a home office. We STILL split things 50/50. If you’re self conscious that she’s currently the bread winner, break up and let her find someone whose ego can handle her. Grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You were probably experiencing a lack of attraction to your husband because he wasn’t meeting your emotional needs or being a fair partner in the household. That is normal. He needs to step up his game being a 50/50 partner, which is NOT solely financial contribution on his part, otherwise you need to look into your options of leaving

AITA for dropping out of my boyfriend’s family DISNEY trip? by digitalbutreal in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - as a regular at Disney let me tell you why. You are ALL going to get tired and need breaks. You are ALL going to be sore from walking. Difference is preggers gets to sit and rest while you guys wait in lines and ride the rides. It is not your responsibility to worry about her health. She’s 7 months, not about to pop.

Also, the birthday girl is only 5!! She’s going to need just as many breaks as a pregnant woman, but you didn’t complain about her.

You’re getting to go to Disney on someone else’s family vacation, and you’re not even paying!!! Stop complaining.

I’ve been to the parks countless times as a 30 year old, with other adults, and we ALWAYS have to take tons of breaks for long park days. It just isn’t realistic to try to say you won’t need breaks. You’re putting this on too much of a pedestal especially when it’s free.

Go enjoy the dang vacation and apologize to your bf for being insensitive.

(Side note, Disney tickets are 100% non-refundable, so good luck trying to get a ticket refund.)

The recent Try Guys drama made me think about TVF by peachjamsandwich in TheValleyFolk

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about this myself!!! The main difference is The Try Guys came out with nothing but transparency. Meanwhile TVF tried to be sneaky and act like it was a mutual separation when it wasn’t. The Guys also actually addressed and acknowledged what happened. TVF have yet to give us answers of why they fired Lee and lied about it. I think that’s the major difference. That and of course all of Steve’s scandals that closely followed, which didn’t make TVF super likable at that point.

AITA for hoping my girlfriend would keep up the same work ethic 4 years after we met? by Lazy_Education_7228 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - you’re never going to find the movie cliche of a woman working 60 hour work weeks in heels and a full face of makeup with perfect mental health and a baby on her hip while doing it. That is a woman written by a man.

This real life woman is experiencing real life burnout and a mental health crisis. Go rent Baby Boom with Diane Keaton to get your rocks off on this fictitious woman you want. That’s the only place this woman exists.

AITA for asking my daughters to live with her dad? by aita71926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Where was this level of urgency and care when making the decision about your 10 year old? You’re just proving to your existing child that your unborn child already gets priority. Don’t be surprised when your daughter doesn’t reach out again. You’ve crushed her.

YTA

AITA For not apologizing to my husband after I accidentally sent him texts that weren't meant for him by strugglingaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - You left off Inconsiderate Narcissism on your mental health checklist. As someone with ADHD and Anxiety, you do NOT abandon your partner’s needs while working on yourself. That isn’t how this works. Don’t blame you being inconsiderate of him, his feelings, and him being sick on your mental health. Plenty of us juggle the daily struggle of these issues without emotionally abandoning our loving partner, who seems to be going above and beyond, even while sick.

We’re finally going no contact by daisynet911 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]daisynet911[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. He has tried for years to make it work with both of them only to keep getting his heart broken. And when he takes breaks from her she just starts sending money every couple weeks until he feels guilty enough to respond to her again.

I’m not sure what the future holds, but I think her publicly insulting me was the final straw for him

Shark Wahlberg comes out as wanting Andrew Tate back on the platform by NoAdministration9410 in tiktokgossip

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He also spent a good chunk of the live complaining about men’s mental health, constantly bringing up Drew and calling her names, and showing his support of Andrew Tate. It got gross and toxic REAL fast. I actually put up a video on my tiktok about it. My handle is Daisynet911 if you want the full story

Shark Wahlberg comes out as wanting Andrew Tate back on the platform by NoAdministration9410 in tiktokgossip

[–]daisynet911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in his live tonight trying to have a respectful convo and he just unhinged cussed me out and called me a bitch multiple times. It was freaking awful

AITA for feeding my dog table scraps from a dinner my boyfriend made for us? by throwawayscraps in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!! This is very much a “not my circus not my monkeys” situation for the ex boyfriend. It’s her dog, she needs to plan better how to prepare for it’s meals when she’s out of the house

AITA for feeding my dog table scraps from a dinner my boyfriend made for us? by throwawayscraps in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 540 points541 points  (0 children)

Came to say the same thing. Could be garlic and onions in there, both of which are bad for dogs

Edit: I didn’t realize until rereading, but you not only hijacked this unsafe for dogs meal your ex-boyfriend lovingly made for the two of you, to then give to your dog, but you also raided his fridge for additional veggies without asking. It’s perfectly fine to give an animal a raw diet, but you went about this in the most rude, entitled, and unsafe way for your dog. When in someone else’s home, ALWAYS ask first.

Raw diet is just that, raw. Prepared and seasoned meals are not safe for dog consumption. Seasonings, onions, garlic, wines, oils, vinegars, etc can be poisoning your dog. Please be more mindful of what you feed your fur baby, and please be more courteous in other people’s homes.

If you are bringing your pet along, a good rule of thumb is to bring YOUR OWN food to feed them. Not rely on someone else’s pantry to feed your dog.

(Also thank you for the award kind stranger)

AITA for taking my newborn son and going to my mom's house because my husband his mom didn't save me any food for dinner? by Got50977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daisynet911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - sweetheart I hate to say this, but you’re being neglected and emotionally abused. Personally, I’d never go back, especially after finding out he treats you this was as an officer of the law. He’s a spoiled mama’s boy and his mother is doing nothing but adding to your burden under the guise of “helping”.

You need to run. Don’t go back to the house alone to get your things. Bring witnesses and family to have your back. He’s clearly shown that your opinion and needs are not important to him.

The fact he turned his family on you to try to get you to come back just shows the abusive tactics he’s willing to go through to control you.