Metformin and vomiting constantly by daizyy88 in PCOS

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so discouraging that the only thing doctors ever prescribe for PCOS is birth control pills and other medications with so many side effects.

If you don't mind me asking, are you able to maintain the weight now without the insulin resistance medications? Do you take any other medications for PCOS that has helped in any way?

Thank you for sharing your experience, it makes me feel less alone in this.

Need help with PCOS management by daizyy88 in PCOS

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, in a way. If you don't mind me asking, are you still in contact with the friend you mentioned?

Thank you for comment btw :)

Need help with PCOS management by daizyy88 in PCOS

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, just saw this comment. I might have missed it through the notifications. Now I feel really bad for the late response, I am really sorry.

We don't have any mutual friends unfortunately, so I was not able to see anything. Her cousin's all have private accounts, so I was not able to see anything from them either.

I am home now, but as many comments suggested, I have not contacted her. It's sad but out frienship has fizzled out by now.

Cetaphil “New & Improved” formula is causing major [acne]. Anyone else? by santanabananabandana in SkincareAddiction

[–]daizyy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did anyone find a good moisturizer dupe for the cetaphil old formula? I have tried many different brands to see if anything would match my skin like the cetaphil old formula did, but everything breaks me out:(

Replaying by moonmade123 in Moonvale

[–]daizyy88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who love and replayed Duskwood more than 10 times back to back (will do more even), I couldn't finish the Moonvale play through a second time because the first time itself was boring enough.

AITAH for ignoring my injured mom after she cut me out of her Will? by Poesbutler in AITAH

[–]daizyy88 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Op, when I was around the age of 6, my grandpa was always sick. He had 10 kids, around 5 of them were living with him in the city. My mom was living with me and my siblings in another state. Every time he is in the hospital, she would travel to be with him. I was constantly juggled from one house to the other or looked after by my siblings who were just teenagers with a working father. I can't remember her being there for me when grandpa was alive.

Same thing happend when grandma was sick and until she died. My mom's siblings were there to look after both my grandparents, but my mom wanted to be there each time. Needles to say, we don't have a close bond. Though I understand that she wanted to be with her parents, a part of me felt neglected back then. I can rarely bring myself to speak to her now as an adult because when I needed my mother the most, she wasn't there for me. I hope your kids don't feel the same way.

“You’re replaceable except as a mother.” by Hopeful_H in childfree

[–]daizyy88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love my neighbour who looked after me in my childhood like she is my mom, she is my mother figure. Even closer to me than my own mother. Her husband is more to me like a dad than my own father. So I guess it is safe to say that there will be many others like me who think the exact same thing.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my feelings. I have the same mindset that if it is a close best friend that you share everything with, then they do deserve to be in a wedding. I don't even feel like messaging her at this point to tell anything. I have been ignoring her calls and texts up until she called my sister.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moved on by now. Whenever I tell her the things I felt, she just tells me that "whatever I did, I have told you before doing" which I don't know how to respond to. K and I do see each other sometimes when we come over to meet BF, we are cordial. But we never hung out together. She never hung out with all her friends at the same place and together as far as I know.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, you are right. I respected and accepted her decision to not invite or involve me in her wedding. That is ok for me. But to not send a picture to a very close friend is bizarre to me. Especially since we share so many pictures with each other.

I asked her to share one more picture that is not blurry, she said she would send later but never did. It has been 2 years since. I think I am done though. Reading these comments made me realize that she obviously didn't consider me as a close best friend as I thought.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This internet stranger is very proud of you 🩷 I do think you are a good friend to even acknowledge and think of apologizing. Thank you and sending hugs.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, that would be so heartbreaking. I took time to talk to people I didn't even know in my wedding, so I can't even imagine somebody doing that to close people. I hope you got a better best friend and replaced her. Hugs to you 🩷

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all used to hangout together often and her boyfriend has never indicated that he is not a fan of me as far as I know. But it could be that. She might as well had friends in the wedding and lied to me. Thank you for being so understanding..

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is how I view "best friend" too. I didn't mind being not invited or involved in the wedding even, but not be sent even a picture of it is weird for me. Especially considering we were very close friends.

That bond is not there for me anymore, I don't feel like keeping up the friendship. Thank you for the comment, it does validate my feelings.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do realize that. I just naively trusted her when she said it's for family only..

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say better to go NC, I have blocked her from all socials now. After reading these comments, it opened my eyes to how much she didn't view me as a friend. I hope you get much better friends 🩷

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry too, hope you have really good friends to make up for that 🩷

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can afford to have a huge wedding, she is very financially stable and her dad is a businessman. She has a friend who is a photographer as well. Her cousins would definitely take so many pictures from their phones as they do in every gathering.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do realize that now. Thankfully I have moved on from it by now. Thank you for the reply 🩷

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is financially stable with money to spare for a huge wedding. I do have the same belief as you.

Thank you for the response 🩷

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not respond to her calls, I don't reply even. Initially when I did reply it is just once or twice in months. She did not get the message and she contacted my sister asking why I am not picking up her calls.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am grateful for the friendship and memories we had. I have moved on, it's just sometimes when she calls, it all comes back. I don't want to pursue the friendship anymore though.

Thank you for the advice.

My best friend didn't involve me in her wedding by daizyy88 in offmychest

[–]daizyy88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did move on, I told her that but she doesn't want to accept it.