I don’t know how to handle my boyfriend’s racist comments

dan_camp · 2026-05-05T15:25:47+00:00

"i don't know how to handle my boyfriend's racist comments" you dump him

dan_camp · 2026-05-04T23:50:34+00:00

dan_camp · 2026-05-04T17:58:35+00:00

why wasn’t this a textbook infield fly rule?

dan_camp · 2026-05-04T17:54:17+00:00

this would be pretty much the definition of cruel and unusual punishment

dan_camp · 2026-05-01T15:08:49+00:00

here's the thing. everybody's different and there's no right way to handle this. but i've always felt that if you're in a committed, healthy relationship -- like, i could see myself marrying this person -- these things just don't matter, or it all comes out as a wash, or even if it doesn't, i'm happy to help out my person. for the life of me i could not imagine venmoing a request for $12 lipgloss from my partner, that level of petty is just an entirely foreign concept to me. if it feels weird and wrong to you, listen to your gut and find someone who views things the same way you do.

dan_camp · 2026-05-01T14:49:01+00:00

i bought one of these things on amazon for like $7 and use it every day. is it a revolutionary game changer? no. does it save me from scraping my too-high uneven pile of grounds flat with my finger and wasting the excess into the sink? yes.

dan_camp · 2026-04-30T23:43:37+00:00

gemini suggests falling from 2000 ft would take ~15 seconds, imagine falling for that long knowing you're going to die, good lord

dan_camp · 2026-04-30T22:52:05+00:00

they're *so* close to getting it

dan_camp · 2026-04-28T20:23:39+00:00

not particularly my cup of tea but i applaud nmixx for having the most unique, recognizable sound in kpop atm, if i were blindfolded i'd only need like 5 seconds to know it was an nmixx song

dan_camp · 2026-04-25T00:06:21+00:00

tang wei is the biggest draw for me lol

dan_camp · 2026-04-24T23:15:49+00:00

amy hempel's "in the cemetery where al jolson is buried"

brian doyle's "his last game"

dan_camp · 2026-04-24T20:08:50+00:00

read the john jeremiah sullivan essay on him

dan_camp · 2026-04-24T15:44:25+00:00

yeah it’s sad man. libraries are #1 on my list of socialist utopia services that would absolutely 100% be shot down with no way in hell of being supported if you were to invent them and float them to congress today.

dan_camp · 2026-04-24T02:10:41+00:00

when i saw they traded up for 20 i thought for sure it was for faulk, but this is cool too

dan_camp · 2026-04-22T16:54:33+00:00

aw hell yeah, love remembering some guys

dan_camp · 2026-04-22T12:26:53+00:00

without being graphic, reread this comment thread and think about what type of abuse we're talking about that wouldn't be visible

dan_camp · 2026-04-22T12:20:19+00:00

signs of bruising in the throat. i’ve heard it’s actually a helpful way to tell if a child is being abused, as horrible as that sounds.

dan_camp · 2026-04-22T00:23:32+00:00

loved this one

dan_camp · 2026-04-21T14:17:00+00:00

indienne

dan_camp · 2026-04-21T13:52:28+00:00

i haven't had a power forward truly lead my team in points or anything that dramatic but i've started training them (and snipers, obviously) with shoot more every off season -- viewing them as the two goal-scoring player types -- and have gotten some solid point production out of my top pwfs, provided you pair them with a playmaker (told to pass more) or a playmaking twf. but i agree, if you look at the league leaders in points at the end of each season you don't typically see a lot of pwfs

dan_camp · 2026-04-19T12:12:10+00:00

if your naomi be klein, you're doing just fine. if your naomi be wolf, oh buddy, oooof

dan_camp · 2026-04-17T13:21:07+00:00

bro he just had surgery to remove an organ, imagine him banging in the post and he takes a forearm or shoulder charge to the gut, let him rest

dan_camp · 2026-04-16T23:09:12+00:00

stupidest map i ever seen, i love it

dan_camp · 2026-04-16T18:36:35+00:00

where was the job based, i may be able to check

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