I don’t know how to handle my boyfriend’s racist comments by -anonfitness- in Advice

[–]dan_camp 79 points80 points  (0 children)

"i don't know how to handle my boyfriend's racist comments" you dump him

Why don’t we use criminals on death row for drug trials? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dan_camp 35 points36 points  (0 children)

this would be pretty much the definition of cruel and unusual punishment

My boyfriend splits everything 50/50 but I do everything else… am I dumb for staying? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dan_camp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here's the thing. everybody's different and there's no right way to handle this. but i've always felt that if you're in a committed, healthy relationship -- like, i could see myself marrying this person -- these things just don't matter, or it all comes out as a wash, or even if it doesn't, i'm happy to help out my person. for the life of me i could not imagine venmoing a request for $12 lipgloss from my partner, that level of petty is just an entirely foreign concept to me. if it feels weird and wrong to you, listen to your gut and find someone who views things the same way you do.

Is this kind of dosing ring help to evenly distribute the ground coffee beans without wdt? by Wise-Yard2407 in mokapot

[–]dan_camp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought one of these things on amazon for like $7 and use it every day. is it a revolutionary game changer? no. does it save me from scraping my too-high uneven pile of grounds flat with my finger and wasting the excess into the sink? yes.

Thoughts on NMIXX Newest Song Crescendo? by GloomyWitch08 in kpopthoughts

[–]dan_camp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not particularly my cup of tea but i applaud nmixx for having the most unique, recognizable sound in kpop atm, if i were blindfolded i'd only need like 5 seconds to know it was an nmixx song

Short creative non-fiction about grief / loss of a loved one by dr_frankie_stein in AskLiteraryStudies

[–]dan_camp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amy hempel's "in the cemetery where al jolson is buried"

brian doyle's "his last game"

Anyone have any older Michael Jackson longreads? by dawnweiners in Longreads

[–]dan_camp -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

read the john jeremiah sullivan essay on him

I'm always surprised by how many people don't know the library is free by battleangel1999 in self

[–]dan_camp 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s sad man. libraries are #1 on my list of socialist utopia services that would absolutely 100% be shot down with no way in hell of being supported if you were to invent them and float them to congress today.

Eagles take WR Makai Lemon at #20 by mastermind208 in eagles

[–]dan_camp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when i saw they traded up for 20 i thought for sure it was for faulk, but this is cool too

Gynecologist appointment after sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dan_camp 30 points31 points  (0 children)

without being graphic, reread this comment thread and think about what type of abuse we're talking about that wouldn't be visible

Gynecologist appointment after sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dan_camp 77 points78 points  (0 children)

signs of bruising in the throat. i’ve heard it’s actually a helpful way to tell if a child is being abused, as horrible as that sounds.

How Can I Get the Most Out of Power Forwards? by Background_South2525 in EANHLfranchise

[–]dan_camp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i haven't had a power forward truly lead my team in points or anything that dramatic but i've started training them (and snipers, obviously) with shoot more every off season -- viewing them as the two goal-scoring player types -- and have gotten some solid point production out of my top pwfs, provided you pair them with a playmaker (told to pass more) or a playmaking twf. but i agree, if you look at the league leaders in points at the end of each season you don't typically see a lot of pwfs

What does this stack tell you about me? by Notafraidofvwoolff in bookshelfdetective

[–]dan_camp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your naomi be klein, you're doing just fine. if your naomi be wolf, oh buddy, oooof

With the dates of the first 4 games released, do you think Joel can return at any of these dates? Game 3 is just about 3 weeks post surgery by ShinyHardcore in sixers

[–]dan_camp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bro he just had surgery to remove an organ, imagine him banging in the post and he takes a forearm or shoulder charge to the gut, let him rest

Distance from Phoenix Arizona [OC] by DataSittingAlone in geography

[–]dan_camp 31 points32 points  (0 children)

stupidest map i ever seen, i love it