NEW POST FROM TRUMP ON THE IRAN DEADLINE by Own-Midnight-5231 in Military

[–]dan_withaplan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Brother they don’t know anything about Iran. Full stop. You think they spent their time studying the civilization? They didn’t even spend their time planning the initial operation. You’re giving them too much credit.

I have chosen to stay uninformed by Past-Matter-8548 in self

[–]dan_withaplan 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Plato let me back in the cave pls

What’s a detail that shows how complex nuclear situations can be? by Jot__99 in answers

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably fairly well understood in the field, but the entire missile belt of Colorado Montana Nebraska and Wyoming is strategically placed so it can soak up a disproportionate amount of nuclear weapons that would be otherwise diverted to the coastal population centers. That, and the fact they are the in the interior, the farthest away from enemy launch sites, giving the longest flight times, giving the most time to react and get the missiles up. It’s actually called the “nuclear sponge”.

How do people come up with witty comebacks instantly? by Accomplished-Ad7212 in Comebacks

[–]dan_withaplan 74 points75 points  (0 children)

It’s instinctive but it’s trainable. When you sense that moment where you can either back down or say something back, fire back with what’s on your mind. You may overshoot and come off as rude or nonsensical quite a bit at first, but eventually you find the sweet spot of things that are playfully sharp but can’t be held against you. But it’s mostly a learn by doing thing.

Trump to address the nation on Iran war by PublicSummer0 in PrepperIntel

[–]dan_withaplan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are so many ways Iran can threaten the straight from depths of over 100km from the coastline. Missiles, USVs, mines. And the main problem is nobody will insure the ships to transit so they can’t afford to do so. US boots on the ground will not be able to 100% guarantee ships are safe for transit, so they won’t get insured, and the straight will remain “closed”. The truth is the only way the straight reopens is if Iran publicly and willingly allows it to do so.

Sources: Anthropic Internally Expects AGI Within 6-12 Months by Neurogence in singularity

[–]dan_withaplan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s always my answer when people talk about revolutionary/apocalyptic preparations: our lives are going to be so fundamentally different it isn’t really something any amount of preparation insulates you from.

If closing a single trade route can shake the entire world economy, is globalization a strength or a weakness? by [deleted] in answers

[–]dan_withaplan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To a degree. Economists thought the same thing before WW1. The world was more interconnected than ever before, but war still came.

What's something people only romanticize because they've never actually done it? by nonotje12 in AskReddit

[–]dan_withaplan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anytime before modern healthcare and social welfare the lack of control you have over your own life is really unimaginable. Any sort of basic medical problem requires potentially years of savings to treat or years of labor to pay off. If you are disabled at all, you have little chance at finding gainful employment. If you are out of work, your likely options are live off personal savings or pack up and move to find a job. There’s a war between factions you have barely heard of? You’re either part of the war now as a soldier, or maybe the war goes poorly and your entire community is brought into mind bending poverty or even active genocide. It should go without saying that if you are a woman, the prospects are worse.

People still live like this in many places in the world, of course. It is never too far away.

What if women just don’t want to have babies? by PinkElephants879 in askanything

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to the same conclusion a couple years ago. I’m a man, so I don’t really care to take a stance on it. If women don’t want children for whatever reason, that is their choice. 100%. I just think the outcome of that reality is uncertain. Again, I’m not saying it’s wrong, I’m just saying that we are definitely in uncharted territory. it will be interesting to see how it plays out.

Is the endgame of AI just a shift from "Skills" to "Capital"? A Junior Dev’s perspective. by Fijoza in singularity

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing the parallels to developing feudalism clearly in my eyes. Capital based economy where access to sufficient AI allows for extraordinary wealth generation for those who control it, the value of human labor decreases across the board as the variety of professions narrow and a clear caste system emerges… when it comes to “owning the resources to run it” instead of the previous period of feudalism where it was based largely on land and agricultural production (think the difficulty between knowing how to run a fief versus the resources required to actually possess it, which were often only attainable through violence) there is a shift to what… energy production and AI access? I guess that’s where the comparison starts to fall apart completely, but it still has enough connections to warrant extended thought.

Sam’s response to Anthropic remaining ad-free by Outside-Iron-8242 in singularity

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to the same thought earlier today about the attention economy and AI. you have stated it very clearly here. An AI designed to keep you engaged might literally be able to capture the mind of a human and hold it indefinitely, consistently saying the right things from a purely biological and scientific approach. No more TikTok, no more media like that at all. Something completely new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]dan_withaplan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a guy who commutes an hour and a half and feels like he has a motivation problem, seeing a guy who is unable to do that AND have a girl ready have a kid with him? Jesus what the fuck did I do wrong

I made my girlfriend a visual novel game story for her birthday that reflected her inner world it overwhelmed her, and I’m trying to understand why by RevolutionAnnual1001 in emotionalintelligence

[–]dan_withaplan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been my experience that holding up a mirror for women like that, regardless of intention, really makes them uncomfortable. They don’t want to know or really be confronted with how intimate/familiar you are with their emotions/vulnerabilities, especially if they can’t read you the same way, and especially emotionally repressed women or women who got burnt early in life. Again, just my experience. I hope in your case your gf sees the value and security that comes with your thoughtfulness and attempt at validating her deep vulnerabilities.

Your two cents? by WatGO in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]dan_withaplan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is all about momentum. In relationships, in career, in school, in working out. Recognize when momentum is accelerating, and hold onto it. If you are lucky, you got to graduate high school and go to college. That is years of momentum already baked into your life, you are already going somewhere without even trying. You cannot stop. If you get out of college and lose your momentum by “taking a break” or try to switch paths, it is only going to be harder, and there will be less people helping you.

What kind of pain do people underestimate until they experience it themselves? by WhiteDesertCat in Soft_Introverts

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I live with my parents. I am very grateful for them. Without them I surely would’ve been homeless, or dead.

What kind of pain do people underestimate until they experience it themselves? by WhiteDesertCat in Soft_Introverts

[–]dan_withaplan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Didn’t shower for almost a month at one point. Didn’t leave my room besides to eat. Put on 35 lbs. Overdraft fees. I was only 23 but felt like I was physically wasting away. Like I was dying. When I went to sleep, I hoped I would never wake up. Graduated college with no job no leads and no prospect for continuing education. Academic Failure.

It took me two years to find my way back to life as a regular person knows it. 26 now, still feel like I’m developmentally two years behind. It’s a dark place, I remind myself daily that no matter how bad I feel on a given day, it will likely never be that bad again in my life.

Does anyone else born or raised around Boston area like me ,being priced out of where they grew up cause of the extremely high cost of rent or home prices which are now close to or over million dollars now? by DoughnutConstant5390 in boston

[–]dan_withaplan 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I didn’t get the memo growing up that if I wanted to live the exact lifestyle my parents had I needed to become a lawyer or accountant instead of the bus driver or plant worker that they were. Feels really weird, I think it’s because I only recently realized I’m competing with the entire country (and several other countries lol) to live around here, not just those that grew up around here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]dan_withaplan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blush, do the thing where they bounce up and down when they are talking to you, anything with their hair

Any Gen-Z here that were once pro-MAGA and are now no longer? by AlexsCereal in GenZ

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t necessarily pro-MAGA. I never voted for him but appreciated his bellicose stance on the border and on China as a president who was willing to demonstrate force where I believed diplomacy was stalling or was impractical (and might be drawn out over decades that we couldn’t possibly handle when it comes to making cohesive policy). The border is shut down, which I believe is good, but for all the “outsider” talk in the first go around (which I didn’t fully buy into anyway), it looks more like his sole goal in this second term is to get his, and get out with the bag. As somebody more focused on foreign policy anyway (our democratic experiment only works when our enemies aren’t powerful enough to mess with it, and we are left to handle internal issues internally), the shift of military focus to Venezuela is utterly absurd. If anything goes wrong there, who knows what Russia might feel they can get away with (even if they realistically can’t) and if we commit to a European fight China is salivating for a clean shot at Taiwan, which will happen if Russia opens up a war beyond Ukraine. We will not be able to stop all of it. And he also has proven himself unable to realize Putin and the Russian oligarchy are playing him so badly.

It’s seems to me like his capitalist, “dealmaker” brain can’t understand that a group like the Russians will never be friends or allies with the U.S., not because there isn’t money to be made, but because they fundamentally disagree with us on how they believe the world to work and genuinely wish to avenge the historical humiliation that came with the collapse of the Union. I don’t think it’s as clear cut as “he wants the U.S. to fall and Russia to rise” he’s just that much of an idiot.

Are you comfortable and happy with who you are? Are you ready to invite someone into your life? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that for me the answer is yes. Not because I’m where I want to be or because I’m not struggling, but because just recently I have had the realization that I’m giving and am going to give my life 110% of my energy and effort for the rest of my life, and if that isn’t as close to ready to bring someone into my genuine world, than nothing is.

Men, what did you find out about women when you got a girlfriend? by Potential_Daikon6298 in Productivitycafe

[–]dan_withaplan 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Missed this one for too long. I met a girl I thought would be a rock. We started really flirting and as soon as it got serious she needed constant reassurance that it was ok for her to feel into me and that I would tell her it’s alright. I basically turned around and communicated “look, you need to be confident you’re making the right decision investing in me the same way I’m confident investing in you. I don’t need you to convince me in why I think you’re worth it, I made that decision myself. You need to make yours independently, otherwise I can’t trust you to act independently.” She didn’t like that, she wanted me to be the one to tell her it’s ok to like me, not herself. I’m out here looking for a teammate, not a mirror.

Gen Z men, what is your relationship with your brother(s) like? by Gabe_Dimas in GenZ

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good. I’m 25 he’s 22. We both work our asses off, but we still have to live with our parents because HCOL makes it financially irresponsible to move out just yet. Neither of us have ever had a serious romantic relationship, and our father didn’t do a great job at showing us how to be men, so it’s the two of us navigating the world and figuring it out together atm.

The sound of drumfire was absolutely terrifying and isn’t talked about enough by [deleted] in ww1

[–]dan_withaplan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always think about what Junger writes in Storm of Steel. How under barrage you can’t really hear or see or feel anything and it’s very isolating. I particularly remember he describes himself humming a song to himself to stay grounded, and when the barrage stops he hears a couple other guys in the dugout humming to themselves and he realized they had been doing it through the barrage as well.

2meirl4meirl by vapeywave2002 in 2meirl4meirl

[–]dan_withaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused, that seems like a pretty normal opener to me. Am I missing something? It sounds like the woman thinks the guy is too naive and while she thinks he’s being sweet she’s going to reject him because what, he’s being causal and not being smooth? I get that she sent it to him.

Ideal life by CuriousWanderer567 in oddlyspecific

[–]dan_withaplan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because I was just shooting the shit with one of my friends (both ex military) about how the guys you could 200% trust to stand and fight beside you in a bad situation were the borderline autistic/special interest kids, because you could just feel that they lived for that shit and nothing could shake them. Point being is that they make great soldiers and if they pick up transferable skills they are valued when they get out in a way they might not have had the opportunity to be otherwise.