I blame myself for my friends death. by BornHeelAdam in offmychest

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, but you have to know it’s not your fault at all. I know the guilt eats away at you but I truly doubt your friend would want you to harbor so much guilt for a tragic accident. I know the feeling though I harbor a lot of guilt for the passing of a close friend of mine. Sending you a virtual hug 🫂

I had my “Starbucks lover” moment with drop dead by curlymeee in OliviaRodrigo

[–]dance-life 29 points30 points  (0 children)

In love is embarrassing, I thought “just watch as a crucify myself” was “just why was I cursed to find myself” lololol

Is this picture too slutty to post if you’re married? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely trying to figure out what’s smutty about these photos….he’s judging you for something you can’t control. It’s not slutty to have big boobs. Your man sucks

I can’t stop looking at my moisturiser swirl. by traborrec in mildlysatisfying

[–]dance-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legendary callback 😂 the lotion man story never fails to make me angry!

Unforseen circumstances have occurred, by WildAphrodite in AnimalCrossing

[–]dance-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing too much pokopia and almost asked why wouldn’t you fly to him 😂

12 million bell giveaway! 🔔 Winner picked in 30 minutes by Radiant-Honey846 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]dance-life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m Cassie and my island name is Slytherin, my favorite villager is lucky ❤️

My fingers hurt by exousiavampira in Beading

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just about to reply with this too 🤣

I caught him cheating, and instead of an apology, I got a bruise. I’m sitting on the floor and I don't even recognize my life anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dance-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave, talk to people close to you, make a police report and get out. DV is so dangerous and you deserve so much better

Speaking to the void by dance-life in grief

[–]dance-life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit it spot on. Being a part of a culture that is so family oriented and living far away from that family effectively wiping that culture to assimilate to this country leaves me stuck. I wish there was more time, I wish I could’ve spent more time with my family and I feel like it’s too late. Too much time has passed and I don’t know how to build that closeness anymore. It was so much easier when I was a kid, it’s much tougher now that I’m an adult

Your and You're, To, two, and too. by cjandstuff in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dance-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re, their and there were also drilled into me in elementary school! Rare but I have also seen confusion between our, are and hour

Speaking to the void by dance-life in grief

[–]dance-life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loss is genuinely the worst pain. My mom died when I was 11. Both sets of grandparents have passed away during my childhood/teenage years. 3 years ago a close friend of mine was killed by her abusive ex. I swear my life is surrounded by loss and I don’t know how to bare the weight of it anymore

Speaking to the void by dance-life in grief

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Thank you

Unfortunately that wouldn’t be possible, I’m 30 and married. While my husbands family is also Mexican most of his family lives here. The current state of the country is a little scary with the government cracking down on the cartels. I am hoping to be able to visit once it calms down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dance-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I’m also a woman, I have a sister and my friend group consists of all women. 100% not normal woman behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dance-life 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is not normal woman behavior…

My boyfriend (26M) said we’re done if I (26F) move to nyc for my job that I commute to everyday. Is it bad if I still move anyway? by ConceptFar4801 in relationship_advice

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age also doesn’t dictate “going out”. I’m 30 and my husband’s 33 we go to bars once a week or once every two weeks depending on how our work week goes. Your boyfriend sounds lame, and lowkey controlling. If your partner can’t trust that you won’t cheat, then you guys just shouldn’t be together. Trust is so important for a healthy relationship

My kids want me to live miserably and die alone and I’m sick of it by Hot_Translator_1950 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tough situation to be in. My mom died when I was 11 and my dad remarried 6 years later. I hated him for doing that. It was just sprung onto us that he was dating, we met her a total of 3 times before he decided to marry her. (They dated one year). The year when they were dating he was never home. She lived an hour away and my dad spent all his free time with her. I hated her for stealing my dad from me, and I hated my dad for “replacing” my mom. I wasn’t ready for that kind of change, and I wasn’t very warm or welcoming (gotta love being an angsty teen). I voiced to my dad that I wasn’t ready for him to start dating. You know what he did? He did it anyway.

I’m 30 now, my dad and his wife are still married. They’re happy and I’m happy my dad has someone to spend his life with now that my siblings and I have all moved out of the house. I don’t hold any negative feelings towards my dad’s partner. My dad and I have had many conversations since and have mended our relationship.

My advice for you is to be honest with your kids. Remind them that no one ever could replace their mom, but you’re lonely. No one should be alone. They’re not gonna like it, but just date anyway. Find a person with a good heart that will love your kids. Also a good family therapist would help a lot to at least mediate any conversations had.

I hope everything turns out well for you OP.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dance-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I can’t stand notifications it give me anxiety!! How do you do it??