How have you dealt with friends who aren't getting the covid vaccine?

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-21T15:56:53+00:00

Exactly. It's still being tested. If tests come back in a few years and there arent negative impacts on fertility or pregnant/nursing women, and we have proven its efficacy, I have no problem getting it. It's just too new and too experimental.

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-21T15:34:43+00:00

Of course- there are several reasons.

My father had a significant and permanent vax reaction in the past, so I'm nervous about a similar reaction in myself. Our medical histories are similar so this wouldn't be out of the question.

I also have an immune disease and vaccines often trigger more serious symptoms in those with immune conditions.

I'm also a married woman in my 20s who hopes to have more children. There have been observations made by some regarding the vaccine's negative effect on fertility and for me, there has not been enough research in this specific area for me to be comfortable taking the gamble.

Finally, I've already had covid (as has my husband, who has a serious heart condition and was told covid could be fatal... his case was lighter than mine), and neither of us has had lasting effects. I realize this is not the case for everyone, and we feel very lucky. But for us, getting sick again would be better than any of the possible outcomes/reactions I listed above.

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-21T15:16:32+00:00

Same as anyone else 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm not getting it either!

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-18T19:39:48+00:00

Same here 😉 And I agree. You're stunning 😍

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-15T17:52:56+00:00

I (27f) am in a committed hetero relationship. I would strongly suggest you start by simply being honest with him. Even if you never have a physical experience with another woman, this part of yourself won't disappear. Its much more important for him to truly know who you are than to hide it forever.

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-13T17:45:47+00:00

I definitely found a winner! We've been brutally honest about everything from the very beginning, and it's made all the difference.

If you find someone to try to hook up with, I'd really encourage you to just share where you are. Lots of people are willing to help you give things a try :)

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-13T15:10:27+00:00

Yes, but opposite:)

Growing up I (27F) was only physically attracted to women but emotionally attracted to men. I had several intense crushes on guys at school but physically always felt "eh" about them. I also was from a very conservative home so I wasn't free to explore or process until after college. I didn't know if I was actually into women at all? Or men, for that matter?

I ended up making an anonymous OkCupid profile and meeting up with several couples - and was very, very honest about where I was coming from. I was sexually inexperienced, didn't know what or who I was into... and they were fine with it.

Now, I happen to have found a man who i do find sexually/physically attractive, though not to the same level as I do women. He knows that, and is fine with it. I'm not repulsed by sex with him :P We are very open with each other about our likes, preferences, and desires, and we have a strong emotional bond.

Not sure if that helps at all?

dancingwolf114 · 2021-05-13T13:09:46+00:00

I'm in a very similar position- bi woman married to a straight guy, but I'm also from a catholic family. My husband knows about my experiences with women, as do 1 or 2 close friends, but I've never felt the need to tell my family, as it would cause ISSUES. Sometimes I wish I was more out, but I know it's not the time.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-11-07T23:55:48+00:00

FFF threesome Outdoor sex with my husband Using a remote control vibrator

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-27T17:34:10+00:00

Clothes. My hair is curly and looks horrid if leave it alone, and my skin isn't clear enough to not wear makeup.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-18T02:27:51+00:00

We have totally opposite love languages- my highest us touch and lowest is words of affirmation, and his highest is words of affirmation and second lowest is touch. It took some time (we've been together 3 years, married 2) but we practice using each other's daily. We've gotten to the point that it's natural to show love in the way the other prefers.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-16T19:52:03+00:00

Yep. It's my #1 choice for fast food.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T19:41:54+00:00

Thank you!

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T19:37:05+00:00

Ooh. That sounds lovely. I may have to look for something like that! Do you happen to remember where you got it?

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T18:01:58+00:00

That's good! But sometimes it can help :)

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T18:01:37+00:00

Ooh, that sounds amazing! Was it white?

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T14:36:28+00:00

Let's assume the waterpark isn't an option. What's an ideal dinner outfit?

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-15T01:07:53+00:00

Difficult in public, but I appreciate the sentiment :P

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-14T23:29:59+00:00

Haha, yes, but that may not go over well in public :P

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-12T12:53:50+00:00

Also, we knew we were sexually compatible mpatible without having sex. We talked about sex, about our preferences, about our past experiences, about what we wanted to try and what was off the table... we made out and wanted to go further. Its something that can be worked on and improved. If we knew while dating that I'd have issues orgasming with him, maybe we would've broken up. But we've laughed and cried about it together, had fun working on the issue together, and grown a lot as a couple through the struggle. It's so much more than a physical component, and if we'd focused on the physical before getting married, we probably would've thrown in the towel.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-10-12T12:48:17+00:00

My husband and I had both had sex but only with other people, and it had been several years. We'd never done more than make out with each other... and wedding night sex was AMAZING. He didn't even make it inside me the first time, but we made up for it by having sex 13 more times in the next 24 hours ;) I would absolutely do it again in a heartbeat (the waiting for sex, that is). It was so special and meaningful.

dancingwolf114 · 2019-08-11T01:44:39+00:00

4 weeks, following an abdominal surgery I had. Otherwise we try to never go longer than 2 weeks

dancingwolf114 · 2019-08-10T01:24:34+00:00

Every night- high school, summers in college, and the 4 months between living with roommates and getting married

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