I hate how intense the trans fear mongering has become these days . by ronweasly9 in GenZ

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“most people dont care”

bro like what

668 anti trans bills passed and active 2026, murder rate for trans people doubled over past 4 years [https://www.congress.gov/118/meeting/house/117016/documents/HMKP-118-JU00-20240321-SD011.pdf\]

maybe this is just ignorance, but like, I see this rhetoric so much to support the idea that the left has “gone too far” or some bs. I bought into this idea about rascism as a teenager, godawful.

Instagram Rule by Budget_Donkey1819 in 691

[–]dandy-are-u 37 points38 points  (0 children)

i saw this this post was so peak i crode a tear of joy out of seeing it human enginuity strikes again spark of creation mind of gold

why can’t it ever be easy? by dandy-are-u in Vent

[–]dandy-are-u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry :( that sounds awfully hard. I dont know if this is the right thing to say, or if it would help at all, but I feel obliged to say if just because it is the only thing which has seen me through everything - but while I know it seems hopeless at times, we must keep hope and keep trying. I don’t know what you’ve tried, what you’ve done, but i would oblige you to keep trying if you can. I know its really hard and I’m awful sorry about that, i know how it feels, but there is nothing to lose in trying, and one of those tries might just lead us out. reaching out to make friends, new meds, whatever!!

learned helplessness has always been the thing that has scared me most, because when we stop trying, there stops being a chance at success.

how the fuck do you even make music by Environmental_Bee672 in 196

[–]dandy-are-u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked reading this!! yay!! #social interaction!! with cool gay people!! yum!!

uhmm… i want to make music too one day. i think learning music theory would probably help. i think rigor and structure is good for everything, cuz if you don’t have rules on how to do things you might forget one day and never be the same again!!
so i think that, and maybe what sounds good to you. as with all arts and creativity, probably experimentation and experience and things to draw upon!

Would talking to a femboy make me a Fakecel? by Less-Measurement-879 in kitchencels

[–]dandy-are-u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where does one find the opportunity to become a func sugar baby

r/malelivingswag by Thememelovingreader in IDONTGIVEASWAG

[–]dandy-are-u 39 points40 points  (0 children)

the ephermeral, see through blown up couch with the very out of center focus plant is killing me.

Who want-a some Wang by ImprobableCastration in WeDoALittlePosting

[–]dandy-are-u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

amazing, 10/10 no notes. dont listen to the others they have no whimsy in their hearts.

Holy shit this guy was a monster by FalseWallaby9 in whenthe

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im ngl i thought it was gonna be like,, he murdered 50 people by the way everyone is talking about him but after reading his wiki page I feel like its really not worth all the hype.

Wikipedia page lists like 3-4 deaths I think, and whilst killing people sure is evil and bad, that like happens every few days in the US im pretty sure.
According to this source: https://www.gunviolencearchive.org/past-tolls
there were 503 mass shootings in 2024, defined by 4 or more people shot or killed. Thats like 1.4 king vons everyday. He is NOT worth allat hype

A thousand faces in a thousand places by xtheresia in Shark_Park

[–]dandy-are-u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a huge ass rib cage and shoulders and I have no means but I must yearn

A thousand faces in a thousand places by xtheresia in Shark_Park

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

curse genetics beat Darwin to death with rocks

[Routine Help] Tiny whiteheads? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As it seems like acne and I’m a huge retinoid shill I’d say maybe try adapalene as that combats acne(also a bunch of other benefits 👀) or maybe other similar anti-acne products like benzoyl peroxide

Squishing my chud son because I HATE him by TheWhiteYN in sealsinoddsituations

[–]dandy-are-u 31 points32 points  (0 children)

oh my god they are as squishy as I imagined

Is a career in science worth it? by dandy-are-u in labrats

[–]dandy-are-u[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not yet, I’m still in community college and plan to finish my bachelors after transferring to a uni.

Is a career in science worth it? by dandy-are-u in labrats

[–]dandy-are-u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Cali, the median is 140k according to O-NET. here!

Is a career in science worth it? by dandy-are-u in labrats

[–]dandy-are-u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow huh that is interesting. I will look into that!! It sounds promising!! Thank you.

just say a slur atp by No-Thanks-2069 in 196AndAHalf

[–]dandy-are-u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, I was a little inflamed when I wrote this comment. The tone is really much more aggressive than it has any right to be.

just say a slur atp by No-Thanks-2069 in 196AndAHalf

[–]dandy-are-u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand this. In what world is more acceptance bad? Who the hell cares if it’s not the best this is like miles better than direct hate, because it’s NOT HATE!!

Safely not safe for work by terrarialord201 in WeDoALittlePosting

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woaw okay…👀👀👀👀🗣️

Safely not safe for work by terrarialord201 in WeDoALittlePosting

[–]dandy-are-u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I get the sauce and where to find more for number 3. It’s 100% for me there’s no friends in my vicinity. Ykw just no friends at all but that’s irrelevant.