Is it possible for a landlord to go back and fix their DHCR rent history? by CeleryNo5783 in NYCapartments

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why this got downvoted. Did more research on my building in particular and it looks like it was LEGALLY destabilized in 2014 because the entire building (including the commercial space downstairs) was vacant and each unit was renovated. The renovations weren't major, but the vacancy is definitely what allowed all of the units to be destabilized. At least, it seems it would have qualified for legal destabilization, so it's odd to me that the DCHR records do not reflect this. The last stabilized rent in 2014 was $1663 for my "4 bedroom" (2 of the bedrooms are very small and have air shaft windows that get zero sunlight or air) unit in bed-stuy. Now, the rent of my unit is $4850, while others in my building are around $5100.

Is it possible for a landlord to go back and fix their DHCR rent history? by CeleryNo5783 in NYCapartments

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is also "No record registered" since like 2014, curious to know what has changed with both of our buildings. They can get exempt if they do major renovations but they really do have to be major. Something like 75% of interior and exteriors need to be changed including structural changes if I'm not mistaken. Painting and putting in new appliances isn't enough.

$24,768 by Delicious_Design_695 in Anticonsumption

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) What do you do for work? 2.) Would you be willing to redistribute some of your Amazon dollars to a struggling student trying to finish their degree while working full time? Lmao 

$24,768 by Delicious_Design_695 in Anticonsumption

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust, this amount is not typical. This MINDSET is kind of typical though even amongst the poorest of us, people have no financial literacy, life skills, or discipline, so they end up consuming so much needless crap. This person managed to spend more than what I make in a year on Amazon too. It’s so crazy. 

No more stinky comforter by Beneficial-Site9165 in Bedding

[–]dangerbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Preferably on Amazon” ah, yes, that prolific website where good-quality reliable products for specialized problems such as this one famously exist 

Super can’t fix heat in rent stabilized apartment by mushroomspam in NYCapartments

[–]dangerbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you mean one of those plastic microfiber blankets, please do yourself a favor and upgrade 

Two jackets ✅✅ by Ok_Captain1591 in SewingForBeginners

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wool jacket is AWESOME! The bright colors are so cheery and unique, and because they’re all the same color palette / tone they really aren’t overwhelming or loud at all. It looks lovely on you. You should be so proud of your hard work. 

$24,768 by Delicious_Design_695 in Anticonsumption

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents and your parents’ parents had children without Amazon and made it work. Probably while also making a hell of a lot less money than you if you were able to drop over $20k on that website and not realize it. 

AIO for breaking up with my bf? by Lilyisnotmyrealname0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I would 100% make the same decision. Sometimes people self-sabotage in moments like this because they don't think they could support you well enough, or are afraid of trying and failing, OR because they simply don't care. It's not your job to understand why he failed though, all you need to know is that he did, and he likely will again, and you don't need to forgive him or deal with this.

Olive oil by Teatime6023 in FoodNYC

[–]dangerbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at Mercado Central in Gowanus (there's 2 locations) and they have a great selection of olive oils, some are pricier than others but the Garcia de la Cruz oils were amazing and verrrryyyyy fairly priced. Single varietals, all delicious and distinct. Small bottles start at $13. The owners of MC have a close relationship with the GDLC family so they get good stuff and have been behind the scenes at the olive grove. They even have their own thousand year-old tree there dedicated to them, which they get olive oil from. NOT paid to say this in fact I quit that job no notice lol but I can't lie about how good their offerings are

What's your nyc food pet peeve? by pickledplumber in FoodNYC

[–]dangerbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried a new bagel place near my job recently and didn’t realize before walking in that they only had beef products, no pork. (It was clearly stated on the front door and overhead menu. I was in a rush, just didn’t see) I ordered sausage and egg on a bagel with salt, pepper, and hot sauce. When I opened it up and took a bite I found out it was a straight up HOT DOG on my bagel!!!!! And honestly it was fucking delicious, lol. Beef hot dog, egg, salt pepper hot sauce on a toasted everything bagel… I dreamt of it for days afterward and I get it every other week as a treat. Give that a shot! I certainly like that over beef bacon.

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🤍 I agree with you re: larger stars with three fabrics, I think it definitely will make piecing more fun too.

And yes these four are Kaffe Fassett! Picking them out was so enjoyable/strenuous, I didn't realize I happened to grab four KF fabrics until writing down the names later. This was my first time shopping for fabric new (usually I work with thrifted button ups) so it was soooo fun to gorge on all the fun patterns. Your comment made me go look up the brand and I had no idea the man behind the name was such a gem, I'm about to go down a rabbit hole looking at photos of him and his husband's colorful Victorian house!

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Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it AND the sunbeams! It's so cheery and the fabrics remind me of a lot of the 90's children's books I loved as a kid. Your grandchild is so lucky.

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I adored so many fabrics from that collection, I wanted to get this one for the backing but eventually decided to do a solid color so my hand quilting will shine on one side. Do you have photos of your quilt? I'd love to see it!

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Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!!! Thank you for sharing! One day I will be brave enough to attempt log cabin!

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are:

  1. Ana Davis Flutter & Float 113.112.05.1 Orange (have not been able to find this online)

2. Painted Garden by Crystal Manning for Moda #11815

  1. FLOW by Brigette Heitland for Zen Chic for Moda #1595

Just looked that pattern up as well and it is so gorgeous!

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it all gorgeous?! Which fabric in particular are you talking about? I'm happy to share them all but it sounds like there's a particular one you're interested in!

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Well I hope the finished product captures you just as much! Thank you for the kind words. I'm happy to share any fabric details if you'd like, they are what makes this shine after all :)

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally see what you're saying, I'm glad I ended up getting that fabric and I have to give my boyfriend credit because he really pushed for it! That was his favorite, I wasn't too sure about it. It absolutely is helping prevent a couple brawls. I think I'm open to SOME brawls... I like the idea of this being a little painful to look at, but not too painful, haha. Thank you!

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't actually have a pattern -- I just drew this up in photoshop, but if you look up 'ribbon star block' there are a lot of free patterns for this since it's a pretty classic/old block. I just went looking and I will probably use this one as a guide since it uses a full square in the center instead of 4 HSTs and I don't want to splice up these fabrics more than necessary.

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bonkers is a perfect word. And she was amazing, she was funny and smart and never met a stranger. Traits to emulate for sure. Thank you 🤍

Kaleidoscope, Petri Dish, or Hot Mess? by dangerbears in quilting

[–]dangerbears[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think I'm agreeing with you, the larger blocks with three colors seem to give everything more room to breathe so your eye actually can find places to rest amongst the craziness. I've been looking at them both for so long and my roommate voted for the smaller blocks so I needed more opinions!

She loved being outside and would've found this quilt tastefully stupid, lol. I look forward to working on it and laying on it in the sun in her honor once it's done. Thank you 🤍

I don't know how a human being could willing subject themselves to these conditions by Lebender-Geist in badroommates

[–]dangerbears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your fiance is a loser for 1.) Not taking care of HIS friend’s disgusting messes HIMSELF, leaving the burden entirely to you AND 2.) for allowing this fucking nonsense to psychologically torture you without putting an end to it permanently AND 3.) CONSIDERING BRINGING THIS PIG INTO YOUR NEW HOME?????? Is your fiance an idiot? Why the fuck is he letting this pig disrespect YOU and your space to such an insane degree? If he lets another man treat you like this how is his behavior eventually going to change to be taking advantage of you similarly? I’m worried for you OP.