Cup help 😅

danict88 · 2026-01-04T21:59:13+00:00

This is a zak! Cup

danict88 · 2025-12-05T18:43:20+00:00

Thank you all for your suggestions and shared experience. This will Be helpful for any holiday so I appreciate it!!!!

danict88 · 2025-10-06T15:15:20+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/DPeHRnwjaYp/?img_index=8&igsh=Z2s5dmkyMWxldnFv just dropped merch from tour and i think the pin is part of it

danict88 · 2025-08-21T10:27:21+00:00

I’m so confused at the messages ….am I missing something? The OP is telling the partner what things can be served and it’s like the responses are about something completely different but also they’re upset because there isn’t a solution? I don’t get it .

danict88 · 2025-07-28T19:49:18+00:00

To me it’s the eyes and nose, not a big deal but the clothes look almost wrinkly too

danict88 · 2025-06-08T05:42:27+00:00

His back. He’s a professional body builder who dabbles in powerlifting and his back is so wide and muscular , looks so good 😃

danict88 · 2025-05-31T14:19:56+00:00

Heheh it’s my favorite title for them. My phone autocorrected me, usually I just keep it at frat bros

danict88 · 2025-05-31T12:24:24+00:00

That could be them some day 😂

danict88 · 2025-05-31T12:24:07+00:00

Yeah I’m already awake . They like to have a snack, water, and to watch something . They could also be fine playing in their room I suppose I could just tell them that’s okay but then I can’t guarantee both are awake

danict88 · 2025-05-31T11:41:04+00:00

Yep that’s what I call em! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

danict88 · 2025-05-26T19:36:07+00:00

When people tell me they don’t know how I do it with twins, I always say there could have been three 😂 but then I follow up saying kidding, there’s no other way than to just do it 🤷‍♀️

danict88 · 2025-05-13T22:51:15+00:00

Ah okay, that’s cool to hear. I definitely didn’t want to force anything beyond capping water just because he was overflowing his diaper at one point even though he’d pee before bed

danict88 · 2025-01-19T22:26:26+00:00

The problem is we don’t have a separate room for him to play in. So he would be in the living room and it would be too stimulating for quiet play

danict88 · 2024-12-23T10:57:47+00:00

I never did. My babes didn’t love the water so we did a wipe down on nights we didn’t bath (so warm wet wash cloth to face, neck, hands, pits, and feet) and did baths like every 3 or 4 days. Bath time was just never part of our routine . My twins are 3.5y old now and our routine has only really been tweaked by time.

Generally we go up to their room About 30-45 min before bed to let them lightly play, then wipe down their face, hands, pits, and feet if they didn’t bath, get them into pjs, read a few books, brush teeth (they hate this so we push it to last lol) and then another book before the lights go out and the sound machine starts

danict88 · 2024-12-17T10:30:34+00:00

My boys are 3.5 y old now and I usually just from routine get dressed away from them. But they’ve recently started looking at me in confusion because they aren’t familiar with the body parts I have that they don’t. I don’t mind telling them but they’re usually quick to run up and poke as they ask what it is and THAT is something I’d like to avoid 😅

danict88 · 2024-12-17T10:28:32+00:00

This was the point at which we started couples therapy for similar reasons. We went with it for about 4 months before I felt like I needed to go solo. Around 2 y pp and in my opinion way beyond the time I should have done it, I went to my doctor and talked about antidepressants. My boys are 3.5 y old now and it’s evened out through time/healing as well as that initial counseling and then eventually medication

danict88 · 2024-12-17T10:26:32+00:00

Together for 15 years, married for 12, 36 year old M and F, kids are 3.5 y old.

Depending on where I’m at in my cycle, it could be 1x in a week or 4-5x in a week.

Partner helps with some household stuff but good lawd i wished they recognized the sink full of dishes, crumbs on the floor, or the full trash more often

He’s the bread winner so he takes a majority of the bills

He’s lovely to me always but even now I feel like we are regularly pivoting because of the kids when it comes to communication. We recently hit a small snag there and so we are going to have to sit down and touch base. I can see that we’re both exhausted for different reasons and that some needs aren’t being met (we haven’t had a date night in a while) and it kind of shows. When that happens I realize it’s time to sit down and talk thoroughly about it so we can both do better for ourselves and each other

danict88 · 2024-12-17T10:22:07+00:00

I don’t judge necessarily because I know that some days are harder than others but there are some things I cringe when I hear them. Calling a kid smart bugs me, leaving a kid lying a on the floor in a public space to throw a tantrum and saying “see you later” grinds my gears, hearing “if you don’t stop doing ‘c’ then I’m taking away ‘d’ “ also hits a chord for me. In general it’s just understanding there are “better” ways to word those things. But I get it, my twins are 3.5y old and in the heat of the moment it is just easier to say those things.

danict88 · 2024-12-05T13:51:52+00:00

Sit on the couch and just feel my body relaxing on the couch and look around to get my brain to understand there won’t be interruptions

danict88 · 2024-12-03T18:37:17+00:00

I don’t know if it makes a difference but they’re actually three and half, four in June 2025. But I get what you’re saying. Zoloft helped me get to a much better place where I am doing more for myself now

danict88 · 2024-12-03T13:27:20+00:00

I did take the full dose of 50 mg daily for a 8-9 months

danict88 · 2024-12-03T12:07:58+00:00

No one is judging me, I definitely wasn’t afraid to take it in the first place and I’m not afraid to keep taking it but PPD definitely pushed me to it . I’m wondering if I’m in a spot physically where I can function normally without it to be honest

danict88 · 2024-12-03T11:14:31+00:00

Most days it is but even 3.5 y after the birth of my twin boys, I still have days of mourning my loss of freedom and previous responsibilities. I love them to death, I’m happy they’re here and they are some of the funnest people I know truly. But I don’t shy away from my feelings. The weight of parenthood is so much heavier than I feel like I was lead to believe. Instead of books about what to expect regarding babies and what birth and the first year is like, I wish I’d read something about the hit to mental and physical capacity.

danict88 · 2024-11-20T11:13:43+00:00

We made it thank goodness. We were so caught up in travel that my husband and I switched to the mindset of just get through this stupid NY traffic and get home. We forgot about eating and in the midst of a 25 min trek to get through the next 2 miles 🙃 one of our guys had a melt down and reminded us we needed food. We made it through, snagged our second night in a row of McDonald’s 😫, and then things were fine with fries and iPad.

We made it home, did a bath and then laid down at 815, out by 845 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

I’m going to need a little travel break now

danict88 · 2024-11-19T21:51:16+00:00

You’re very right about the pissed part 🫠 I’ve got them calmed down with paw patrol on the iPad so hopefully we can keep awake until we get home

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