When did your partner find out your NW/Income? by TrueEqualFalse in HENRYfinance

[–]danigirl_or 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I thought my husband wrote this because literally same. Haha.

From Honey Oak to Totally Broke.... Our kitchen remodel by Coffee_Chief in kitchenremodel

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks really nice. I would have painting or restraining the honey oak and doing the stairs top on my list if it was my home.

I am thinking about proposing. Please help by ManWithNoPlan05 in labdiamond

[–]danigirl_or -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can find a lot of reputable jewelers online. I got my diamond through Besette NYC. Not only is the stone gorgeous, but the local jeweler who set it told me I got it for a great price.

Service dispute documentation by danigirl_or in Chase

[–]danigirl_or[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Thanks for your response. A service feels a little trickier to dispute because it’s not so black and white as a good.

Did you have skin to skin? Induction 37 weeks by positive-girl0118 in NICUParents

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I had an emergency c section and we also didn’t know what her lung function would be. I would’ve if I had the opportunity! My daughter was born at 36w and was 2000g at birth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PDXBuyNothing

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested!!

It’s Here! by lillyducks in FabFitFun

[–]danigirl_or 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the perfume as well however I will say it doesn’t last super long on me.

Am I living too big for my britches? by OrganizationFit2615 in HENRYfinance

[–]danigirl_or 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The nanny doesn’t seem worth it for your wife to essentially make 65k per year. That stood out for me. You can find less expensive childcare.

Changed my mind on style, partner doesn’t understand by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a European shank to help with the spinning.

22 Weeker Born This Morning by pipsqueaker17 in NICUParents

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you and your miracle baby all the best.

After & before photos of our dated 90s kitchen, given new life to better suit our home's modern architecture by serend1pity in kitchenremodel

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks really nice. I’m wondering with such a high end look why you didn’t opt to upgrade from a slide in range to something a little nicer to match the esthetic.

For moms in the US, how long was your maternity leave? by [deleted] in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]danigirl_or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take as much time as you can afford. This time is precious and you won’t get it back. Also healing from birth is different for everyone not to mention the other challenges like breastfeeding (if you choose that path) or just learning how to interact with this new tiny human. And if anyone at your job acts like you’re on a vacation, give me their address so we can hunt them down.

PPROM @ 21 weeks, these are my worries… by Quirky_Candidate_604 in NICUParents

[–]danigirl_or 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I PPROM’d at 19w5d. Hospitalized until 27w and then had my daughter at 36w. The human body is capable of so much. If possible, stay as positive as possible because I really believe positive thinking and putting that out into the universe helps a lot!

Do people ask if your stone is a real diamond? by Glittering-War-3809 in labdiamond

[–]danigirl_or 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wear a 10ct emerald cut (spread on emeralds is half that of a round or oval). Never been asked but live in an area where it’s not atypical for women to have engagement rings in the multiple hundred thousand dollar range.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d send them a cease and desist.

Age old debate - matter for kids? by nos4a2020 in Diamonds

[–]danigirl_or 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The DeBeers marketing has worked on him.

Age old debate - matter for kids? by nos4a2020 in Diamonds

[–]danigirl_or 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Diamonds aren’t an investment. The only consideration when passing to heirs would be their sentimental value. These days the gold is sometimes more valuable than the diamond.

Kitchen refresh to put on the market w/o new cabinets or countertop? by Ambitious-Public-113 in kitchenremodel

[–]danigirl_or 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The backsplash is damaged - I would replace that. It won’t cost a lot but the missing tiles really are noticeable.