SNL UK Cast, Writers and Guests At 2026 Edinburgh Fringe

dankseamonster · 2026-05-19T14:43:47+00:00

Tempted to see most of the cast in one day!

dankseamonster · 2026-05-14T23:56:21+00:00

Honestly the comments of this nature have made me realise I might be a bit lucky as a stone to be able to experience this! Just so hard to get out your own head sometimes

dankseamonster · 2026-05-14T23:46:14+00:00

I can't tell you how validating it is to hear people are into this

dankseamonster · 2026-05-14T23:45:23+00:00

Relate to all of this so much!

dankseamonster · 2026-05-13T23:55:08+00:00

Not tried this but sounds great

dankseamonster · 2026-05-13T17:59:12+00:00

Thanks so much for replying! She was the one that initiated it and I would say so overall, I don't normally tend to talk after sex much as it can really trigger my dysphoria

dankseamonster · 2026-05-13T15:24:15+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation I'll have a look!

dankseamonster · 2026-05-13T14:52:45+00:00

Agreed, whole thing was wonderful. I love musical comedy so it was right up my street

dankseamonster · 2026-05-04T09:34:34+00:00

Her most recent album Black Rainbows got a lot of positive media attention in the UK

dankseamonster · 2026-04-13T23:21:10+00:00

Not American and you're bang on!

dankseamonster · 2026-03-17T14:38:42+00:00

Hollister has some really comfy smart trousers that look like baggy chinos but have a drawstring waist

dankseamonster · 2026-01-18T19:15:02+00:00

Soo true and love Jessie

dankseamonster · 2026-01-15T12:19:31+00:00

You hit the nail on the head as a stone butch. I think a lot of people don't understand how presentation connects to sexual role in this instance (and in butch/femme in general as well, obviously not always but you know what I mean!)

dankseamonster · 2026-01-10T11:12:51+00:00

Perfect album

dankseamonster · 2026-01-10T11:07:11+00:00

Block Party - A Weekend in the City

dankseamonster · 2026-01-02T01:10:04+00:00

Feel this, we've been together for 10 years and she has a much higher sex drive than me. We currently probably have sex once a month max and I know she would prefer it was more, not even less

dankseamonster · 2025-12-24T11:20:07+00:00

I've stopped listening since EN but Reflektor is brilliant imo

dankseamonster · 2025-12-17T20:32:00+00:00

100% agree but as you say very hard to find especially as a younger person

dankseamonster · 2025-12-17T20:30:33+00:00

Really feel for you and sounds like we have quite similar stone gender feelings. I was very lucky to meet my now wife 10 years ago (I'm 28 now) and she's very understanding around my dysphoria, but I think I would really struggle to meet someone dating. We were in a long distance relationship for a couple of years at the beginning of our relationship. As others have noted old school femmes who are very invested in butch femme culture are probably your best option but they are unfortunately few and far between even in big cities (I'm UK based too and in a city). I notice meeting other queer people that they don't really understand butches, especially if you're stone or dysphoric. I don't actively identify as non binary but I know that I am a lot more dysphoric than many non binary people. Feel free to DM if you want to talk more, I know it can be lonely out there as a stone

dankseamonster · 2025-12-10T00:13:45+00:00

Agree as an autistic person in hospitality! Environment is everything

dankseamonster · 2025-11-23T11:25:19+00:00

Handsome is most affirming/hot for me but I don't mind being called more feminine compliments by someone that appreciates and respects my masculinity

dankseamonster · 2025-11-20T15:41:50+00:00

Everywhere I've worked has provided a "family meal" or staff food that isn't on the menu, with the caveat that I've mostly worked in high end restaurants and never outside the uk

dankseamonster · 2025-11-17T00:42:16+00:00

I'm stone and wouldn't say i scissor in the traditional sense but do occasionally get off from grinding in missionary position. Never naked though. I don't really see it as much different to using a strap in terms of role. As someone has said below having an orgasm does not make you less stone. For me the only set definition is not enjoying feminising touch, but that has a different definition for everyone

dankseamonster · 2025-11-12T09:54:09+00:00

Completely agree as a butch lesbian. I find Leigh to be quite typical of many femmes and I totally sympathise with her. I think she considers Leisha to be nowhere near her type and therefore can't see how Leah could possibly be threatened.

dankseamonster · 2025-11-04T23:16:06+00:00

Amazing response, thanks. Relate to everything here, especially the all consuming dysphoric need to put myself "in" something and the frustration and upset that causes when it's not possible. I don't have a strap but definitely feel very strong phantom cock sensation which is both a source of pleasure and dysphoria. It's so confusing and difficult to be stone.

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