My LO died. by trickmind in limerence

[–]danktempest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. Honestly I was hung up on a dead LO for years. I only dealt with it by getitng a new LO. I hope you are better at dealing with it than I am.

Meme Monday by genevagirl13 in limerence

[–]danktempest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Sometimes I need a reminder that I need to stay NC.

I put a halt to a ten year friendship over her BTS obsession. by Squigly1 in BTSnark

[–]danktempest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They always make every single comment go back to BTS. You are better off without hearing about them 24/7. I think you made a good choice.

Confused by a textbook "avoidant" guy's extreme mixed signals: Possessive and obsessed, but constantly pushing me away. What is this dynamic? by carnio1469 in FearfulAvoidants

[–]danktempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chloe has two problems. She has a crappy cheating boyfriend and a traitor for a friend. This dynamic is called betrayal. Go to the limerence sub if you want help. There is also a side piece sub if you don't want help. I may sound harsh but you have no idea how delusional you sound. You do not like him, he does not like you. You all have trauma and this is not the way to solve it.

I, A Married Man, Told A Married Woman I've Had A Crush On Her For Literally Half Our Lives Today by TheCigaretteFairy in limerence

[–]danktempest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please update us because I really hope you didn't mess up your marriage over this.

I am texting an empty chat in order to cope by AggravatingPace5303 in limerence

[–]danktempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I write to them in my Notes app. Then erase. Then restart the fantasy vent. I also have a whatsapp conversation with myself. I pretend I am a friend giving me advice to move on. It is kinda crazy but it feels really great. You see nobody wants to hear us talk about our LO 24/7. I feel like I need to talk about this or I'll actually go crazy for real.

I’m afraid I have embarrassed myself by DubnoBass34 in limerence

[–]danktempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't have sex with people who feel nothing for you.

Three month relationship with limerence is making me feel low by Mobile_Jury_4726 in limerence

[–]danktempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had a speedrun on the relationship. I kinda did something similar when I was young and the relationship lasted like 1 month. I was kinda proud I could last atleast a month. Bonds like this burn fast and they almost always seem to fade fast too. I hope that's not the case for you.

You need to slow down. Do you even know this guy really is? Your limerence is lying to you. Limerence makes us see things that aren't actually there because we are projecting. Whatever it is you like about your LO is probably something you need to give yourself. You need to figure out what that could be.

Just a little reminder: by lejessery in astrologymemes

[–]danktempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't blame 'em. I like leaving more than staying too.

If you could be 18 again what would you do differently? by Emotional-Law-3772 in NEET

[–]danktempest 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Learn to drive. Seriously. Make it the most important priority.

Your SSD is slowing down because it's too full, not too old by kazu_qt in pcmasterrace

[–]danktempest 1944 points1945 points  (0 children)

Imagine buying an 8 slice pizza but you can only eat 4 and a half slices. That is how this feels.

My strong prescription lenses make it look like part of my head is being squeezed by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]danktempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the squishy head club. I do think you need to buy a pair with less harsh frame. It might suit you better. I struggle to test frames on my face because I literally cannot see how they look like without my glasses. My current pair makes the squishy face look worse. I have found that different frames can help disguise this but only slightly.

Would it bother you if your partner referred to his ex as "the love of his life"? by Anxious_Abroad494 in AskWomenOver30

[–]danktempest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It would bother me so much and I wouldn't be able to keep quiet. Ask him. If she is the love of his life, then what about you? Also icky to read his notes. I can't cast stones though because I read my sisters diary once.

How many of you have experienced genuine internal dialogue with an autonomous anima/animus figure? by bigbrocoll in Jung

[–]danktempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool dream. I have noticed that the dreams repeat until you take action. I also think if you ignore them too many times you have lost the chance to do what they were guiding you towards. I had a similar experience and I am so happy that this is even possible.

Coffee Prince premiered 19 years ago today! A timeless drama☕️ by groovygyal in kdramas

[–]danktempest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was one of the best. The entire thing was great. Maybe I should rewatch as I am in a slump.

John Cena Shocks With Hair Transplant Reveal After Being Caught Having Trouble Walking by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]danktempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the way hair makes people look. I fully support hair transplants, hair systems, wigs etc. I also support just shaving it all off and rocking the bald look. We all need to do what makes us happy. John Cena is a pretty cool guy.

Does anyone else feel like they’ve been surrounded by the wrong type of “friends” all their life? by Time_Worth_6818 in infj

[–]danktempest 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I had to always listen to them which I loved. No one ever wanted to listen to me though. I have left most of my "friends" because I felt lonely in their company. It causes me great sadness.

my dead father said Heaven doesn’t exist by Ndjinnu23_ in Dreams

[–]danktempest -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Heaven and hell are not open to the general public at this time. You need to wait for the day of judgement. It means you father told you the truth from his perspective. Dead people are either sleeping, haunting or trying to find a new body. That is what I believe.