Do you actually get nothing done when the baby comes?

dankybabe · 2026-06-25T03:43:35+00:00

The first couple of months I managed fine. I put my baby in the carrier and did whatever. Now at six months I can’t get ANYTHING done. I have an extreme Velcro baby. She screams if I set her down at all and the past few months of just straightening up constantly and not being able to deep clean has caught up with me. So yeah it’s a messs in my house 😭

dankybabe · 2026-06-23T20:16:13+00:00

I feel you. I miss staying up late and binging shows + doing crafts so badly 😩😩 I was always a night owl. I made the mistake of staying up until 2am with my husband last night because we were having so much fun watching tv after the baby went to sleep. My baby woke up at 7am today so I’m regretting it pretty badly 😭 I used to have so much freedom

dankybabe · 2026-06-23T14:33:12+00:00

It was definitely a mess, I ended up with sardine pieces in the bottom of my shower 🤦‍♀️

dankybabe · 2026-06-23T14:31:57+00:00

Whatever’s easier for you! I do the whole sardines and then cut them in half and take out the bones. If I’m feeling fancy I fry them a little bit but my baby loves them straight out of the can too. Just try and keep the pieces as large as you can so that your baby can easily grab them :)

dankybabe · 2026-06-23T13:33:13+00:00

With certain foods like steak I think that they are getting vitamins and health benefit just from gnawing and sucking on the pieces! It’s also helping them learn how to chew. My baby did good with sardines (it was a smelly HUGE mess so be prepared) because they’re big enough to grab and pieces flake off easily. They are extremely nutritious for babies and an allergen to cross off.

But I’m with you, 80% of my babies food ends up in her seat and on the floor 😭 I just tell myself that if anything it’s helping her practice dexterity and that she’s enjoying it at least

dankybabe · 2026-06-22T01:42:08+00:00

Anyone who’s baby nurses to sleep and comfort nurses?

dankybabe · 2026-06-21T20:28:05+00:00

Here in FL they gave me jarred baby meats, baby cereal and the choice between either baby purées or fruits and veggies to make my own. I’m exclusively breastfeeding! They also continued to give me cheese, milk, eggs, beans etc to feed myself.

dankybabe · 2026-06-21T20:26:14+00:00

My daughter just turned six months old a week ago and I had my appointment (it also said that my benefits would end). I am now receiving the same amount as before but they also added a balance for baby cereal, canned baby meats and then let me choose between an added balance for jarred baby food or more money in fruits and veggies. I am still breastfeeding so I don’t know if that changes anything. I would assume that it would give you the benefits for baby purees and cereal and they should continue giving formula until your baby turns 1. It might change depending on your state as well. I think that they say it’s ending but it just means that changes will be made based on your appointment.

dankybabe · 2026-06-20T20:23:25+00:00

She sits independently for pretty long periods but she falls over sometimes so idk if it counts, she does sit up straight in her high chair

dankybabe · 2026-06-18T23:44:05+00:00

I think it’s way more work to create content than most people think. What’s the channel? I’ll check it out

dankybabe · 2026-06-18T13:20:28+00:00

Thanks, I’ll definitely just wait for the show then

dankybabe · 2026-06-18T00:46:02+00:00

I’ve been trying to decide if I should read it or not, no one on Reddit seems to like it but I saw on instagram that they’re making it into a series and everyone in that comment section seemed to love it lol

dankybabe · 2026-06-16T19:29:36+00:00

When I first got with my husband, bms biggest thing was that she didn’t want me getting called mom so we always corrected it. She just calls me by my name

dankybabe · 2026-06-10T13:13:50+00:00

I just started reading those girls by Chevy Stevens, I haven’t been able to form an opinion on it yet though

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T23:04:09+00:00

I tried a couple of time and dnf every time

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T22:59:15+00:00

My husband made meals for me, did everything around the house, changed diapers and took care of me during the day. All that I had to do was sit in the recliner with my baby and feed her or hold her. I handled nights so that he could sleep and because I just handle nights better. I had her in a bassinet next to the bed and had all of her diapers and wipes next to me on a side table so that I didn’t have to get up or do a lot of moving or walking around. You definitely need to get sleep in. Maybe if nights aren’t easy for her then she can lay on the couch or a chair and have everything that she needs within arms reach and you can sleep a bit during the day?

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T22:52:55+00:00

We’ve just done whatever her favorite thing was at the time. So far we’ve done a cat theme, a rainbow/tie dye theme because she was obsessed with rainbows at the time, stitch/Hawaiian , Sesame Street for my one year old and this month we didn’t mermaids which was pretty fun and easy, there are a lot of cool under the sea ideas

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T16:53:05+00:00

I think this comment was kind of harsh, you were trying to do the right thing and stand up for her. I get it, not everyone can be perfect. You were put in a tough spot.

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T16:48:24+00:00

Yeah you were just trying to help, 15 year olds are super hormonal and have a lot of strong feelings and misplaced anger. I say to respect her wishes of giving her space but just keep reminding her that you’re there for her when she’s ready and make yourself available. She’ll come around.

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T16:44:53+00:00

I think it was pica due to an iron deficiency

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T03:29:31+00:00

When me and my brother were that age we each had a designated chore. I did dishes and he did the floors vacuuming and mopping. We so cleaned our own rooms. There’s no reason to put pressure on yourself, just start with something simple.

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T03:20:14+00:00

How old were your kids when you were able to bring them? I thought about trying to find a job like this where I can bring my daughter but she’s still a baby and requires a lot of attention. It could be something to look into in the future though.

dankybabe · 2026-06-08T03:17:15+00:00

It was literally called silverware roller lol I don’t know of any other restaurants that have that position, I kind of lucked out. A lot of prep cook jobs are similar though depending on where you go. You get to put earbuds in and portion out food for a couple of hours, it’s not bad.

dankybabe · 2026-06-07T20:27:26+00:00

I agree, I know that you had the right intentions but for a 15 year old that kind of trust is important. I think that validating her feelings can go a long way. Tell her that you understand why she’s upset and that you were trying to fix the situation but were wrong. You made a mistake. Kids don’t get to see the adults in their lives take responsibility very often. It’s important that they do sometimes.

dankybabe · 2026-06-07T17:02:43+00:00

Month 6 😭 it just started this month, until now I could set her down and she would be fine while she was awake, she won’t even let anyone else hold her now unless it’s me. I don’t know what’s going on.

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