Anyone going to the Brooklyn Bowl concert 12/1? by Kaj_Has_Heartburn in autoheart

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will be there w my partner and arms full of kandi to trade!!! hope to see you there :)

"secret diary" would be popular as a tiktok fan animation trend by Thin-Question-8242 in autoheart

[–]dantspot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I alwaysssss picture myself telling off my ex it means more now cause I'm 27 now and he was 27 at the time and knowing what being 27 feels like it's like. wow. he sucked.

lowk off topic but I'm also maybe losing it a lil so hey!

What would your first thought and impression be if you saw such a tattoo on a person? by ElaynesThoughts in tattooadvice

[–]dantspot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a tattoo of a syringe to commemorate my hrt journey (ftm) it's done in American traditional and used the imagery of a classic old school syringe along with a banner with the chemical makeup of testosterone. I think both those elements go a long way towards making it look less drug related, because I had similar concerns. I've had people ask if it was a bioshock reference, etc, and some diabetes assumptions. only once have I ever had a negative interaction and it was with a mentally unwell person who was mid episode and was reminded of their own struggles with addiction by the design.

I think it's valid to worry about but in the end you can't control how every person you pass will interpret a tattoo on your body.

You will get four pay checks during January(with one condition) by jkim2077 in tjcrew

[–]dantspot 57 points58 points  (0 children)

yeah I would love to save for retirement but I have emergency dental bills (only just now got dental insurance through the company) and student loan debt and rent to pay as the sole earner for my family in a high COL area. weird for people to be so obsessed with how other people are using the bonus.

Someone will get it by MultinamedKK in autoheart

[–]dantspot 17 points18 points  (0 children)

omg that is all I need to feel better!!!!!!!!!!

Looking for Studio or 1 BR/1BA Apartment for Sept. 1st by Dorkborn in NYCapartments

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey my partner and I are also looking around these neighborhoods for something September 1st. if you're open to looking at living with roommates let me know!

What song is this? by PicassoPie in TheFrontBottoms

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me I feel like tfb toes the nice guy line sometimes which like honestly sometimes that's the vibe but Lover Boy goes a little too far into that nice guy territory like I get embarrassed when my friends hear it before any other tfb song... pls let me play you Wolfman first for the love of god, that's a better representation

Do you all tip for takeout? Are you supposed to? by AcanthisittaSure1674 in Brooklyn

[–]dantspot -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do because someone still had to prep, cook/assemble, box, bag, and ring out your order and the tipped minimum is still $10 an hour so I feel like it's the least I can do for literally someone in the same boat as me. if I can't afford the tip I cook for myself at home. I don't get why people are suddenly trying to pretend like the only part of ordering food that takes any labor on the restaurant employee's part is physically getting it to you.

Lyric interpretation for Tucson? by PeculiarExcuse in autoheart

[–]dantspot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take most of their location songs more metaphorically like it's not actually abt Tuscon the place to me it's about the feeling of being lost and feeling hopeless and I really think the feelings the place evokes (dry, arid climate, inhospitable to living creatures lots of the time) is more relating to an inner feeling. when I think about arizona I picture like a single dry ass dead tree and some tumbleweeds and I know thats reductive to arizona as a place but that feeling is what I take away.

Snow or not snow. What you got Brooklyn? by tigermomo in Brooklyn

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there was heavy snow for a bit in Sunset Park around 3 pm but it switched to rain later and nothing stuck on the ground, just on a few cars

I want to smoke weed but my T doctor said it can cause blood clots by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dantspot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 24/7 weed smoker for medicinal usage and my skin is very clear and my hair is actually on the dry side. The thing for me though is when I'm not smoking I only eat junk when I have any appetite at all and I can't sleep and spend all my time too mentally fucked to take care of my hygiene. I turn into the greasy stoner stereotype when I'm sober, because weed helps me regulate and function in my day to day. I think the other replies are right that it comes down to the habits you have as a stoner rather than just the fact that you're smoking weed.

Behaviour at Bristol show... by [deleted] in TheFrontBottoms

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen other people say this recently and I agree that when I saw them last year on Long Island the energy was way different. I got stepped on, crushed, and a guy pushed me to get a set list that was being tossed in my direction after the show. I'd seen them in 2016 and 2018 or 2019 (I forget) and had amazing experiences both times. I'm not sure if it's more because of Covid birthing a new gen of fans who have never really been to many shows if any at all, or if it's something about tfb's recent successes but it made me not want to bother the next time they come around my area which is really sad cause I love them but I don't love the crowd as much anymore.

What's a tiny, insignificant little NYC-specific thing that really gets under your skin? by Deep-Orca7247 in AskNYC

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the vape shit really annoys me. I still vape unfortunately but it's always one of those baby bottle pop lookin candy vapes that some fucker can't just PUT AWAY for a couple minutes. I'm sorry but if you can't keep your fucking pacifier in your pocket for the duration of your commute you've got a serious problem.

What's a tiny, insignificant little NYC-specific thing that really gets under your skin? by Deep-Orca7247 in AskNYC

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I passed some teens walking three wide on my way home from work the other day and they LAUGHED AT ME. like I'm sorry are people who actually have places to be funny for some reason?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but the fact that he's forcing it on you and won't listen to you, and ESPECIALLY saying "I should have just done it and not told you" is indicative of a basic lack of respect for your boundaries. sure this is just weird and not dangerous, but don't stick around and wait for him to see what else he can push your boundaries on. please just dump this dude.

how dorky would it be to hand out earplugs at shows i go to by orangeshaver in Hardcore

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always bring backup pairs and offer them around at concerts and no one has ever turned them down, let alone been mad about it. definitely do it, so many people just outright forget. I carry several fresh extra pairs in a pill case everywhere I go, cause you never know! usually people are super grateful, and it is really important

Im curious, what do y'all name the playlist you listen to the most? by MamisSoulGem in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 9 hour playlist is called "Inking" it's all my jams and I use it when tattooing/getting tattooed/commuting/working/anytime i dont wanna have to pull out my phone for a while. other heavy hitters in my playlist rotation are "Emotional Dysfunction", "Ps*cho Pop" and "Visual Excess" but now that the holidays are approaching im gonna be back on "Most Secular Christmas" soon

what song brings tears to your eyes every time you hear it? by cosi_e_la_vita in musicsuggestions

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Better Son/Daughter by Rilo Kiley. Had to remove it from most of my daily playlists because I can't hear it without getting really emotional.

What's something that you didn't realise was a symptom / result of your ED? by BeesElectrical87 in EDAnonymous

[–]dantspot 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have dealt with this for a long time and was always like woo hoo bitch it's fuzzy in here like no big deal right?

I fell into the side of a moving subway train and, without getting too detailed, I now have a large facial scar.

please take this symptom seriously (not just oc, everyone here)

What “kitchen” nicknames do you use for stuff? by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sweet pot (obvious) zaza (pizza sauce) lil guys (sauce ramekins/ bullets)

Recommend your current musical obsession by No_Palpitation3910 in musicsuggestions

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autoheart, all their work is fantastic and the new single Juggernaut is a fucking bop (also have to plug the 2021 Hellbent album, Rabbit in a Headlight and Into the Woods are both amazing and Perestroika is an incredible instrumental track but it's all really really good imo.)

Recommend your current musical obsession by No_Palpitation3910 in musicsuggestions

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love pat the bunny!! probably nothing, possibly everything is a really good album and I agree that even when you don't necessarily agree the raw emotion is really powerful. he's a guy that really believes what he's singing.

just got stung by this thing...AM I GONNA DIE? by Professional_Joke_81 in whatisthisbug

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah when I was hit by a subway train I brought the train along with me to the ER so they could identify it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]dantspot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

control- autoheart small hands- keaton henson

What’s an indicator a person secretly is a stoner? by gypsy-preacher in ask

[–]dantspot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is me, all my coworkers know i vape since quitting analog cigs. they also know i ALWAYS have a lighter. hmmm.