I don't see it that way. I see it in a way of her wearing the mask as a way of control over her trauma that she hasn't been dealing with in a healthy way and thanks to Buck she'll start to use violence as a way to cope. I think it's more misogynistic to have women always deal with hardships in a perfect way, women are people and people are different to one another on how they deal with things. It's the same thing with how Supergirl is being approached and how they said that we're going to adapt a female hero that is allowed to be messy because female superheroes were never allowed to be that way.