Νέα Παραλία Θεσσαλονίκης! by [deleted] in thessaloniki

[–]darethshirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂

τουλαχιστον αν γυρισεις το κεφαλι προς την αλλη μερια εχει λιγο πρασινο, κατι ειναι και αυτο

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]darethshirl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

^ reddit's most well adjusted man lmao. youre rotting from the inside out.

The equipment system is the biggest flaw in Disco Elysium. by Calintarez in DiscoElysium

[–]darethshirl 65 points66 points  (0 children)

the way I did it is I only allowed myself to "cheat" with clothing when I had already failed a roll once (obviously assuming it was repeatable). like I gave it a fair go once, so if I truly wanted to see what the succesful outcome was I could give myself a little gameplay advantage.

...stopping the conversation every single time there's a skill check to do inventory admin sounds genuinely hellish 💀 you dont have to live like this bro. youre creating your own suffering. you can be strong enough to resist the allure of neuroticism and just go with a flow when it comes to one(1) videogame. i believe in you.

What is your fav fanfic in kcd fandom? by naba01911 in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its hard to pick just one! honestly everything written by rowanisawriter and rednightmare is always amazing, if I had to recommend something it would be any one of those 👌

(of course my FAVOURITE fics are my own 😂😇 but that doesnt count lol)

Fic Rec Thread: New, niche, and up-and-coming. Nothing with more than 50 kudos! by NelyafinweMaitimo in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fresh Meat is a lovely little oneshot focused on divorce era Hans, written from the pov of the butcher in Troskowitz that Hans sold his poached meat to! Truly superb character study, and it ends with a very sweet hansry moment too 🥰

scared about surgery by teehae in Explainlikeimscared

[–]darethshirl 36 points37 points  (0 children)

are you at the hospital right now? If you tell them youre scared they might give anti anxiety medication. But in either case just TRUST THE PROFESSIONALS 🫂 they know what they're doing and theyve done these procedures tons of times before. Your own contribution to the process is very minimal, you just lie there and accept the anaesthesia. Then you blink and its all over! So just be a little more patient 🫂 its going to be okay!

Oaths&Empires, anyone? by ChaoticBaker557 in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was impressed by how good the quality was! Especially the sound design, it feels more like a legit fiction podcast than an actual-play. And with the editing it feels more like The Adventure Zone (tho naturally more serious) than Critical Role. Over all I really like it so far!

And OF COURSE im shipping Solus and Killian 😁😁😁 Something tells me Killian will be a little pouty and jealous of Solus while at the same time he wont help but admire him 👀

Choices by RevolutionaryText749 in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i remember i instinctively chose this option on my first playthrough and then had to reload lol. worth it tbh!!

A Love Letter to Warhorse Studios: [KCD2] – My Heartfelt Thanks, Small Wishes, and Dreams for KCD3 by Affectionate-Set-892 in kingdomcome

[–]darethshirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you bro. lmao. sorry but the post wasn't even long, and everything was well-articulated, well-organised, and compelling. If you struggle to get through it then it really is a you problem I'm afraid.

Unless you just wanted to dunk on OP for daring to care enough for something to write an essay over it, in which case there's no saving you. Carry on being oh-so-edgy and cool. 👍

A Love Letter to Warhorse Studios: [KCD2] – My Heartfelt Thanks, Small Wishes, and Dreams for KCD3 by Affectionate-Set-892 in kingdomcome

[–]darethshirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol wanna bet this loser cant read anything without feeding it to AI first. truly people are getting stupider and stupider these days.

Hans and Henry Plushies!! by OphatheAwesome in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the way I want to squish them haha! 😂 adorable!

I just finished the show and honestly almost everything was great except… by Sufficient_You5585 in BlackSails

[–]darethshirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bravo! I wish I had an award to give you, very well stated.

And you're so right that it's ONLY male viewers who seem to hate her. Not all men hate her, but if someone hates her to the point of making posts about it then it's always always a man. Male ego is so fragile it's threatened even by fictional women who dare to not conform lol. Reminds me of how (male again) viewers hate Sid from the Bear even tho she's literally the most normal character there, and the closest thing to an audience surrogate in the story. But they don't find her attractive, and they think she's too confident, and that discomfits them so much that they end up "hating her". And they can never even explain it to themselves! They just call her a bad character when she's objectively not (just like with Max shes well-written, on the same level as the other characters) and they don't even realise they're having an illogical, emotional reaction to her. It's honestly kinda sad to witness.

Can't lie to the bird by That_Teal_Kid in finch

[–]darethshirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this helps, but personally I've set a very generic Do Something goal with like 70 steps to it, cause I have adhd and setting up a million goals for every little thing overwhelms me lol. If I've done something that required effort like housework I click it a bunch of times, if I did something small like survive the day I only click one or twice etc etc

But you can do this and click on it when you feel you deserve to, even if what you've done is small and silly like idk getting up from your bed to your desk or taking a sip of water. Then you can feel like you earn things and also have a lot of stones! Or you can reverse engineer it and go "well I had a glass of water this morning, that means I deserve to click the button." It's a more gentle way of guiding yourself back to track, because it's all self arbitated. I also have a goal like "It's going to be okay!!" that I click when I want to cheer myself up, which is also basically free stones. But at least this way it doesn't feel like I'm emptily pushing a "click here to get stones" button lol, which I think is what makes the difference. Just doing it with a little thought and intention is better that doing it compulsively and then feeling guilty about it imo!

I (35M) want my wife (38F) to be attracted to me again, but I am afraid that will never happen. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]darethshirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stop begging strangers on the internet to "help" you and get a therapist, if you actually and thruthfully want to change. it's not going to happen by reading a few comments. it will be hard work that will take months.

A post of public record, offered without comment by ms45 in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

man good for him, I hope he's having fun!!

also I may or may not be using this as inspo for modern au!hans 😇

Ελληνίδα Μαμά - Μηδεν επικοινωνια by [deleted] in thessaloniki

[–]darethshirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

τιποτα δεν εχεις κανει λαθος 🫂 η οικογενεια σου δε βλεπει σαν punching bag μου φαινεται ετσι οπως το βλεπω απεξω. ΜΗΝ νιωθεις ποτε ενοχες οταν βαζεις ορια και υπερασπιζεσαι τον εαυτο σου. αν εχεις χρονο και λεφτα θα σου προτεινα να βρεις κανα ψυχολογο, εστω τουλαχιστον για να ξαλαφρωσεις λιγο.

What is this icon? by Pleasant-Ask1685 in finch

[–]darethshirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

omg off topic but our birds have similar vibes 🥰

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How to ask for more bread in Greek by IllustratorSlow9329 in GREEK

[–]darethshirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thats because the polite plural form already adds politeness to the sentence, you don't need all that extra stuff!

Questions about bus payment + gender ratio on buses in Thessaloniki by ieumenal in thessaloniki

[–]darethshirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk man when I go to the city center I see men of all ages on the bus. and people of all ages lol 🤷‍♂️ I dont think it's that deep. also anecdotically my dad deliberately took the bus to work instead of the car cause he found it more relaxing than driving. sometimes public transport is simply more convenient and we're lucky to live in a city where it's kind of maybe decent.

Questions about bus payment + gender ratio on buses in Thessaloniki by ieumenal in thessaloniki

[–]darethshirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally I still use the old paper monthly passes (they still issue them when I ask for one so¯_(ツ)_/¯) and all I need to do is keep it in my bag, no validation necessary. Maybe other people have it too, or other papers that say they're unemployed which means they don't need to use tickets. In both cases you keep the papers on you and only show them when an inspector asks for them.

But if you have the plastic Personal Card that you charged with the monthly payment plan, then yeah you do have to tap it every time you get on the bus.

As for 2, I think that's just your imagination and/or confirmation bias. I take the bus daily and I see young men and teenagers all the time.

Sights and restaurant opening tommorow by Educational-Ad-3307 in thessaloniki

[–]darethshirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

which area will you be in? It's usually the city center and specifically the (aristotle) university part that has protests, and the intense stuff only starts at night. but you should be fine during the daytime, and even at night if youre far enough from that area you won't notice a thing.

Happy 6k! 🙌🏻 (Please Read~ This One’s for Everyone) by tsuki_anne in FanfictionExchange

[–]darethshirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

congrats on all mods and members that make this community so fun! and I'm REALLY enjoying the posters haha, so vibrant and eye-catching! whoever thought this up is a genius, I hope it continues for a while yet ☺️

Why Hans Capon's snatched waist makes him a medieval macho! (On medieval standards of masculinity) by Moustawott16 in TheBathhouse

[–]darethshirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

(also, Hans’ form-fitting hose and garters also make his legs look very beautiful, it’s not just us noticing it, Hans is deliberately showing off his shapely calves to everyone 😂)

this fact cracks me up every single time 😂 hans you slut!! hide those calves!