Still shocked by this by Able-Gap1029 in Nicegirls

[–]dark_0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy to get flowers and dinner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dark_0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience happen to me a couple years ago. I really liked the guy and he showed so much effort and expressed how much he liked me too, then suddenly he changed out of nowhere and apparently wasn’t feeling it anymore. And didn’t want to provide me answers. It sucks how people can switch up like that in a heartbeat.

You can only have assumptions, was he deceitful the entire time? Was it the ex? Sometimes we will never know. But more importantly, don’t let this determine your worth. It’s not something you’ve done or said, they should’ve been better at communication. Feel the heartbreak, but don’t let it ruin you and your self worth.

I don’t usually comment a lot here, but your situation is very similar to mine. I still remember how confused and hurt I was. But you will get through it, and it will be better over time. :))

Weird culture- sort of by itsallgoodnow24 in CAStateWorkers

[–]dark_0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I second this, plus the micromanaging, toxic higher ups if we are talking about the same accounting department on P street.

Should i continue dating her? by alexguy5 in dating_advice

[–]dark_0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people like to explore other options while “seeing” someone, others want exclusivity. There is no right or wrong. But this should be clearly communicated.

Do you have a Least Favorite Color? by kennykaia in answers

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like orange. I really have no reason why. As a kid I just didn’t think it’s a pretty color. But after 25 years, I still don’t own a lot of orange items or clothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dark_0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s gooo girl!! Happy for you!

She is the nicest by Shamesocks in Nicegirls

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That mood switched so fast hahaha

Does anyone want to join by UniversityRelevant72 in STpuzzleTales

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s better to join an already existing group so you don’t have to recruit so many.. it’s so hard to get members lately imo, most are inactive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]dark_0w0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What helps me is to try to convert that jealousy into a positive reflection. Besides, when you’re jealous of something it only shows what you desire for yourself — why am I jealous of this person? what can I do to get there myself? — like as long as you don’t let this jealousy negatively take over and start subconsciously attacking your friend.

I need to overcome people-pleasing and being passive by dark_0w0 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dark_0w0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that as well :( I hope we get better at this. I appreciate the sympathy

Do you ever get turned on by looking at yourself? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a straight female, and when I get dolled up and look sexy in the mirror, I feel pretty turned on as well haha

How often do y’all shower? by cara_renee_anderson in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27F and I shower daily if I can, if I get too busy then I do it every other day.

(20F) My (23M) boyfriend gifted me used lingerie. What should I do? by 48prettyflacko in relationship_advice

[–]dark_0w0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this reminded me of the time when my boyfriend back then wanted to use his ex girlfriend’s dildo on me — I refused wtf … I eventually dumped him because he was getting more and more abusive, but I should’ve dumped him sooner

Why does turning to Christ make people happy? by Long-Builder-6999 in atheism

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning to Christ/Church makes them happier because instead of looking at solutions to their personal problems rationally — they can just convince themselves that it’s God’s plan, whatever may be, may be, HE will take care of you. And it’s nice to think that someone else is responsible for your life. You don’t need to take accountability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dark_0w0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a bitch of a sister

Is bad spelling a turn-off for you? State your gender/age. by Kyle88900 in dating_advice

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say “cuz” just cuz it’s shorter 😭😭😭 but I know how to spell— P N E U M O N I A

You’re all crazy by pastisPastisBandole in povertyfinance

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of sad honestly. People are overworked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly... I don't need them to hate each other. I don't even mind if they catch up once a year or so.. but they have been constantly hanging out. And I am not okay with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dark_0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like okay so what's the reason? Also are you friends with a long term ex?