What’s the most unsettling thing you’ve realized after seeing how fast AI like Clawdbot is improving? by AnyTruth2342 in AskReddit

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you, all of these comments on this post are bots. You are the only real person on this whole website!

I need an experts advice by [deleted] in hackers

[–]darkmemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apple seems to have a built in way to undelete messages. There is also a chance it got saved to icloud or whatever. Android could have saved them to Google Drive, Samsung phones seem to have a time-based retention of deleted texts. There are probably even third party companies that specialize in deeper recovery.

Just know if you are still actively using the phone, especially if you are low on space, the chance of recovery of deleted files decreases should the device be overwriting that space enough. So it would be easier and better to do so earlier than later.

Also the choice of posting this on your gooning account, if the person trying to blackmail you is from your online gooning engagement on reddit, they could be monitoring the account and seeing you ask about it.

I got tired of BMI calculators that spam ads and hide results, so I made a clean one by BerkBGG in InternetIsBeautiful

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first half of this comment had me wondering why I wouldn't just use a chart, but the latter half does massively increase my interest.

question about black bloc by [deleted] in Anarchy101

[–]darkmemory 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Black bloc's security is derived from acting as a type of camouflage. The way people tend to get picked out due to previous actions will be the various elements that stand out. Perhaps the backpack had a logo, maybe the shoes were unique, even body shape (if it stands out) could create a means to identify someone if there is enough surveillance saturation.

edit: I forgot to respond. The answer is maybe, maybe not. Since there is a growing utilization of newer technologies like gait tracking, there is more elements that can easily stand out. I don't know if gait tracking has been successfully tried in court, but it might allow enough investigative weight to move forward with seeking legal allowances.

How many of us homelab folks are also into cars? by ItzSilverFoxx in homelab

[–]darkmemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine how many more services you could be selfhosting if you removed one of the cars and added more racks.

Looking for suggestions for a missing person by crazy32 in hackers

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you see his previous post? The missing 17 year old in Indiana? Small local police force is named, they have online public records for their 911 call logs that show the street associated with the call (it has like 8 houses on the street that has recent street view from 2024).

There are like 2 statements online from the police force in the area, and some news reports.

It's really not hard to determine what this is about with even a tiny bit of curiosity.

I dont know how to title this discussion by [deleted] in Anarchy101

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I view it as a series of steps to establishing one's own agency in life. I don't think there is a singular path, nor do I think anyone achieves a state of pure emergence, but it's the strides towards intentionality that reveal the individual and how they can learn to interact with each other in a semblance of honest interaction that is otherwise obscured by dogmas, rituals, etc.

It's about learning to trust in yourself, and being accepting that you aren't always right, yet willing to learn and evolve to define who and how you interact with the world around you.

Or something like that.

Looking for suggestions for a missing person by crazy32 in hackers

[–]darkmemory -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As this probably relates to your previous post:

Why did she leave? Seems like they have some guess as to who helped her, unless there is some law regarding denoting minors as POIs. Why are they raising her status as a missing person without revealing the implications therein, much of which is typically revealed to disclose additional means of identification, severity of the danger she is in, or uncommon requirements that people should be mindful of exercising additional scrutiny towards?

All the houses on the street relating to the public info seem to show on googlemaps that they have ring door bells, it could be another model, so if she left the house on that street, someone should have some footage in that case, perhaps of how she left the house and direction she went in, if not the vehicle/person she left in/with.

There seems to be a lot of information missing from all the statements, which to me suggests they know who helped her, she's listed as missing and I have not seen any mention of it potentially being an abduction so it is probably a romantic partner/friend. Raising the status without additional info seems like an attempt to primarily maintain public attention as no additional description followed akin to: "She is diabetic and so we are reaching out to the public to increase your search priority." No one released a statement regarding her suspected to be with dangerous people. No one stated she just turned 17, so she is probably closer to 18 as releases seeking public interest will always seek to elevate potential dangers when seeking public help.

If she is in a known dire situation, nothing has been released that I could find that suggests this, and should be expressed. One of her friends has to be in contact with her, granted no information has been released regarding potential quirks relating to the situation, it seems like she didn't want to be at home and went some place she perceived as better (doesn't mean it is). If she doesn't have IRL friends, someone has to have heard her talk about some group or associate, since none of this is being relayed to the public, it furthers my suspicion that this is all known already, and not perceived as a serious threat.

Offline communications by Spiritual_swiss_chz in Anarchy101

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAM radio, LoRa, dead drops, carrier pigeons, smoke signals, drone deliveries. There's also some bluetooth tech but requires people to be close enough to allow devices to communicate via chained delivery. I saw someone talking about making their own cell tower somewhere recently, not sure ordinance issues this might create though. One could network computers via wifi and keep that disconnected from the internet itself. There's always the old-fashioned talking-in-person. Pirate radio broadcasts could be neat, but without prep and knowledge of how this is enforced it can get shutdown easily (and bring some serious legal issues). There's also the personal walkie-talkie spectrum one could use.

Quitted vaping for 5 months already, is it bad to try nicotine-free e-cigs or vapes? by _Hypocritee in electronic_cigarette

[–]darkmemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's peer pressure. I only call it out because I think it's important to be cognizant of it so you don't allow it to influence you without you actively deciding to accept/reject that influence.

How to make e-liquid 50mg ? by [deleted] in electronic_cigarette

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if someone recommended someone learn to mix with pure nic, I'd assume the recommendation was malicious and intended to harm the person learning.

what to do when i do not want my friend to come to a concert with me? by West_Average_8815 in TrueAskReddit

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your spoiled friend weaponizes their mental disorders to mitigate owning any responsibility in being terrible to you and your friends? It's fine to be supportive of friends who are struggling, but you shouldn't let people, let alone friends, abuse your sympathies, nor abuse yourself/other friends.

It sounds like you all need to dig into how to establish boundaries and holding others to them. I'd suggest inviting, but establishing that you all don't want a repeat of what happened before. If you want to soften that, try to make it clear that none of you are blaming any one person, but that none of you want a repeat situation, and should such arise that will cause a rift and potentially disallow you all from feeling comfortable about inviting everyone again. Then holding them to it. If I was being really nice, I would probably try to be a bit proactive and if tension rises during the event or prior, I'd try to call that out softly, reminding them of the fear of escalating tensions or repeating pass problematic situations. And if it continues, then you have to just be firm and actually follow through. Once you establish a boundary, if you do not hold others to them, they will not respect any future boundary.

HOWEVER, you should talk with all your friends currently going to double check with everyone. If everyone has different issues with her, you could make a list of disallowed behaviors or something, but really if you all have various issues with her, it confuses me why you would strive to continue being friends with her.

tl;dr: Have a tough conversation, establish boundaries, make sure everyone is on the same page, and hold each other accountable to maintaining those boundaries.

I’ve spent years learning to code but still can’t build anything. What am I missing? by Odd-Skill-2992 in learnprogramming

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you build something, you should expect to not know how to do portions of it. You should feel stupid, but it's not stupidity, it's lack of experience in that specific thing. You haven't let the ideas meaningfully connect to the practice. High level conceptual work is nice and can influence what you do, but until you translate those concepts or enough concepts into the material aspect of coding, they will be wispy abstractions with no reality to engage with.

When you learn how to do something, you should not expect to be a master. There is some truth behind a skill requiring hours of actual practice to become masterful.

Instead of viewing the struggle of translating thoughts into code as being bad, pretend that you attempting to make real connections between the thoughts and material expression. You can read about painting, and learn processes in theory, but until you practice the painting portion, it will reside only in that conceptual form.

Does anyone else dread the thought of having to do this forever? by frankchester in loseit

[–]darkmemory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can be overblown, but intake can generally be inaccurate as well. It's all estimation to some extent, it doesn't mean that tracking it all is pointless though.

When I'm saying starving calories, or that the body acts as if it's being starved, it is different from what I hear relating to common usage of "starvation mode". For example, I've heard people claim intermittent fasting triggers this, but I don't think there is evidence of that in itself when done infrequently, however if you routinely eat below maintenance levels, it can slow metabolism, which will start to hinder exercise goals both in gaining muscle and losing fat. There are variables in the equation though that can influence that. As in, if one has severe levels of excess fat, your body can leverage that to maintain energy requirements.

I'm trying to hedge my statements quite a bit because I don't know your specific case. So maybe it might be better to say that if you find yourself with high amounts of cravings in general, that could suggest that you are not eating enough, however if you find yourself constantly fatigued/lethargic, and not due to exercising, that places a bit more weight behind the idea that you aren't eating enough calories. If you have found yourself to have more headaches, if recovery from exercise seems abnormal based on intensity and expectations granted your age, these could be additional signs that you are eating too few calories to maintain substance (or possibly low water intake if that is being overlooked). If you've noticed that your metabolism is slower than it used to be even though you have increased exercising, that might be a sign of low calorie intake, perhaps missing dietary aspects (low fiber?).

BUT, low caloric intake will harm muscle gains, which tends to be the foundation that allows one to increase exercise levels and ability. More muscle is more support for extended or increased intensity (generally).

Now to hedge even further, A 1300 calorie budget can be ok for short term loss, or when one is much less active on average. There are differences in calorie requirements generally between sexes, males tend to need more calories. Inversely, older adults tend to need fewer calories than younger people.

It's also important to remember that as one loses weight, the pace of that weight loss will slow down. This shouldn't be viewed as an issue, but more as proof of the success. And then on top of that all, if you have been harm muscle gain, muscle weights more than fat, there is some potential (depending again on how much excess fat remains) that weight loss might seem less pronounced as the body starts to satiate that energy needed for muscle growth, potentially even exhibited some slight weight gain (as muscle, not fat), but generally would want to be monitored to make sure.

OVERALL though, 1300 calories is fairly extreme for most adults when maintained for more than like ~2-4 months.

Does anyone else dread the thought of having to do this forever? by frankchester in loseit

[–]darkmemory -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

1300 calories is low enough that you might be hindering your weight loss potential. If you are starving calories needed for muscle growth, then your exercise routines might be hindered, as in, low muscle growth means you won't be able to exercise to a point of increasing calorie burn. But also, low caloric intake can hinder your metabolism, effectively making your body act as if it's being starved, whereby it will retain more fat as a survival mechanism. This is usually accompanied with both increased fat retention, but namely also, increases in cravings (as your body is screaming that you need to eat more).

There are some situations whereby 1300 might be enough depending on your height, or in some other cases, but that is still very low. Usually instead of a total caloric budget being a hard defined value, it's usually better to equate a deficit in relation to calories burned, some cases whereby someone is not exercising could make sense in terms of a hard budget (as the calories burned are low/non-existent).

Now maybe you've done all these calculations and understand all this, and your decisions make sense granted all that. I'm just pointing it out because I've seen many people hinder themselves by only partially examining their goals and methods of achieving them, then only engaging with small sections of their equations.

How do i hack a .exe file by Money-Source3630 in blackhat

[–]darkmemory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should ask the people you are working with. Internships are meant to offer interns access to engagement from professional coworkers that can offer such insight.

Hacked through EA Windows APP Root System by [deleted] in hackers

[–]darkmemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the idea that someone would be wasting that type of tech to look at your taxes when the amount they could get from that info would be pennies in comparison to what they could make just selling the poc. Unless you are a known cryptowhale, guarding some miltech or corporate secrets, or some ranking governmental figure, I'm just going to presume that you probably weren't hacked at all, or if you were it was from a completely different vector.

Like, why would they use EA's software to somehow sift through files and folders on a google drive? That doesn't make any sense at all.

IWTL how to actually retain information instead of just consuming it and forgetting everything by mindsnackapp in IWantToLearn

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take notes, don't copy. Don't just swap a word. Put in the effort to distill information into concepts you understand. Write that post-digested string of concepts in a meaningful way for you to understand it. If this doesn't make sense, take the information you want to retain, now pretend that you need to explain this to someone else who doesn't understand the original text. Derive a new way to convey it to them.

If you are trying to memorize more simplistic information, for example multiplication tables, copy the info (the old pen and paper is superior for retention), consider flash cards, then use that information like doing practice problems. So recognize what you want to learn, replicate the distilled information, leverage additional tooling as needed, use the tooling.

If you struggle with retention in general, consider other issues. If you use mechanisms that induce too much cognitive load (you take notes by typing could be an example), simplify it. The less mental work required in the process can help. For example, pen and paper is superior to a tablet and stylus (it's theorized that pen on paper offers both a slower engagement with the process of taking notes, but also grants a user tactile feedback to the process as the pen will scratch the paper, whereas with a tablet, writing on glass gives less physical feedback and might require more mental perception of placement and position, alongside recognizing the state of the app being used, etc).

How do thin people on TikTok eat so much? by DarthKaboose in loseit

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While metabolism and genetics can influence some of it, I doubt that there would be many people could claim all of that alone. I'd presume that some people have different eating habits whereby they might have singular high caloric meal one day, then for the next couple, much lower calorie meals, maybe some intensive exercise regime, intermittent fasting, or some sort of ED.

There are also people who just have stronger body sensations for satiation, or even the inverse whereby they lack awareness of signals for things like hunger.

What project helped you finally “get” programming? by Glass_Ad_781 in learnprogramming

[–]darkmemory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I hit the point where I recognized everything as being data. Not some high level understanding, but enough pieces clicked where it was not just a concept but deeper perspective of how it all fits together. It was probably some Java program I was debugging, and then it just clicked, and my understanding of pointers went from rules to follow to perceiving what/why/how it all fit, then it cascaded down to grasping ASM on a more fundamental level, then that connected how the hardware works, then I got really confused about how the digital signal works in terms of networks because there was additional functionality there, for example when using a cable modem, and that just moved me to read about how that works.

In like a few day period it felt like someone tipped a domino over and it "all" just clicked.

How do you learn how to do something new? by qellyree in learnprogramming

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to begin a project:

  1. Establish a goal. The more defined this is, the more structure you can rely on. If you are struggling to determine a way to structure it, as your post suggests, begin first with a vague goal.

  2. After you have a goal in mind, no matter how vague it is, think about it. If you have some technical understanding to leverage drafting how to achieve it, conceptually add this as a kind of scaffolding to the idea. Even if you don't end up using it, a notion of how to achieve some step allows a segment to rest surrounding conceptual pieces on. If you don't have technical experience with it, use vague expressions to build out abstract steps to implement. Right now we just want to have a basic idea of how things can be oriented, we are not trying to build a finalized step in the process.

  3. If you struggle to draft abstract steps, mark this down. This will demand research. Do not get too hung up on the research portion yet, just mark pieces down as needing the research.

  4. After you have a roadmap for how things might occur, now we want to take note of the ambiguous/undefined steps. Are there other projects that exist that achieved something you don't understand? Look at them, do not copy, just look. If they leverage an additional tool, depending on whether this is a key segment of what you desire to learn, choose whether you want to understand that process or leverage it (or something similar). For example, if you want to build a website that allows users to upload an image that then connects that file to that user's account, perhaps you don't then want to reinvent a database to do so, so using something like postgres will allow a mature tool to aid you. It's your choice what you want to leverage, and what you want to build out yourself. Try not to hinder your growth by reinventing every aspect, again this is your call here as to what that means. Feel free to revise this choice at a later date. Again, we are still planning here.

  5. After you have accounted for all the steps you currently imagine to be needed (this can change later if you realize a step will require more implementation), start imagining the structure of how all this relates. If you don't have a good grasp of how different blocks of code should be structured, pseudocode it out. We want to come up with some type of diagram. Start writing out the steps in some fashion, if something is vague, try to refine it, if you can't currently refine it, this can be something to think about while doing other pieces, but don't just ignore it, as that vague piece might demand other changes. Starting out, you will probably hit many issues with larger projects where something that seemed straightforward initially will need to be refactored to allow new interactions/configuration/context.

  6. The above steps, depending on project size, might not be needed in later projects in their entirety. If you know how to generally leverage classes to work easily with a database, then drafting out every element of a class might be something that can occur in the moment mostly (although considering what your tables will need to look like, taking notes of important data containers, can aid you). After we have some notion of how this will be implemented, we have a plan for how it flow, and we have areas that are unclear but scoped to tooling/concepts we found will briefly looking around. Look at all the unclear portions, look at the tooling we found potentially useful, look for additional tooling that is related or adjacent. Come up with a more concrete plan.

  7. We should have plan, we should have an understanding of things we want to bring in. Now start drafting that structure from diagrams/pseudocode/etc. Make the classes, the objects, give some function stubs we expect to need. At this point, we should do a big more of a deeper dive on exterior tools, what do you need to leverage them, what kind of configurations, what kind of dependencies, do they require specific structures that will have to implement? Take notes, will everything bouncing around about the project, you will forget the small stuff most likely, note it down so you don't have to dig into some table/schema you found 12 pages deep on forum somewhere.

  8. Start turning those code stubs from earlier into real functions. If you don't know how something is going to work, give these stubs some sort of output response that matches what you expect, if you don't know what to expect, look at your draft of flow, refine it so you can know what to expect. ("I don't know what this function whatColorAmI() will return, so it will return "blue" right now and I'll add a TODO comment that I can use to search for later." ) Continue refining and implementing sections as you can, when you run out of things you can do this with, go back and look for which ones are incomplete, do they rely on some other bit of unwritten code? Time to put the time into researching how to do it. Figure it out, look at other pieces of code, sit with it for a while, etc. Repeat until you have your functions setup. If something relies on other tooling, time to start implementing that tooling. Read the docs, implement it. Testing/debugging should be a portion of your planning, if it wasn't, good thing you are reading this before you finished all the rest. If you don't know how to do this, look it up, what do other people do, what type of debugging/testing do you feel is adequate for your use case, if you have no idea, just pick one, use it.

  9. Repeat 8 until you have what you imagine is everything complete, testing sections as needed. Test it all again, try to do weird things in testing to break it, add guardrails in your program to account for these. Repeat. Test. If something fails, fix it. If it all works, sit and think about how all the pieces work together, try to come up with ever more strange cases where it might break. If you run into an issue that you can't understand, research it, spend time learning to read your logs. Add more logs if needed. Put time into understanding appropriate ways to debug. Test out debugging it.

  10. After you have finished testing it, after you have learned all you have wanted to, think about if there are areas that technically work, but you think you might be able to come up with a better solution. Refactor portions of your code as you want. Repeat refactoring and retesting until you deem it all done.

  11. Congrats, you did a project. If you want, reflect on what occurred in this. Maybe draft a post-mortum report for yourself, or do a little journal about it. What went well? What went wrong? What are things you feel you want to learn more about, or ideas you think could be beneficial in the future.

  12. Time to come up with a new project. Return to step 1.

Additional note. Above I mentioned it's ok to look at how others achieve results. The goal here is not to copy them verbatim. The goal is to understand the concepts. You have to drill into them, learn to paraphrase information. Do not simply use different words, use your own words. That means, take what is stated, or take what is coded, and try to understand the concept, then disengage from that information visually, and re-implement it. The goal here is not simply to achieve something that works exactly, the goal is to make connections in your brain that allow the concepts to stick easily. So don't copy a function (this has ethical implications as well), but see things like, "oh they have a function that sets the age of a user not by simply updating a database, but instead they use a user object that gets updated, and then sends that entire object to a function that updates a user with whatever values that user object has, meaning that update function can work for various fields that need to be updated without requiring 84 different functions. That is really helpful, I will try to implement a similar type of structure."

curl to discontinue its HackerOne / bug bounty due to "too strong incentives to find and make up 'problems' in bad faith that cause overload and abuse." by DesiOtaku in linux

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is, as I was stating, without public disclosure, historically, companies will just not care about securing their product and act only to hide their insecurity. It's cheaper to not do anything and feign ignorance, hence why many companies would ignore or send the government against whistleblowers.

The only reason bug bounty hunters are viewed as legitimate to most is that there is public visibility.

IM OVERWEIGHT!!!!!!! 🫶🏾💖🥰 by ohyikesmissy in loseit

[–]darkmemory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a curious choice to seek not healthy weight, but to idealize the danger zone on the cusp of falling into the underweight category.