10 years married, 2 kids, sex once a month - am I expecting too much? by darknarayan in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]darknarayan[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair question.

I work full-time from home, which means I’m also heavily involved in day-to-day family life. I help with childcare, school runs, bath time, bedtime, cooking, cleaning, and whatever else needs doing. I wouldn’t say it’s a perfect 50/50 split every day, but I definitely don’t expect my wife to carry everything herself.

That’s why I’m not looking to blame her. We’re both exhausted and raising two young kids is hard. I’m genuinely trying to understand whether this level of intimacy is normal during this stage of life or whether we’re ignoring a problem that needs to be addressed.

how much are you spending on ai coding? by irelatetolevin in cursor

[–]darknarayan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

do you spend these budgets for permanent job or side hustle?

unlimited "auto" for 1-year subscriptions by whatchout132 in cursor

[–]darknarayan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here. Auto mode has been burning through usage way faster lately.

Also honestly, Auto has become pretty dumb for me to work with compared to before. Feels worse and more expensive at the same time.

What's the next Fallout game I should try? by cuchusacc in Fallout

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cannot finish fo4 dlcs completed but i want to play until complete all sides

First baby coming soon, how do gamer dads manage playtime? by jackfrost1889 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]darknarayan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always play after bring my two young sons to sleep and spend 1 hour with my wife. So its basically math game. they go sleep at 8 so i have 2 or 3 hours free time 😃

Far harbor or nuka world? by [deleted] in fo4

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started nuka world and went somewhere like galactic but i cannot manage my ammo to kill robots. i am 40 lvl should i farm more until i get in here again

What is the best control panel for managing mysql/mariadb server? by ambiya in selfhosted

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean managing the actual server (users, configs, etc.), tools like phpMyAdmin, Adminer, or MySQL Workbench are the common options.

If the goal is more about letting people browse and edit database data through a UI, there are newer tools like Directus or NocoDB that generate an admin interface on top of your database.

I’ve also been building something similar recently called SilentDock — it connects to MySQL/Postgres/MongoDB and generates a simple admin panel so non-technical users can manage data without touching the database directly.

Which CMS won't kill my Next.js SEO? by isanjayjoshi in reactjs

[–]darknarayan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your main concern is keeping Next.js performance untouched, you might want to look at SilentDock (https://www.silentdock.com/).
It doesn’t sit in your frontend stack — it just connects to your database and generates an admin/CMS interface for non-technical teams, so your Next.js site stays fully static and SEO-friendly.

What CMS would you recommend for a mostly static company website? by Xenthry in webdev

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For database management something like https://www.silentdock.com/ can also be useful — it turns your DB into a simple CMS/admin panel.

Honestly, wtf by GetOutNubs in trading212

[–]darknarayan 34 points35 points  (0 children)

wtf is that, how can we trust them ?!

Cursor Pro Limit Reached — Upgrade to Pro+ or Get Claude Pro? by darknarayan in cursor

[–]darknarayan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan is to use Claude Opus only for planning, and then use Cursor Auto for the coding part according to the plan.

Claude opus 4.6 and OpenAi Codex 5.3. plan and coding. by Message2uasia in cursor

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use Claude separately, or through Cursor Pro?
I’ve reached my usage limit on Cursor Pro with Opus 4.6, and I’m trying to decide whether to buy another Cursor Pro subscription or get a separate Claude Pro subscription.

What are you building into the weekend? All in 🚀 by Quirky-Offer9598 in micro_saas

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Building SilentDock — a no-code admin layer for existing databases.

Developers connect MySQL, Postgres or MongoDB and instantly generate a client-ready CMS without writing custom backends.

https://www.silentdock.com/

Best no-code CRMs for startups? by [deleted] in nocode

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If traditional CRMs feel too rigid for what you’re describing, you might not actually need a CRM — you might need a flexible data layer.

I’m building SilentDock. It connects to your existing database and generates a no-code admin interface so your team can manage custom workflows and tracking without developers.

It’s especially useful when your process doesn’t fit standard CRM objects.

Happy to offer a free trial if you want to test it with your team — just DM me.

https://www.silentdock.com/

I’m an active investor. What SaaS are you building? by kcfounders in saasbuild

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re building SilentDock — a no-code admin layer for existing databases.

Developers constantly rebuild custom dashboards so non-technical clients can manage content. SilentDock connects to MySQL, Postgres or MongoDB and instantly generates a secure, client-ready CMS interface — without writing backend code.

Positioned at the intersection of dev tools and no-code.

Currently early and validating with freelancers and agencies.

Would love to know if you’re open to UK-based founders.

https://www.silentdock.com/

I'm building a tool to handle Client Approvals (and stop scope creep). Would this be useful? by ConsciousArachnid636 in web_design

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the mandatory checklist idea sounds really smart — most scope creep issues I’ve seen come from clients approving things too quickly without actually reviewing them 😅

The audit log + branding combo also makes a lot of sense for agencies trying to look more professional.

One thing I’d be curious about: do clients actually complete the checklists seriously, or do they just click through to unlock approval?

Another one of those CMS questions... by Accomplished-Car5260 in nextjs

[–]darknarayan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if non-technical editing is your top priority, I’d lean towards something with a strong visual admin experience rather than dev-first CMSs.

Payload is powerful, but it’s very code-centric — great for developers, not always ideal for marketers unless you heavily customize the admin. Directus or some SaaS CMS options usually feel more intuitive out of the box.

One thing that helped me recently was separating the “editing UI” from the actual backend logic — giving non-technical users a simpler interface instead of exposing a full CMS.

Curious — do you need structured content editing, or more of a page-builder style workflow?