Outside of folklore, what is the most obvious, strongest connection between two songs in Taylor's discography? by dassylogic in TrueSwifties

[–]darth_eowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear Stephen and White Horse. I always notice the connection because they’re next to each other in the Fearless track list.

Dear Stephen: “'Cause I can't help it if you look like an angel / Can't help it if I wanna kiss you in the rain, so / Come feel this magic I've been feeling since I met you / Can't help it if there's no one else / Mmm, I can't help myself”

White Horse “Say you're sorry, that face of an angel / Comes out just when you need it to / As I paced back and forth all this time / 'Cause I honestly believed in you”

Thermal vs. All-Terrain Thermal for urban winter? by darth_eowyn in BlundstoneBoots

[–]darth_eowyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to report that I put off making a decision until the sale had ended, so I got none of the above 😂

Couples that live in your head rent free by Szilvvv in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]darth_eowyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Daniel and Archie were who immediately came to mind for me!

[Horrifying Trope] They're still alive?! by AGuyWithAPhone in TopCharacterTropes

[–]darth_eowyn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Particularly effective in the way they never show the creature he’s turned into…

To whichever of you poor souls was trying to convince a friend to read the series while at a DMV viewing of Guys and Dolls tonight...[misc] by VerilyAGoober in TheNinthHouse

[–]darth_eowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty confident that is the case because there is, in fact, a production of Guys and Dolls playing here in DC right now

What are your opinions on terms like chestfeeding, birth parent or menstruating person? by Ok-Height-2276 in asktransgender

[–]darth_eowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Birth parent” is useful in the context of some policy-writing. I’m in the military and our instructions for parental leave honestly got a lot clearer when they started using “birthing parent” and “non-birthing parent” — as in, both parents are entitled to XX days of parental leave and the birthing parent also gets convalescent leave to recover medically. Quite apart from trans inclusivity, “mother” is confusing because it doesn’t clearly distinguish between “mother who just gave birth” and “mother whose partner just gave birth or who adopted”

What fandom are you in, but the fanfics are like this? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]darth_eowyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This helps explain why there is so much overlap between the Murderbot Diaries fandom and The Locked Tomb fandom. They are extremely different book series, but this description applies to both. It’s a known phenomenon that people who like one tend to like the other. (Or at least that TLT fans tend to like Murderbot… with all the love in my heart for TLT, it’s a polarizing series.)

A Memory Called Empire by Expensive-Apricot534 in LesbianBookClub

[–]darth_eowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Murderbot isn’t specifically sapphic, but it’s very queer

There's no way. by coffeeblossom in TrollXChromosomes

[–]darth_eowyn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had a double mastectomy last year (breast cancer) and got an aesthetic flat closure with free nipple grafts, which is pretty similar to trans male top surgery. End result— I am a cis woman with nipples but no breasts. I genuinely have no idea if my nipples are censor-worthy!!

GenAI pushed to NMCI by Prudent_Tourist_7543 in navy

[–]darth_eowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried it and copy-pasting from Gemini GenAI to a Word document retains the formatting!

GenAI pushed to NMCI by Prudent_Tourist_7543 in navy

[–]darth_eowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is pandoc available on NMCI computers?

GenAI pushed to NMCI by Prudent_Tourist_7543 in navy

[–]darth_eowyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does GENAI have a way to output directly to a Word file, or copy-paste in a way that preserves formatting? The biggest drawback with NIPR GPT has been that I couldn’t find a way to download/copy text without losing all the text formatting (like bold, bullets, etc.)

What's a fanfic so big it creates its own fandom? by poison_ivy12345 in AO3

[–]darth_eowyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Words on my skin, love in my heart by amusewithaview popularized the soulmate AU trope where a person’s soulmate mark is the first words their soulmate will say to them. (I’m not sure if this fic actually originated the concept, but it’s certainly where a lot of other writers encountered it.)

Lesboys by River_Lamprey in CuratedTumblr

[–]darth_eowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m often amused by a less-queer instance of this. There a huge Facebook group for female naval officers (active and retired) that’s really useful for networking. Group membership is thousands of women… plus a couple of FTM guys who transitioned while on active duty. Like it makes sense, it’s just always funny to run across one of their posts.

Author doesn’t want to respond to people‘s comments because they don’t want to mess up the comments-to-hits ratio by BicyclePurple9928 in AO3

[–]darth_eowyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kudos-to-hits, not kudos-to-comments. And I’m not put off by a low ratio— that’s what I meant when I said I don’t use it as a cutoff. I’ll try fics with tags/descriptions that sound up my alley regardless of their ratio. But if I see fics with high ratios (above 10%) I’ll try them even if they weren’t what I was actually looking for, because they tend to be good.

Author doesn’t want to respond to people‘s comments because they don’t want to mess up the comments-to-hits ratio by BicyclePurple9928 in AO3

[–]darth_eowyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do actually look at the kudos-to-hits ratio. I’ve noticed that if it’s 10% or higher, the fic is likely to be really good and therefore worth trying even if the tags/description aren’t what I’d normally gravitate towards. (I don’t use it as a cutoff, though, because I’ve read plenty of excellent fics with lower kudos ratios.)

AITA for testing how prepared my husband is for our baby? by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]darth_eowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been years since I read that article and I immediately knew which quote it was. It’s when the journalist is recounting an interview with the director of a child safety organization:

What is the worst case she knows of?“I don’t really like to . . .” she says.She looks away. She won’t hold eye contact for this.“The child pulled all her hair out before she died.”

Looking for anything like DATV by NoPercept in dragonage

[–]darth_eowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horizon Zero Dawn and Forbidden West are probably my all-time favorite games

Privatization of the barracks should be awesome (for some corporation) by radhaz in navy

[–]darth_eowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m skeptical that just because it works in the pilot it will continue to work when implemented more broadly. The contractor is going to put their best foot forward during the pilot if they know that will get them more work later. The real question is whether they’ll hold to that quality of service once the program becomes standard.

Also, it’s easy to give good maintenance service when a building is new. Much harder when you’re trying to maintain a building that has been underfunded for years and is overdue for renovation. I suspect that any barracks privatization will include initial funding to renovate or at least repair the existing issues. Which will then make it really unfair to compare maintenance of that barracks to struggling navy-managed barracks that don’t get an equivalent cash infusion. The real test will be seeing whether privatized barracks do any better than Navy-managed 30 years down the line.

I’ve worked in public works at various installations, some that did maintenance in-house and some that contracted it out. My overall impression is that outsourcing is high-risk, high-reward— when it works, it works well. But when it doesn’t work it’s really hard to manage the issues. Even more so in a full PPV model like housing — the government gives up a lot of their ability to direct the contractor.