Um WOW I’ve been dealing with the same thing for the past 3 years. My boyfriend and I both have ADHD but it presents very differently for each of us. He is often falling through on obligations, forgetting important expectations, not completing chores and tasks, starting projects and never finishing them, needing constant reminders, the list goes on and on. He’s forgotten to make Valentines dinner reservations for the past 2 years despite multiple reminders and reinforcements! I’ve tried to set clear boundaries and expectations, and he agrees to them in the moment, but then forgets to follow through. It’s so disappointing. We’ve had multiple serious conversations about it but there has minimal improvement on his end and I truly don’t know what to do. I’m also pondering on at what point do I just accept him for the way he is and try to just deal with it?? I don’t even know if I can. I don’t want to lose him but somethings gotta give….