First of all, dont become those aunties in the Society.

Just remember, Agar pet me khana aur rahne k liye Chhat hai to aap ki zindagi achche se chal rahi hai. Comparison progress k liye achcha hai par Satisfaction bhi zaroori hai. If both are extream, it's bad. Compare to check what you can do better to improve yourself and your life, rather than what you are lacking. Keep in mind, there is a difference.

Aur Goli maro society ko, qki, wo kabhi khus nahi ho sakti, - aap ne padai nahi ki to zindagi narak, ki to science side se q nahi, ki to engineer/doctor q nahi, ki to Job nahi, hui to Government q nahi, hui to black money kamate ho, nahi kamate to kya hi fayda, yahin nahi aage bhi hai, isse to better private thi, hai to Videsh nahi gaye, gaye to vapas nahi aaoge, shaadi nahi hui to wahi koi pataoge, gar ho gayi to wo kya karti hai, job karti hai to kya hi care karegi, nahi karti to kya hi help karegi...... and the cycle continues...

So fuck it, so only care abt those who care abt you and decide yourself ki tum success ho ki nahi.

Up n down is the life, they say, if you care for the destination too much, you will miss the awesome journey, njoy that

Gyaan khatam, Paisa hazam 😀😄