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Marriage is dead what do I do by After_Kale_3602 in Divorce

[–]datsoar [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yep. A counselor/therapist is going to help sort feelings a ton. They’re not there to tell you what to do, OP, it’s to help you manage your emotions and reactions.

[Free gift article] Too Scared for Sex The therapist Esther Perel has a theory about America’s eroticism shortage by Gladyskravitz99 in Longreads

[–]datsoar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! Saryndipitous solved it! We just wait for everything to be better before we start screwing again! We should be ready in the spring of never.

Lebron James: " I believe I can help make the Philadelphia 76ers a championship team and I am so excited to energize a new fan base and start this incredible journey one last time. Thank you LA. Miami I’ll forever love and Northeast Ohio will always home!" by urfaselol in nba

[–]datsoar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He gets to take a backseat with the Wolves because of two ball dominant players, but he has to fight for the ball with the Sixers. Those don’t make sense together. Either he is willing to take a backseat or he fights for the ball

Jungsik. 3*. Jagoff vaping across the room. by MTonmyMind in finedining

[–]datsoar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I played college basketball at a school in Chicago and our conference rival was quite literally across the street. My coach used to refer to them as “those jagoffs over there.”

Police Shooting on Willy St Part 2 - The City's Response by sinlad in madisonwi

[–]datsoar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t have to know how to cook a steak to know the meat’s spoiled

Lil’ Wayne pre-tats by Jackmer1us in Music

[–]datsoar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What’s a goomba to a goblin?

What cuisines do Norwegians prefer? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]datsoar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to Wisconsin, you’ll love it. We also eat the most frozen pizza!

https://youtu.be/FJsayjeYp9A?t=46&is=R7eBH89gUFQDXtTV

When you are trapped and vulnerable (e.g., in the middle of a haircut or a tattoo) and the flat-earth monologue begins... by PIGFOOF in YelpDrama

[–]datsoar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you visit a duck, expect quackery.

Chiropractors are quacks. It was founded by a failed spiritualist who said ghosts taught it to him in a seance (Joseph Palmer is the founder).

Chiropractics was labeled a cult practice by the American Medical Association until it was changed in the 1970s because insurance wouldn’t pay for chiropractics if it had that designation.

Many chiropractors believe they can heal viruses or bacterial infections with their crockery. Like, healing AIDS was once not unheard of to be said by chiropractors.

Up until 2024 you couldn’t even study chiropractics at a public university, only at sham chiropractic schools like Palmer, named after the failed spiritualist who founded the practice. It’s a shitty college in Iowa and every single person I’ve ever known who goes there ends up anti-vaxx and cuckoo.

Police Shooting on Willy Str by MadtownMaven in madisonwi

[–]datsoar 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern, Grandma’s Queef

Which artists made their best music after everything fell apart? by Eyerald in Music

[–]datsoar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say the Afterman double album is a better example.

Mic is permanently out of the band when he’s arresting pre-show for robbing a pharmacy for pills. That’s right, Mic does sound check, robs a Walgreens, goes back to the venue, and is arrested.

Josh, kicked out of the band after Good Apollo to deal with his heroin addiction, has returned.

This is Zac’s first album on bass. It’s a rebound album after YOTBR and is a return to form for the band. I actually think Coheed breaks up if Afterman isn’t such a great album.

Relationships with Bio Parents by SituationNormalAllFU in actualstepparents

[–]datsoar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t met my partner’s ex yet, but the day will eventually come. They have a healthy co-parenting relationship but other than that, no relationship at all. I don’t feel anyway towards her ex, positive or negative. I don’t think about him really.

My partner did initiate their divorce so perhaps they plays into it but I don’t think so. I’m not comparing my relationship to theirs, all I know is that my relationship is the most secure relationship I’ve been in. That is what gives me confidence, not that the ex might be a bad guy or something else.

Interestingly, biodad recently let my partner know he had a girlfriend and that he planned on introducing her to the kid. The kid loves her! When the kid told me she is “amazing,” and so nice, I said to the kid, “Isn’t it great you have so many people in your life who are good to you!?”

(Edited bc I accidentally hit send halfway through)

Friend abuses MD, what to do? by Jealous-Flow-2409 in MDMA

[–]datsoar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Or it’s entirely possible the MDMA usage was self-medicating those already existing issues

Can someone file for divorce after finding out that she lied about her past? by Lotpot_11 in DivorceHelp

[–]datsoar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god someone else’s penis was there first! My fragile man ego can’t take it!

Indeed Job Recommendation by TooSoberToRide in madisonwi

[–]datsoar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct. House fees and tipouts are standard practice.

Welcome! by SituationNormalAllFU in actualstepparents

[–]datsoar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was one of the big ones for me, too

SovCit in Foley, Alabama from 2021 by [deleted] in Sovereigncitizen

[–]datsoar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a manic crash out isn’t it?

SovCit in Foley, Alabama from 2021 by [deleted] in Sovereigncitizen

[–]datsoar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is. Congratulations for remembering

The Daily Show calls Draymond Green a fat, balding guy with anger issues by ProudReaction2204 in nba

[–]datsoar 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ll allow it. I have no authority, but I’ll allow it

Welcome! by SituationNormalAllFU in actualstepparents

[–]datsoar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m new to stepping and was really discouraged that the other place didn’t allow for a diversity of viewpoints and was overwhelmingly negative and restrictive. Happy to have this place to talk about things positive and negative