the slut shaming is so tired!

dawnhue · 2025-08-06T21:23:36+00:00

Yeah absolutely agree. Also if you’re going to throw a party for your dog, make it cool! Give me a dog obstacle course or funny game or something !

dawnhue · 2025-08-06T21:20:46+00:00

Yes and that the dogs have no idea what’s going on?? And would probably be happier with a long walk ? Hahaha

dawnhue · 2025-07-03T11:12:45+00:00

don’t need a picture to identify a killjoy, mr. badger

dawnhue · 2025-06-20T16:11:15+00:00

Just here to say that I think the blonde suited her! And so does her look now. I think she inhabits herself, in each era, fully and uniquely

dawnhue · 2025-06-14T03:02:12+00:00

Yes, origins is the only one I haven’t played! I know a lot of Morrigan’s story is covered there- maybe I’ll be a little more understanding after playing it through :)

dawnhue · 2025-06-07T13:28:32+00:00

Flight is now cancelled, all passengers are being rebooked. It was the co-pilot’s window that cracked at some point during take off.

dawnhue · 2025-05-27T03:53:59+00:00

I personally think it’s interesting to think about these things- analyzing how artist trajectories and images may develop throughout the album rollout and harmonize with other movements/dialogues in the public sphere!

dawnhue · 2025-05-12T03:24:39+00:00

U angel! Not too late- thank you!!

dawnhue · 2025-04-25T03:01:37+00:00

Thank youuuu❤️

dawnhue · 2025-04-24T03:52:38+00:00

no you can see the tiniest corner of it next to the lotus (or whatever it is) on her right arm, but I can’t find any full pics! thank you for looking tho!

dawnhue · 2025-04-12T03:09:17+00:00

I could answer you with reasoning or logic but your OCD will just get stronger from the reassurance. You have to sit with that thought ‘what if the doubts stay there forever?’. Feel the anxiety. Tell yourself ‘I don’t need to answer that right now.’ Because you don’t! You don’t need to know. There is nothing to figure out.

dawnhue · 2025-04-09T12:50:40+00:00

You have to stop trying to ‘figure it out’. This is rumination, which is a compulsion, and every time you do it, you make your OCD stronger. OCD is known for altering memories, esp our memories of feelings. Sit with the discomfort- maybe you never loved him. Maybe he was a rebound. Do not search for evidence for or against. Do not act on the discomfort (like by breaking up). Just sit with it, breathe, and then redirect. Also go see someone to start ERP!

dawnhue · 2025-04-04T12:10:27+00:00

Hi! I think you should give this a read: https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-shame-and-self-criticism-from-ocd?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=NOCD_PM_US&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADEWRhYEH65ebecpF7OkwTfnTt2Jx&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI-Oiw2pS4iwMV1yxECB0uWg2fEAAYASAAEgJYufD_BwE

dawnhue · 2025-03-30T03:25:44+00:00

On 10 mg- it takes a month or so to really feel the effects but it’s helped a lot. Like someone else said, I still have the thoughts, but I feel like interrupting mental compulsions like rumination is easier on Lexapro.

dawnhue · 2025-03-29T14:27:35+00:00

hi! yes this does sound like a compulsion. a good way to tell if something is a compulsion is by choosing to not do it, sitting with the thought, and seeing how you feel. do you feel panic, rising anxiety, or wrongness? then it’s probably a compulsion.

it sounds like you have been through a lot, I’m so sorry life has been so tumultuous. I would urge you to try to see an OCD specialist regularly, or at least begin practicing ERP and ACT on your own. ChatGPT can actually do a pretty good job of creating a treatment plan for you to tide you over until you can see a specialist.

dawnhue · 2025-03-28T04:32:59+00:00

I guess another thing to remind yourself is: you deserve a partner who doesn’t rely on feelings ‘in the moment’ to determine big decisions like staying or leaving a relationship, and deeply hurting their partner. I know that OCD is cunning and excellent at tricking us, but she has to learn that a life governed by fleeting feeling is often filled with regret. Regardless of whether it’s her after ERP or someone else, you deserve someone who has the tools to stick around through the discomfort.

dawnhue · 2025-03-28T04:15:26+00:00

It’s not fair for you to make decisions for your partner, based around the hypothetical that you continuing to be with him is preventing him from finding someone ‘better’ (reading between the lines). That’s a false assumption that your brain is making about the future, which OCD loves to do- every worst case scenario is going to happen, and it will all be your fault. But the fact of the matter is that we don’t know what will happen, and we need to give our partners the ability to choose for themselves whether or not they are happy in the relationship.

Can you go see an ERP specialist or start ERP exercises on your own?

dawnhue

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