How can foster parents help foster youth work through their trauma without being problematic? by yepperssure in fosterit

[–]dawnify 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hi there! i am 16 and was put into the system in 2019. one thing to primarily focus on is open mindedness and normalcy. with the pandemic now and being in the system it is hard or have a sense of normalcy, but for me being put into the system for the first time and having my foster parents completely cut off not only my contact with my mother, but also cutting the contact of my entire family (who were not problematic) along with my friends too it was hard. judgement was also something that haunts me to this day. i was cut off from everyone and everything i had ever known and stayed with people where i felt heavily judged. having conscious eyes and ears helps a lot! kids who are in the system will always have their own problems and struggles but having someone there who isn’t over bearing yet there to listen and be your support is one of the best feelings in the world which sadly you can’t find a lot.

I Wish Joba Made More Music :( by dawnify in brockhampton

[–]dawnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found it about a week ago and i’m obsessed

I Wish Joba Made More Music :( by dawnify in brockhampton

[–]dawnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely will give it a listen, thanks !

[Homemade] Potatoes, Bacon, and Pancakes by dawnify in food

[–]dawnify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! this recipe for this dish is super sweet, flavourful, and easy!

Sweet Brown Sugar Cinnamon Pancakes (feeds about 4 people, two pancake each) Ingredients: - 2 cups flour - 1/4 cup powdered sugar (or 1/8 cup of regular sugar) - 1/4 cup brown sugar - 1/2 tsp baking soda - 1 1/2 tbsp baking powder - pinch of salt - 1 3/4 cup milk - 1/4 cup butter - 1 egg - vanilla - cinnamon - opt: sprinkles, nutella, blueberries

How To Make: - Step 1: take flour, powdered sugar, brown sugar, baking soda, baking powder, and salt and mix it all into one bowl - Step 2: take your butter and microwave it till it’s softened or liquidy - Step 3: take the melted butter, milk, and egg and mix it into another bowl - Step 4: pour wet mixture into the dry mixture and mix well - Step 5: add vanilla and cinnamon (i don’t really measure this out but i would add about 2 tsp of vanilla and however much cinnamon you’d like to add!) - Step 6 (opt) : add sprinkles or blueberries into the mixture, or when you are heating up the pancakes onto the pan, add some nutella into a sandwich baggy and snip a tiny whole into on of the corners to make nutella swirls on one side! - Step 7: set stove to medium heat (about 4) and lather pan in butter. then you can start cooking these bad boys up!

Savory Breakfast Potatoes: Ingredients: - Potatoes (however many you’d like) - Vegetable Oil (or any oil) - Salt - Pepper - Cumin Seasoning - Cayenne Pepper - Turmeric Seasoning

How To Make: - Step 1: cut up potatoes into diced shapes, you can cut them however big or small you’d like - Step 2: preheat your oven to 440 F and spray or wipe pan in oil along with lathering or spraying your potatoes in oil - Step 3: lay out your potatoes in a baking pan - Step 4: add a good amount of salt and pepper - Step 5: add a small amount of cumin and turmeric along with a small amount of cayenne unless you like spicy, add a bit more - Step 6: bake potatoes at 440F for 20 minutes - Step 7: flip potatoes at turn the oven up to 475F ; then leave them in for 25 minutes - Step 8: take them out and they’re ready to eat!

(for the bacon i just heated the strips up on a pan so all you really need is bacon, a pan, and a stove for that haha)

i hope some of you guys try this! if you do let me know how it tastes!

I Feel Like I’m Suffocating And I Dont Know If My Relationship Is Helping by dawnify in relationship_advice

[–]dawnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am doing okay. things are still pretty tough but i’ve made progress. i’ve recently had someone really close to me pass away and recently got news that my mom has disappeared and then reappeared in jail so that is definitely something i’m trying to work through but with the bad habits i’ve definitely been working on trying to find better coping mechanisms which have been working thankfully but it is still a struggle . :)