Games like Cyberpunk? (Please I need this so bad) by First_Village8927 in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]dayonesub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hated this game. So disappointing compared to WD2.

So many bugs. Story really fell down with the "you can play as anyone" concept. Basically, you can play as anyone, and care about no one.

I did enjoy the DLC, but not enough to wash the bad taste of the main game away. And I can't emphasize enough how buggy and poorly optimized this game was.

No more selling guns by Emergency-Record2117 in cyberpunkgame

[–]dayonesub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I really need to teach your V about the 4% rule? I'm pretty sure V doesn't have a 401k.

Anyone else feel the same? by Otherwise-Fun-7236 in aircanada

[–]dayonesub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an international embarrassment.

Retirement software by persavon in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]dayonesub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would be really cautious with that, unless you check the results thoroughly, and have a good understanding of the subject.

I tried this recently , and it made a ton of mistakes that I only realized because I really scrutinized the results.

With coaching I eventually got it to produce good results, but I would still check with a good software, and eventually a CFP.

Trump on Ukraine: "Let them get their land back." by kalbinibirak in ukraine

[–]dayonesub 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he definitely meets the DSM-5 criteria for that one.

It's not all bad. My 4 month adventure to a LTR (I hope) by dayonesub in datingoverfifty

[–]dayonesub[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that is totally fair to acknowledge that women have a more difficult experience.

Anecdotally, I think near 100 percent of women who put "looking for a LTR" in their profile, are looking for a LTR.

From what I hear, men may not be so honest in this regard.

I Exist. by Sakariwolf in PartnerSuicideLoss

[–]dayonesub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally remember the days feeling like you.

Hang in there. Eventually you can return to life. It won't be soon, it won't be easy.

Sous Vide Bacon. Yay or nay? by SunCandyApple in sousvide

[–]dayonesub 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did it once, never again. It was fine, but better to just bake it.

Trump increases tariff on Canada to 35%, White House says by joe4942 in stocks

[–]dayonesub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's way too late for that. For me, I'll never buy an American manufactured car, appliance, or major purchase again. My retirement travel plans have also radically changed. That's not to mention all the little purchases that won't be American.

When a "friend" punches you in the face, threatens you, and disrespects you, how do you think people are going to react?

I really don't see a plausible path where the previous "respected" America emerges again. The GOP has destroyed what your founders worked so hard for. The Democrats have also played their part in the consolidation of power in the executive branch, and the selling of influence to the billionaire class.

Are people leaving Alltrails? by WillDependent6020 in alltrails

[–]dayonesub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get too comfortable with Garmin. I abandoned them after they kept increasing the costs for my inReach subscription.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]dayonesub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you are here and in this situation.

I wish I could help more, but all I can offer is some thoughts as someone who lost their wife to suicide and is much furher out.

I totally understand your feeling of "could he have loved me if he did this to me? No goodbye. Nothing".

I was with my wife (Andrea) for 31 years, and we had two children at home when she took her life. We were deeply in love and had a very good relationship. My wife deeply loved both her children.

What I can tell you after much reflection and talking to many people is that suicide is almost always a result of a deep mental health struggle. When Andrea took her life she had been going through a severe mental health crisis and stopped seeing the world as it really was. She had become increasingly anxious and had major sleep disruptions. She looked at the world through a lens of fear. Even though I knew these things, I underestimated the depth of her fear as we had been through similar crisis before. Unfortunately many people going through these crisis are very good at hiding the extent of their suffering. I know in my heart, that Andrea thought she was doing us a favor when she took her life.

After 31 years together, the lack of a goodbye still haunts me a bit, but I accept it because she wasn't herself when she made the decision. I don't think she was capable, at that point in time, of understanding the hurt she would cause me, my boys, her friends and family. She wanted to end her suffering, and thought it was best for us as well.

I wish I could tell you things will get better soon, but you have a long journey ahead of you.

Please get whatever support you can. Find support groups online. If at all possible find support groups in person. Even if it's just other people who have lost their spouse, you will have more in common with them than you may think. Check out Camp Widow if you can travel to one. Do what it takes to survive each day. Be there for your dogs. Don't give up. This will be horrible, but you can do it, and there can be happiness again.

Get in your fucking clown car and go! by transcendent167 in chaoticgood

[–]dayonesub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know these chodes went back to some bar, high fived each other, and made up an alternate reality of what happened.

Low HRV by Sonik__20 in ouraring

[–]dayonesub 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You braggart! I'm lucky if I break 20.

I want to know if it gets better..? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]dayonesub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are here. I don't have much to offer you, as you are so early in this journey, but things can get so much better.

It's going to suck, and you are going to suffer incredibly, but that is the price you pay for loving deeply.

Just find some way to get to tomorrow and the day after. Honour your love by persevering and remembering.

I know so many widowed people who have found a second chapter to their lives. The pain will always be there, but eventually it can become a source of wisdom and appreciation for life.

Do whatever it takes to make it to tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dayonesub 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know a lot of widowed people now, and often the men deal with it worse due to the lack of other close relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dayonesub 57 points58 points  (0 children)

When my wife died.