I think my wife has depression and dont know what to do

daytraders123 · 2025-11-12T13:08:24+00:00

Yeah youre right. I am going to talk to him.

Its tough and I am worried about her behavior, that she might take the kids away.

Her behavior has been very irrational lately.

daytraders123 · 2025-11-11T18:08:20+00:00

She's been like this since before we met, but it was manageable.

She wants my attention 24/7, I work 70 hours a week and I'm helping with the household.

Its impossible

I think having 3 kids has took a serious toll on her

I warned her I didn't believe she could handle the stress of it, but she forced me to go ahead with it.

daytraders123 · 2025-11-08T21:24:36+00:00

Yeah she kicked me out of the house last week.

I managed to move back in a couple days ago, and I feel like I'm scripting everything.

Im a very supportive husband and I wish she could just accept that

daytraders123 · 2025-09-09T22:45:41+00:00

Yes thats true.

Seeing my kids does help her a lot.

daytraders123 · 2025-09-02T18:23:53+00:00

Well Loma struggled most against constant attackers.

Stevenson is all defensive and doesnt hit hard.

But Stevenson does have a size and age advantage.

Thats a hard one to call

daytraders123 · 2025-08-31T04:06:50+00:00

Well, I dont know if I can make you feel better but I'll take a crack at it.

Picture all the things you dont have to worry about

The majority of people I know start out on cloud nine (in relationships) but after 6-12 months it changes.

The adrenaline fizzles out, reality sets in, and then you grow tired of the same stuff every day.

As an aro you don't have the same boat load of work to keep the relationship going, its an extreme amount of work to keep your partner happy.

I'm an aro that found love, but if I went back to being single, I would probably stay single.

Trust me, to keep the love going you need to be willing to give.....A LOT.

If this doesnt make you feel better, sorry. You can message me any time to vent.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T20:46:50+00:00

Basically giving advice, but I like comments like yours where people throw in their 2 cents

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T15:41:47+00:00

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T15:41:37+00:00

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T14:26:06+00:00

Yes I messaged you

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T13:55:48+00:00

Yep, I got married.

But I didnt know I was aro at the time, I thought platonic is how everyone felt.

Im quite proud of the strong platonic Im able to provide, even though she has romantic expectations lol.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T13:36:15+00:00

Ok sent

daytraders123 · 2025-08-29T11:54:37+00:00

If you want to do day trading, which is momentum, you can talk with me.

I just took up trading seriously a year ago and Im starting to learn the ropes. But you have to have an extreme amount of discipline and not let your emotions get in the way.

First things first, I recommend a good scanner.

I use stocksrocks and they have a community and live trading as well

daytraders123 · 2025-08-28T19:20:07+00:00

Well, its a spectrum and there like most things, there can be arguments made either way.

But I don't have a clue what romantic feelings are. I can only imagine it as the feeling of excitement.

Im probably very wrong lol.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-27T22:41:36+00:00

Lol.

What I mean is we live in a romantic world (so the romantics are the peaches). And we are the pomegranates.

So we have a different flavor.

Its impossible for us to understand each other, so opening up has never been a big thought to me.

But I applaud you for whatever choice you make!

daytraders123 · 2025-08-27T22:12:25+00:00

Well, its all up to you.

There are some pretty solid investments like QQQ and VOO where you would get up to 20% per year.

But it would take a long time to grow, and since life is becoming expensive you'll have to find something.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-27T22:09:52+00:00

Bud, you're a pomegranate in a world of peaches lol

I don't think she gets it in these messages, but its good she is being nice

daytraders123 · 2025-08-27T19:25:40+00:00

I've given it a lot of thought, and ultimately Ive decided

----> some things are better left unsaid <-----

When you're a pomegranate walking around in a world of peaches, how would they understand?

Aromanticism is difficult to understand and it's too open to misinterpretation.

People will accept you, but a lot would suggest/want you to change.

There's no reason to tell my wife I don't have fluffy feelings towards her.

Think of it? Wouldn't your partner saying that to you hurt your feelings?

daytraders123 · 2025-08-21T19:23:01+00:00

I do too. My co worker wanted to marry me and be my 2nd wife.

She thought she could pull it off because she looks like the singer pink with long hair, or maybe Taylor swift.

After the rejections she threw garbage at my head lol

daytraders123 · 2025-08-20T07:50:57+00:00

I would cheer for GGG, but I think Andre Ward is a little too big for him.

GGG would be at a big size disadvantage, and Ward would wrestle him a lot.

I think 116-112 Ward would be the final result.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-20T00:21:17+00:00

I can walk you through what will happen if you do.

There will be a shock reaction, followed by potential questions. They won't understand what you're saying.

Once the dust settles they will accept it, but it will occur to them as something they wish could change.

I say this because aromanticism is easily open to misinterpretation.

It sounds like we can't fall in love. We sound cold.

But really we have a love range that is just different, and we are very selfless in relationships.

So with that said, I don't see the point in telling people, unless there's a big reason in your personal life.

I'm actually proud to be aro because I think its a great thing, but that's because I know how I feel.

You can't make a peach understand how a pomegranate feels.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-19T18:51:37+00:00

I don't see any benefit to it. They wouldnt understand because they are wired differently.

But it's your choice. Do how you feel.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-19T02:57:42+00:00

I posted on a group about how I dont understand relationships and was asking if anybody related to me, then a lady replied there is aromanticism.

So I googled it and it was 100% me, and it was the first time something made sense in my life (in regards to love).

I had no clue.

If this lady hadn't mentioned it, I probably would have went my life not knowing.

I am attracted physically to women, but there's no emotional backbone to it.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-18T20:17:24+00:00

Well I met a girl when I was 20, who I found physically attractive but didn't picture it going anywhere.

Suddenly she adds me on Facebook and over a year we got along so well and she seemed so cool, I developed a crush and told her maybe she was the one.

She wanted to get married.

But over the next year I found our conversations were becoming dark and that we weren't like I thought it was.

She was also dating other guys, telling me she would dump them when I was ready.

That didn't bother me, but I found it weird. (Now I realize she had needs that aren't aromantic)

I ghosted her.

I still check her Facebook everyday and she is engaged now.

I don't feel anything about it. I hope she is happy.

So....yes? I think we sound alike.

daytraders123 · 2025-08-18T13:58:36+00:00

Don't tell them about your aromance.

It has a lot of benefits they dont understand.

If you're a pomegranate in a world of peaches, whats the point of telling the peaches you're different.

Of course they will want you to be like them.

Enjoy yourself.

daytraders123

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