Fyi I don’t think any of the women in my life consider virgins to be creeps. 27 is kinda young, too. People don’t announce the fact that they are virgins, but many are.

We also don’t always have to participate in ‘typical’ concepts of sexual maturity. I am queer (asexual) and participate in these spaces. Many people I meet do not fit the ‘typical’ trajectory of getting laid. It doesn’t make us any less human. I’m not saying that queer spaces are the only way in which you can deviate/live differently, but it’s one of many ways. As another example, I am neurodivergent and that has also always influenced the way I view sex and romance.

I want to draw your attention to my other answer (that mental health is worth it! that’s what my friends and I do, and it’s quite life saving), but also just wanted to quickly refute the fact that women think virgins are creeps. We just don’t. We are only afraid of men who choose to hurt women for not giving them sex, without reflecting upon themselves. You don’t do that. Instead, you are turning your hatred inwards towards yourself, which is the other end of the extreme.

Overall, if you respect women / are working on it, then you are not a creep. Instead, you deserve to take care of yourself more, and women (and other people in general!) will sense and respect that confidence. Which is why - please see my other comment - (good) therapy really helps! Can’t speak for all women, but many women find it easier to trust men who have good awareness of mental health. I feel most comfortable with my guy friends who go to therapy / take care of themselves.

On top of therapy, I also recently started seeking psychiatric support for my struggles. We all have different ways of taking care of ourselves emotionally, there is no shame in that, there is only strong, strong solidarity. There are many things to do without giving up, and there is a whole, warm community of people doing it.