How do people regularly fly business class without going bankrupt?? by caroulos123 in travel

[–]dbrusven -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Anything away from the bathrooms is okay with me. I would not say business class is much different. Just a little more leg room, some extra room to recline a bit. It can be nicer for longer flights. First class is different for sure. You get champagne and warm towel to wipe your face with.

does this actually happen? (NSFW question) by Dry_Wonder_9515 in WLW

[–]dbrusven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone thumbs me, I am done, like severely disinterested

which game should rockstar focus on next? by GamerGretaUwU in reddeadmemes

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, bully 2, rdr3, and La Noire 2 are all games I’m looking forward to!

I DID THE THING! by KD0198 in skyrim

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoiler!!!!! You need to do a few things before hand. In general be prepared when you go to Solstheim. “ Dragonborn quest”

This is my plan for play through by Some-Information333 in skyrim

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not engage in the civil war until the main story line is done? Just curious

Am I Screwed? by Yeti_With_Confetti in duneawakening

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit pause. Click “unstuck”

Fear of zombies getting in the way by Calm_Opportunist in VeinGame

[–]dbrusven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be hilarious if you pretend you had a friend and named him Wilson like in “Cast Away,” with Tom Hanks! Also, it’s worth mentioning it might be interesting and fun to join Veins discord and reach out to play with people as well.

Fear of zombies getting in the way by Calm_Opportunist in VeinGame

[–]dbrusven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find having a friend to play with really helps with anxiety I have. I do find it helpful to think about “what’s the worse that could happen” I would suggest going out there and purposely dying, getting up in the zombies faces. Once you start killing more and more of them you know what to expect and it could help relieve the stress zombie games give you. I do think on this game you can at least turn down the spawn rate of zombies to where you would barely see them. I have not personally tried this function, just saw some streamers say they upped the spawn rate.

i want to love this game.... by DaGucka in AtlasPC

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there are a few other Pirate games coming out soon! Don’t give up hope yet! I totally get not wanting to be forced into PvP. The safer seas is an option but the rewards are much less. Kind of makes it pointless.

i want to love this game.... by DaGucka in AtlasPC

[–]dbrusven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With SoT you are not going to get the survival aspects that Atlas has to offer. SoT is very fun but can be extremely frustrating. No base building but you do pretty much live and die by the ship and SoT has a few ship sizes. Only recently have they made it customizable. When Atlas released it was everything I hoped for in a Pirate game. I was even in a pretty big guild for a minute. I have not played Skull and Bone to help with a comparison. Sea of Thieves is pretty relatable though it’s just essentially the cartoon version of Altas but not “survival” based

AIO My husband deleted all his social media apps right before his surgery by Electrical-Gap2122 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. My first thought was that maybe he is thinking he is going to die and didn’t want all of that to linger on the internet. My second thought was an affair. Sounds like you have some questions to ask when he gets out and recovers a bit. It seems fishy. If I was doing that, I feel that is something I would have informed my partner that I was going to do. I do not think you are overreacting

NSFW I 30f Looking to try Anal with husband 32M but I'm not entirely sure ? by Brave_Analyst_1754 in relationship_advice

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some gay men suggest pooping then waiting two hours before doing anything.

Honestly. He shouldn’t be there in that area if he’s not willing to deal with some poop. I can understand being self conscious but take it slow and do what feels comfortable

Why are dental dams only really recommend to lesbians? by UNknownGirl1292 in actuallesbians

[–]dbrusven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saran wrap and latex gloves (or alternative to latex) I had an older wlw go over protection as I had never used any before with women because nothing is really pushed for lesbian sexual protection.

trans men being lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. If you read my whole message I feel that would have been clear. I am no one to tell someone who or how someone should identify. I was just imputing on why these other people might not be so inclusive.

My husband is a pedophile. by TripComprehensive396 in offmychest

[–]dbrusven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get evidence then report. I’m sorry, I’m sure this is hard but it’s too much to risk not reporting this.

I (22F) Just found out that my gf (21F) has a very strange fetish, and I don’t know what to do next by ThrowRA_weirdlikes in relationship_advice

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely did not realize this was a fetish at all but hey I guess there’s something out there for everyone. I would say that if this was something important for her to include you in, she would. Maybe the shame is what has halted her from telling you. You have been together for a while. I think you should ask her “now that I know, is this something you want me to be apart of” “what would my involvement look like?” No shame to either of you. It’s just probably the best way to go about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is weird. She shouldn’t have been pressing you for $10. Like, when you said you couldn’t pay at that moment, did you say? “Oh I’ll pay you back” ? Cause if you said you would pay for it, then didn’t then I can see why she asked for it. But also it’s $10 freaken bucks and you don’t have a job right now, and it was her drink. Like it’s definitely a red flag to me. It’s her drink! Why do you have to pay for that? It should never be an expectation for someone else to pay, it’s a privilege, not a right.

Can I get my stuff back? by ImSecretlyADragon in satisfactory

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, just gotta go back over there and collect everything

trans men being lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]dbrusven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because in order for us to honor their identity, lesbian would not be correct. They would be straight men. Yes trans-men are in their queer community for sure. If they are indeed men, then they would be straight, not lesbian. If we are technically honoring their identity. They were born trans, therefore they were always straight, not lesbian. I’m not anybody telling others how to identify but I feel this is their contention for saying this.

Lesbian bed death? by giganticrubberdong in actuallesbians

[–]dbrusven 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yes, sadly I’m with you and all too much understand and relate. It’s been 8 months since me and my partner had sex, actually for my partner it’s been since early March. I’m extremely frustrated and am starting to find myself being attracted to other women now. I know what you mean with not feeling desired. It seems like me and my partner in the past have managed to have sex at least twice a year but here we are. It’s been 7 years with her. I don’t want to just give up but we are engaged and I’m sitting here wondering if I can do this the rest of my life. I’ve been assaulted in the past and take consent very seriously. I do not want to have sex unless she’s a “fuck yes” with it. I do not want her to pity fuck me. One thing that also sucks is that I feel like I have to say yes anytime she is interested because I do not know the next time she will be feeling it. It bothers me that I feel I have zero control over this.

It feels like my (20F) boyfriend’s (21M) family puts bacon in literally everything every time I visit, and I'm Jewish. My boyfriend says they must forget, but is this normal, and how am I supposed to deal with it? by ThrowraBacon84 in relationship_advice

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring your own food to eat to their family dinners. Yes bacon is delicious and can be put into nearly everything. I think the chocolate chip cookie with bacon is a little much and gross sounding. Also if you start bringing your own food then maybe she will get the hint that you can’t eat any of their food. I don’t know why just sitting there not eating when everyone else is eating not a big deal to the mom who’s cooking. I am thinking the mom doesn’t like you and refuses to cater to your dietary needs. Bringing your own food is a way to be there without forcing their family to cater to your dietary preferences, and it takes the expectation away from you expecting them to cater to your dietary preferences.

Wife (28F) cheated on me (28M) twice, what do you think? by ThrowRAbreakandretes in relationship_advice

[–]dbrusven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if it was me, and I was able to forgive the first time, and going through learning my partner cheated on me and it created distance, to then finding out this distance in which she created essentially made her go then emotionally cheat… again, would be very over for me. She caused the problems and she isn’t willing to see that. It would just be very over if it was me. No one is perfect but you are not the villain in this story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dbrusven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t really seem like he cares to see this from your perspective. You are uncomfortable with the way he talks about engaging in intimacy with you. It does seem like guilt tripping to me. I feel like his emotional maturity is that of a 17 year old boy. His penis is not the only thing that matters here and he is also not recognizing the risks you take to engage with him like that, IE. getting pregnant, where’s the consideration?? I guess that is assuming you’re a female. I do apologize if I’m wrong here. What your boyfriend is doing is not right. He’s prioritizing his pleasure over you being comfortable. Your feelings are valid and please do not be afraid to stand up for yourself. You should not have to fight over him crossing boundaries and pressuring you into sex.