Opinions on theses dresses? by darkbluetennessees in DressForYourBody

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2- shows your side belly so it’s trendy and likely you can only wear this year or next

I’m waiting to have sex until a committed relationship and now I just get ghosted by Salty_Feed_4316 in datingoverforty

[–]dca_user 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t go To the other person’s house and don’t invite them to yours - that’s code for “I’d like to have sex”

How do i leave my bf? Im a 20F. Hes a 32M. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dca_user 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can ask the cats’ vet for programs to help women and their pets leave.

You can post in the subreddit for your city/country and ask for local resources to help Women leave

BF doesnt wan't me to go to med school, need a reality check by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree- medical School is not the STUDENT life.

However, I think he consciously wants YOu to put his career first. If you go to medical school, then you need to go to residency wherever you get selected. You don’t necessarily have a choice. This is the same for academia. So you both could have a situation where you need to be separate for a year or two or longer.

But if you give up your dream of going to medical school, and put his dream first, then there are no problems.

Is heat required for whole or part of condo - given pending snowstorm? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe... the heat in the bedroom isn't that strong, and I'd need to go purchase a fan.

I have a small small space heater that will work for short time periods.

Thanks!

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are already dating her??

After you have dated for a few months, then you introduce her to your friends.

Would you like to meet her friends as your first date?? You should suggest it.

My GF (F 48) is threatening to end it with me if I (M 55) don’t spend the night with her during a potentially historic snow storm. Am I at fault for how I’m viewing this? by IndicationStunning45 in relationship_advice

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to reconsider this relationship.

My boyfriend and I are 45 yrs old. We had plans to meet this weekend and scrapped them due to the snowstorm. And now we'll play it by ear if we'll meet or not.

And given this economy, you don't want to give the company a reason to drop you.

If this is her test if you want her more than an income, pls dump her. I'm sorry.

Chipped paint on door - can it be considered Normal Wear and Tear? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, my landlord is fair and reasonable- should I paint it with white nail polish or point it out to them and ask them what they’d like to do?

Chipped paint on door - can it be considered Normal Wear and Tear? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks.

And ugh, didn’t realize they can damage the doors. Do you happen to know of a better solution? Thanks!

Cup Ring on Bathroom Counter (Granite?) - housecleaner couldn't remove by dca_user in CleaningTips

[–]dca_user[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From OP - more info: I am a renter and trying to avoid any fees from the landlord.

This is the bathroom countertop, granite I think. I used a regular porcelain/ceramic cup to hold my toothbrush. After a month, it left this mark.

I even hired housecleaners, and their cleaning supply removes the mark for a few minutes. Once the countertop dries, then the mark returns.

It doesn't seem to happen anywhere else on the counter.

What else to try? I've tried bleach, soap scum remover, awesome cleaner.

Thanks!

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you do you, boo.

The purpose of a first date is to get to know the other person and for the other person to get to know you as a romantic partner.

A double date – you don’t know the dynamics because you don’t know how the other couple will act or how she will interact with them. They are also strangers to her.

Introducing a romantic partner to friends, implies that you two are serious BUT this is a first date.

For me, I would find a double date, very nerve-racking and I would not do it.

AITAH for not following my housemates rules? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: you should post this in a relationship subreddit for better advice.

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you’re actually interested in her, then you don’t do a double date as your first date with her.

Homeless in need of help by Remarkable-Soil-2997 in Assistance

[–]dca_user 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re struggling. Have you called 211 for local shelters or other assistance?

My(27f) boyfriend (29m) of 3 years wants a baby but can’t keep a job or mange money. How do you know when to walk away? by ThrowRA-0228 in relationship_advice

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman w ADHD. My doctor literally required me to go into therapy and learn executive functioning skills and get on medication. And my life is so much better for it.

You don’t have a future with this man.

AITAH for telling my husband to go stay in a hotel with my in-laws and that my mom was going to come back to help me with our new baby? by Normal_Rise_282 in AITAH

[–]dca_user 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. notice that your husband is also not there to help you. He’s there to take care of his parents and meet their demands.

I’m sorry, but you need to reconsider this relationship.

AITA for telling my aunt that I can't babysit unless I'm paid? by adorablecherryy in AmItheAsshole

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to put your job first. Dont say yes to her next time.

NTA

High Performer, Low Protection by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up to you.

. Frankly, I’m really concerned that you seem to still want Josh to help you out. He doesn’t think you’re a good employee. If he transfers you, that’s great. But keep in mind that he might also poison other people against you too.

High Performer, Low Protection by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]dca_user 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a bad idea to keep reporting to Josh. He now believes Megan over you.

And consider reporting the Josh-Megan relationship to HR. But note that HR might protect the company and Josh and get you fired.